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Frequently Asked Questions
Q:How do you make love to a car or as is often phrased, "how the hell do you fuck a car?"?
A:Dekhyrs' answer is "up the tailpipe" which works quite well with many cars. However if you checkout my manual, you'll find there is far more to enjoy about a hot car than his or her pipe.
Q:Why would you want to fuck a car?
A:Like any fetish, because I find it enjoyable. It's a simple, harmless fetish that does have the added bonus of screwing around with the heads of people who are "too" straight or vanilla for their own good. I get a very sensual pleasure from the various surfaces, smells, tastes and looks of a hot car. There's a thrill in the ride often, and there's often a fair degree of imaginary roleplay at work.
Q:What do you mean you talk to them and you roleplay with them?
A:Whilst not entirely essential, imaginary roleplay has given my fetish a dimension that perhaps is tough to explain to most folks. If however you've ever enjoyed any form of sexual roleplay such as BDSM or other scenes, you might understand that temporarily intellect is put away for a while and imagination comes out to play in a big way. This is a hell of a turn on, and perhaps is where part of our childhood imagination survives the ultra rational reasoned world of the functioning adult. Of course I *know* full well that they don't talk, they don't have "spirits" really and that they are just constructs. Thankfully, just like suspending belief to enjoy a book, play or movie, rational skeptical reasoning doesn't have to interfere with pleasure, it all about balance. There is a time and a place for most things.
Q:Have you ever considered getting help or that you need help?
A:No, not really. I spent quite enough time on my own research to be quite confident that there is nothing much wrong with me in this context. Like most people I get bouts of depression occasionally, I can be obsessive at times and be mildly addictive to things I enjoy. I have studied a certain amount of hypnotherapy, nlp, brief therapy, cognitive behavioural therapy and other areas. This was to gain understanding rather than as a future career. All my work indicates that simple association to strong feelings when young is the reason for the start of the fetish. Reinforcement and sexual reward made it more pleasurable over time. No real Fruedian parental crap comes into it either.
Q:So, do you think it's normal to fuck cars?
A:Ah, a lovely old chestnut this. The "normal" debate. What is normal, is the stock answer I shall start with. It's normal for me. It's normal for other car fetishists. It's not normal for a hetereosexual vanilla guy, in that it's outside of his range of sexual behaviour. Is normal a value judgement or a judgement of factual circumstance? Think about it. For many, "normal" means permissable, moral even obligatory. For me "normal" actually means harmless in part.
Q:Can you be "cured"?
A:Whatever for my dear? If I wished to quit, I suppose with the research I've done, I probably could reduce the interest and focus on new fetishes (replacement doesn't work, but addition does for some). I don't have any need to so I won't. I enjoy my fetish and I have to admit I do enjoy getting up the noses of anyone who is overly straight and tries too hard to object. Perverse I know, but haven't you ever popped a zit, or teased someone who's attitude annoys you?
Q:Is it illegal?
A:In private no. In public you are subject to normal indecency laws. You are harming no-one nor any animals so legislation is unlikely.
Q:Is it a sin?
A:I hope so! Ok, well really I don't do religion and I hope that religion and I will mind our own business. Religion should have no say in the legal world, nor in my life and that all I have to say here on the matter.
Q:Are you going to produce any more action shots or video? Or more stories?
A:Pornography like a video will be available upon private request and at my discretion only. I don't intend to post explicit photos unless I outlay the cost of a bona fide adult site. I've worked hard on these websites and do not wish to lose them due to TOS about nude photos. Stories, I write only rarely and often in an emotional rush. I may put up further stories but each page has to be handcrafted as I do not possess all the skills needed to turn this template into a data driven site. Yet. When I do, if I do, then contributions will be welcome.