You are treading on dangerous ground here. A frind of mine who is a prostitute once told me its better if we never get to touch our fantises then we still have something exciting to dream about. Ive found that to be true. You have to ask your self what is uncle chris hanging around for. Hes hoping for you to get thoose feelings from lonelines then when he gets what he wants you wont see so much of uncle chris. Love and sex are not the same thing. You can have one without the other. Sex is an instinctive urge to assure reproduction of the speices. True love is a gift for the soul. Only humans confuse the two.
Try to get some one to watch the child for a few days and go on the road with your husband. See what he faces. If he dosent want you to go then ask your self what he is doing while hes away. Then you two might might be able to work out a soultion thats good for both of you. If you have needs to be taken care of  as we all do then get you a device. If your tired of that then  find you someone that dont know you and you dont know him. That will be safer for your relationship but chris is not the answer to your problem.
Dont be ruled by your lust, use your brain. And dont bet on uncle chris being that close a friend after the sex. Then you will here stuff from uncle chris - oh well ive got something to do today, i cant come over, oh some old collage buddies are in town ill see you another time. Let your brain rule your life hon not your lust.

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