My Best Friends

Ask just about anyone who knows me: My friends are my life. Growing up, I didn't always have a lot of friends, so now that I do, I make sure to do everything in my power to make sure that they are happy. I love them more than anything in the world. Each one has changed me in some way, helping to make me the person that you are discovering as you browse among these pages. So here is an introduction to the most important people in my life for all of the viewers, along with a personal message for all of my friends in case they're reading this, too.

Jen | Angie | Nicki | Scott | Andrea | Katy |Others | Internet Friends | quotes |

Jen

Jen, walking straight out of an Abercrombie & Fitch ad. :-)

Aliases: Pookah, Jen-Bug

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Age: 24

Birthday: Oct 4, 1976

Lovelife: Single

Hobbies: Reading, singing, drinking, dancing, adopting psychotic puppies :), rambling, art, learning languages.

Profession: Graduate Student and Teaching Assistant at U. of Cincinnati.

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This is the longest history of the page, mainly because I've known Pookah all my life. Literally. She's my older sister, so she's constantly been around me. We've done everything together and she knows me better than I know myself. Pretty much anything that has happened to me, she's been there for. She's the best older sis in the world. :) Jen's an interesting character. She's always a little goofy and sometimes a little flighty. She's very intelligent but doesn't always have the most common sense. She's optimistic and does her best to cheer me up when I get nasty. She's very animated and gets into telling stories and gets excited over little things. People are always drawn to her and want to be her friend. I always bitch that everyone likes her better, but then, she's not as crabby as I am, so maybe that's a good reason why. :)

Jen & Jess in October, 2000

Jen is my only sibling. People say that they think we're twins or that I'm older than she is, but the opposite is actually true. Jen's 3 and a half years older than I am. Though I sometimes feel like I'm the older sister, cause I'm always the 'responsible' one. Jen is one of the most special people in my life. Sometimes it's a blessing, sometimes it's a curse. Why? Poor Jen gets to be the person that I'm the most comfortable with. So I'm always completely, totally, and bluntly honest with her. On the downside, Jen is the only one who I'll allow to see me in one of my 'funks' when I get really down. She's the only person that I trust completely and wholly enough to cry in front of. But when I'm like that, Jen is always the one person who is able to bring me back to Earth and into a somewhat normal orbit. Jen and I have pretty much been through everything together. She's very smart and has her B.A. in French, and she's now working towards her Masters in both French and Secondary Education. She's almost always in a good mood and one of the best friends that anyone could ever ask for.

Scott & Jen - April 2000

My Message to Jen:

Pookah: I can't even begin to thank you enough for all the times that you have been there for me. You are, without a doubt, the rock that keeps me stable and sane. I always laugh the hardest with you, and you always know exactly what to say to make me smile. I will always love you for putting up with me. :) Thanks for always cheering me up, being my lunch buddy, letting me borrow homework, teaching me to drive (at age 12, heehee), convincing me to skip class, following me around the country to see Celine, helping me with my trials of dating, motivating me to keep going in school, life, and weight loss, and mostly just for being the most wonderful sister in the world. =) You are and always will be my favorite traveling buddy (from rotten Akron to amazing Italy). But I'm still just the slightest bit upset about that damn languages of the world class. :) Heehee. Never forget: our travels, our walks to wal-mart or nowhere, barbies, the Pure Moods CD, skipping school to go shopping, skyline, the "just-fucked look," parent-bitching, bad exboyfriends (who don't even deserve to be mentioned), girls nights, taking classes together, and the endless talks about nothing in particular. Love always, Jojobean.

Angie

Angie- St, Patricks Day 2001

Aliases: Tasty, Sharky Davis, Zanazaressa, Baby D, Angie-Dawg

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Age: 22

Birthday: Sept 19, 1978

Lovelife: Single (and hating men right now)

Hobbies: Dancing, clubbing, reading, going to Meijer, traveling, spending time w/ friends & her cute nephews, music (Sarah McLachlan, Ani DiFranco, Dixie Chicks) movie nights, driving my car, men-bashing, eating Ben & Jerrys.

Profession: Student at UC, student teacher at elementary school, weekend retail, full-time Diva Goddess. :)

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Angie & I became friends on June 11, 2000. I remember the exact date because it was the day we left for Italy. :) She, Jen, and I were the outcast "smokers" of the group, and by the end of a 6 hour layover in Detroit, we were instant friends. I've never been so glad to have such a bad habit because otherwise we might not've bonded so much. We spent a month together in Italy and have been the best of friends ever since. I've known Angie the shortest amount of time on this list of friends, but I feel like she and I are really close. Hell, recently we've practically become roommates. Heehee. =) Even though I've only known her a year, I love her as though I've known her forever. Angie is the best of both worlds when it comes to being a friend. She's wild, spontaneous, a little outrageous, a little flirtatious, and always the first one to smile or want to go out. On the other hand, she also takes being a friend very seriously. She knows when you need to talk, she knows how to listen, how to comfort, when you need a hug, and how to make a person feel a thousand times better. Even when incredibly busy, she always makes time to check in and make sure that everything is going well in your life. She's generous, outgoing, hilarious, affectionate, and intelligent. But just as fair warning: she's not a morning person, and don't piss her off when she's driving. :)

