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1. RELATIVES AND WELL-WISHER
Doctor is also a part of the society. He should participate in social activities but with a limit.
Sometimes too much respect gained through social activities or giving too much time in social activities may retard your professional progress. This is natural phenomenon.
Give ideas instead of momentary help to your unearning relatives and others in need. They should be persuaded to earn themselves. Help only those who appreciate its value.
If your nearest and dearest is in any trouble, your dedication to your profession or business should not cause you to ignore them.
Don't hesitate to ask for help of any kind from your well-wishers when you required. Don't expect or wait in hope that they will come forward to help you. Sometimes even a closest well-wisher will hesitate to co-operate you on the assumption that you may fell bad
Remember if you want to achieve any goal, you may have to loose some thing, even that which you love most.
You must always remember that any thing money or reputation gained in an easy way is always difficult to retain.
2. CONFIDENCE
Never allow to develop the inferiority complex leading to lack of self confidence, improper unworthy malign change in personality.
Don't allow to develop imbalance between your internal strength and external atmosphere.
Self confidence can be restored by patience and with strong will power. Forget your wrong decision and wrong work which you have done in the past. Remember "done is done and that cannot be undone now."
First think about the people of low brilliancy and less resourceful than you. Compare your personal character, ability unit, radiance and sharpness of understanding with others. You will find these are not equally distributed among all.
Remember that you are also distinguished and specially exceptional person and no body can replace you from your own place. Try to find out your ability to do good work, help and assistance capacity by virtue of your own natural gifted character before going to sleep in the night hours.
Improve your relation with family members, friends and well wishers by active and heartily participation in talks and discussion. Every thing will set alright although there may be some abnormal feeling initially.
Select one field or subject of your interest, work hard, keep yourself busy and try to master of the subject.
Now assess your confidence and alteration in character. Never allow to rule the inferiority complex on your mind. Keep patience, and change your life activity with internal strength.
3. LIE AND THEFT
In certain situations, speaking the truth may be harmful to you or your society or profession. These situations mostly arise while dealing with the people in authority, competitors, persons jealous or suspicious of you.
No body can be cent percent impartial, and no one can be impartial in all situations, so comment only when you are sure of your facts and you read the all situations, otherwise it will be better to keep yourself silent.
Theft is a sin. However, every man has done this sin little or more in his life. The theft may be of money, things, articles, books or literature. No body can claim that he is cent percent honest in this regard. A man has many chances in his life to commit this sin of theft to fulfil his basic needs or to gain more as per his ambition or to get more success or popularity of his name. Feel yourself guilty, minimise the sin as much as you can. God forgives the person who performs the theft for the welfare of human kind.
4. MISCELLANEOUS
If malicious rumours are being propagated against you, reply only at appropriate time. Do not waste your time and disturb yourself unduly. Patience always speaks the truth.
You can not change any body�s nature or educate him immediately. Health education is of prime importance and mass health education and consciousness are separate thing than the moral education. So do not waste your time in changing the nature of the person. It will change gradually by only his own experience.
Do not claim that you are always punctual. Sometimes too much self control, discipline, etiquette and simplicity may make you impractical.
Never discuss unnecessarily with little educated people or who do not understand the subject. This will waste your time and energy both.
Do not set unrealistic objectives in your profession. These will disturb your nature, cheerfulness, life style and humour.
Do not compromise with any body where your goodwill, image or reputation is likely to be affected. Only a clean image will allow your skill and talent to brighten and direct you towards a leading position in life.
Delay is better than doing something wrong in hurry or without experience. It is just like �delay is better than never�.
Do not rely on any body too much, although you cannot work without trust. No body can be cent percent reliable in all situations.
Situations never remain the same. So always keep some reservation in your mind, only doubt should not disturb your peace and progress. However, never show, or act on, suspicion without confirmation.
You should always compromise to some extent to end the disputes with those whom you consider bad, otherwise how can you consider yourself a good man. Before desiring anything, learn to live without it, otherwise you will always feel tense.
Never show pride. Always behave in a normal way. You are a creature of nature, you did not make yourself.
Never claim that you are not a selfish. Your duty is to act like this. Others will tell, you are selfish or not.
When you cannot do work of a person approaching you, do say him no, but with smile. Not doing work because of impossible work, keeping pending will hamper your progress and create problems and enemy for you.
Always honour your promises except when your promise has been taken in a dishonest way, because of undue pressure, by creating confusion or by misrepresentation and also when these may harm more than the gain not only for yourself, but also to others.
Before giving time to anybody, assess the person whether he really deserves the same or not. Utilise your time properly and avoid complication by unreliable talks or discussion.
Do not be revengeful. A desire to take revenge will always disturb your peace of mind.
Do not believe too much in astrology and astrological forecast. Its correctness is still to be proved. Do your work as per your schedule and programme. On the contrary, you should not criticise the astrology or palmistry as you do not know about this subject.
When you work anywhere it is necessary to grade each step to evaluate your progress by using some criteria like very poor, average, good, excellent etc. Progressive man should be able to make the image of himself or of the firm where he works, one step upward the ladder towards the improvement. The man who is master of the subject may be able to make his image two step upward rapidly. An unsuccessful performance of duty or assigned work could mean that the image or popularity or good will would move downward the ladder.
Every good result produces five times increase in your reputation and goodwill. On the contrary, every unfavourable result ultimately keeps your reputation down twenty times. You must always remember that any thing; money or reputation, gained in an easy way is always difficult to retain.
If the sentiments or the honour of elders, teachers or seniors are affected too much, you should always be ready to compromise or sacrifice although you may be logically correct.
By unethical work and creating bad image in society, you are causing more obstruction than the benefit through the wealth or capital you acquire for the next generation.
Even a very good matured and principled man may sometimes not behave in a manner you expect, due to some unknown circumstances, or work load. Do not form a premature impression of him, until you have studied his circumstances properly.
You should not deceive any body. Ignore the person who has deceived or created problem to you. To neutralize a problem, think sincerely about the situation, be confident, have patience, work hard with concentration. Continue your efforts till you overcome the problem. Believe that "truth always prevails".
Puzzling or confusion is not a cure of any problem, but confusion itself is a problem and it also increases the problem. Tolerance with patience solves it.
During general discussion with any body always let him feel that you are his man and your knowledge and resources will be at his disposal on justified grounds. Do not mark a dominant image which may create jealousy. Everyone likes good principles, but he always ignores them. Always remember and apply good principles at the appropriate time.
Do not hold any personal grudge towards any body. Justified complaints should be put at right time through proper channel. Do not take undue advantage of any body specially those who are weak or passing through a difficult situation. Undue advantage will ultimately harm you.