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Jean
Thompson stood in front of her fifth-grade class on
the very first day of school in the fall and told the
children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at her
pupils and said that she loved them all the same, that
she would treat them all alike. That was impossible
because there in front of her, slumped in his seat on
the third row, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.
Mrs.
Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed
he didn't play well with the other children, that his
clothes were unkempt, that he constantly needed a bath,
and that Teddy was unpleasant. It got to the point during
the first few months that she would actually take delight
in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold
X's and then marking the F at the top of the paper biggest
of all. Because Teddy was a sullen little boy, no one
else seemed to enjoy him either.
At
the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required
to review each child's records and put Teddy's off until
last. When she opened his file, she was in for a surprise.
His
first-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright, inquisitive
child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and
has good manners - he is a joy to be around."
His
second-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student
well-liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because
his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must
be a struggle."
His
third-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy continues to work
hard but his mother's death has been hard on him. He
tries to do his best but his father doesn't show much
interest and his home life will soon affect him if some
steps aren't taken."
Teddy's
fourth-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and
doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have
many friends and sometimes sleeps in class. He is tardy
and could become a problem."
By
now Mrs. Thompson realized the problem but Christmas
was coming fast. It was all she could do, with the school
play and all, until the day before the holidays began
and she was suddenly forced to focus on Teddy Stoddard.
Her
children brought her presents, all in beautiful ribbon
and bright paper, except for Teddy's, which was clumsily
wrapped in the heavy, brown paper of a scissored grocery
bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle
of the other presents. Some of the children started
to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some
of the stones missing, and a bottle of perfume that
was one-quarter full.
She
stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how
pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing
some of the perfume behind her wrists.
Teddy
Stoddard stayed behind just long enough to say, "Mrs.
Thompson, today you smelled just like my mom used to."
After
the children left she cried for at least an hour.
On
that very day, she quit teaching reading, and writing,
and speaking. Instead, she began to teach children.
Jean Thompson paid particular attention to one they
all called "Teddy."
As
she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive.
The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded.
On days there would be an important test, Mrs. Thompson
would remember that cologne. By the end of the year
he had become one of the smartest children in the class,
and well, he had also become the "pet" of the teacher
who had once vowed to love all of her children exactly
the same.
A
year later she found a note under her door, from Teddy,
telling her that of all the teachers he'd had in elementary
school, she was his favorite.
Six
years went by before she got another note from Teddy.
He then wrote that he had finished high school, third
in his class, and she was still his favorite teacher
of all time.
Four
years after that, she got another letter, saying that
while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in
school, had stuck with it, and would graduate from college
with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs.Thompson
she was still his favorite teacher.
Then
four more years passed and yet another letter came.
This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's
degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter
explained that she was still his favorite teacher but
that now his name was a little longer. The letter was
signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, M.D.
The
story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another
letter that spring. Teddy said he'd met this girl and
was to be married. He explained that his father had
died a couple of years ago and he was wondering...well,
if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the pew usually
reserved for the mother of the groom.
Guess
what, she wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones
missing, and I bet on that special day, Jean Thompson
smelled just like... well, just like the way Teddy remembered
his mother smelling on their last Christmas together.
THE MORAL: You
never can tell what type of impact you may make on anothers
life by your actions or lack thereof. Consider this
fact in your venture through life. Please think before
you act. Things are not always as they appear to be.
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