| (tip number 1) the best source is the human brain. seek out your oldest and most cooperative relative to help you build your family tree before everything gets lost in translation. / transmission. and while doing this, keep in mind that timing is everything. time your research during family events (all saints day, christmas, etc) when the not-so-seen-often relatives usually come out. it is during these times when things family are usually discussed openly and candidly. however, be discreet on querrying events that are supposed to be discussed in private to remain in good terms with everyone. and when the information starts pouring in, be like a boy scout (laging handa - meaning: always ready). be ready to record all relevant information in hard copy that you can retrieve later on when you need to. that means not relying on your 286-era brain to remember everything as you will most likely err; and establish your own dependable system of information classification and retrieval. good luck with the hunt, and may you find reliable sources that despite their 286-era brain is still dependable, notwithstanding their mood... [ addendum: so as not to confuse oneself further, concentrate only on one family line at a time. that is, if your father - concentrate only on his family line, before you get confused with relatives from your mother's family line ] |