The Role of Women In Present Sceneriao
The women That (Zanana) is not simply mere a word but she is the
creator of this whole universe.women is recognised in different
forms.She is a girl,wife,sister and above all the soft hearted
mother.From all the forms desceribed above she is best recognised as a
mother.The mother who is caring,loving,the person who is responsible
for inherting the true sanskaras to the family/to the whole community.It
is the women who carries the sankaras and dharma forward.
The women as a wife has lot of responsibilities.The whole family rely on
her.When Women becomes wife she has lot of tasks which have to be
accomplished by her.These tasks are both simple and tedious but it is
the women who with her courage and inner strength manages all the tasks
well.Women is the most beautiful and important creation of God whom the
God has given an unending patience,tolerance and above all a heart
full of love.But this does not mean that women are weak and should be
subjected to any kind of torture.It should be noted that whenever the
Artrocities were done agaist women they have took the form Of Maa
kali,Durga,Rani Lakshmi Bhai and many more and vanishing all the
demons.
It is important to Quote the lines of Great saint of this Century
Pt.Raghunath Ji Kikloo who always used to tell that women is the true
Greh laxmi with whom the true sanskaras are inherited in home.The lines
in kashmiri whom he used to tell are as under.
"Yath Garas manj (Zanane) hunz Bae kadre che sapadan su Gara chuna Zah
ta falan ta fulan.Tath Garas manj che dardreta ta shikas evan ta su
garah che varan sapdan.ath Garas manj Zanane hund adar ta satkar chu
sapdan su gara chu hanesha falan ta fulan,tath garas manj chun na kah
te apada yasankat evan.Tath garas manj che maj laxmi Hamesha Sakar
rupas manj virajman aasan."
The meaning in english is as under...
In the homes were women are ill treated and subjected to torture and
brutalities that home never prospers.That home has to pass through tough
times and poverty and darkness comes to that home.In the homes were
women are respected and given love and affection that home shines like a
star in the sky.Happiness always remain in that home and Mata Laxmi
always remains in its true form in that home .No Trouble can dare to
enter that home."
But inspite of knowing the truth the brutalities on women in the
name of dowry or any other things are increasing.In some cases the women
who is unable to bring the reqired dowry is subjected to various types
of tortures.In some worst cases she is even burnt to death by her in
law's.I appeal to all to say no to this evil devil and accept the women
in its true form.
Now we should move to other form of the women which is also important
to explain.When the women is married and she comes to her hubbies's
home the first thing which she tells is that she does not want to remain
with her in-laws and in this way the men are seperated from thier
parents which is not a good thing.She must understand that the her
in'lawas are also like their father and mother who have sacrificed
every thing for his child and it is due to their sacrifices that he
(Husband has attained this position).The wife must undrestand it fully
which will only come when she has inherited good sanskaras from her
family.The parents are next to god and we should give due respect and
regards to our parents.This is our tradition and dharma.
One thing should be kept in mind when women becomes some body's wife
and left her original home and goes to her hubbie's home.She should
forget her ancestoral home and accept her hubbie's home as her final
home and should try to induce her good sanskaras which she has
inherited from her parents in her new home as much as possible.She
should act like a Diplomat and should make the home really like an
heaven on earth and only the women has the power to do it no body else
can do it.I know that today's women are liberal ,modern and self
dependent.This does not means that they should forget their age old
sanskaras but they should blend both the things well and i am sure that
they can do it.
At the end i conclude this with the note that it is only the women who
builds up the nation and all communities and is only person who builds
the entire society and who bridges up the gaps in homes and makes the
home like an heaven on this earth.I pray to God to give our women all
sort of strength,Knowledge,Tolerance and every thing in order to make
this world a happier place to live.
jai Guru dev
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