Angie & Jessica: Girls night out, May, 2001

Angie is the friend that everyone in the world needs to have. There's something about her that makes people instantly like her, even if she does strange things like asking you to look up her nose (this is how she and I met, heehee.) She's very intelligent, hardworking, and seems to love life no matter what happens. She's got a B.A. in psychology, an associates degree in teaching, she'll get her B.A. in elementary education soon, next year she'll get her Masters for Special Education. She's always fun to be with, no matter what she is doing. She's a diva goddess, and you must know her to fully appreciate all that it takes to be one (there is only a very select few of us out there, heehee.) And, she's the only person I know who has worse luck with men than I do. But aside from all that, Angie is probably one of the most special people that I've ever had as a part of my life.

Nicki, Jen & Angie showing lots of teeth at TGI Fridays. Oct 2000.

My Message to Angie:

Tasty: Hey baby! We've got some crazy memories, don't we? Starting in a rotten airport with bad layovers until forever, you're always & forever gonna be one of the people that I love most in this world. You're my favorite diva goddess and the best men-basher (boys are dumb) I've ever encountered. I always have so much fun with you, even when we're doing nothing at all except shopping at Meijer or singing "goodbye Ian/Bryan" at the tops of our lungs. You have my promise that Winter 2001 Quarter will never happen again: I'll never letcha go that long without seeing me. :-) I'll get Tasty withdrawl, ya know? But more seriously, over the last year you've become one of my very best friends and I hope that stays the same forever. (We'll be bitching about men at least that long) One day you and I gotta go see Sarah together! Never forget: Che Sera, gelato & gnocchi, bad eating habits, Me-Me-Me-Me-Me, girls nights out, Metropolis, our obsession with Express, early morning wake-up calls and late night I-need-a-friend calls, tuesday mornings at Teachers College, the tales behind your many nicknames, foot-long weiners (Yummy! heehee), my confession under the influence of too many 'sex with an alligator' shots (I'm still embarrassed about that one!), movie nights and sleeping over, and our silly e-mails that are almost pointless because we always end up calling and talking before the other one reads their mail. Ti voglio bene, baby! XOX, Sexy.

Nicki

Aliases: Nic, Hairy Balls

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Age: 21

Birthday: Dec 11, 1979

Lovelife: Gonna marry Mike one of these days. (I wanna be a bridesmaid!)

Hobbies: Reading, travel, going out dancing, tennis & kickboxing, getting ice cream, movies, concerts, Aerosmith, Offspring, and shopping.

Profession: Student at UC, CSR at Proctor & Gamble, P&G pusher (don't piss her off and buy some other brand!)

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I met Nicki in the 6th grade, we were both in Access together, but we didn't really become good friends until the 7th grade when we got stuck being the movie reviews for the Colerain Chronicles. Back then we were both the biggest dorks, but in 8th grade she got rid of her bad perm and got popular, whereas I was still the social outcast. Then in 9th grade we went to different schools but became good friends again, and we've been friends ever since. I feel as though she's always been a part of my life, and every one in my family considers her to be family. She dated my cousin for so long we thought she might legally become a part of it. :) She and I have had our ups and downs over the years but she means the world to me. Man, I'm not even sure I can describe Nicki! She appears to be a little stand-offish at first, but once you get past that, she's the funniest person you'll ever meet. What really makes things interesting is that I'm not even sure that half the time she knows she's being funny. She is in the same boat as Jen, very smart but not always the quickest to catch on to things. She's hilarious most of the time, you can even catch her in a good childish mood every once in a while, but she can also have her moments when you don't want to know her ("NOTHING!"). And just like with Angie, don't piss her off while she's driving!! But no matter what her mood, Nicki is always a great friend, a good listener, and tons of fun to be with. Just don't try to get affectionate. :)

Jessica & Nicki: April 2000

Nicki has been such a constant in my life for such a long time that I honestly do consider her to be my sister. She's at UC, too, though I'm not really sure what her major is right now. She keeps switching it on me. :) Something in the business school, that much I do know. :) She's very intelligent and incredibly hard working. I admire her in a lot of ways because she has so much going on and still manages to stay sane and be an incredible friend. Well, as sane as she ever was anyway, which I'm not going to say anything else about. :) She's devoted to all the things that she does, and shes really good at managing conflicts and problems. She and I have grown up together and I know that we'll be friends forever. I can't imagine my life without her, and I don't even think that I'd want to imagine something like that.

Nicki (man I want that shirt!), Izzy, Katy, Andrea, Amanda. March 2001.

My Message to Nicki:

Hairy Balls: You've been my best friend for so long that I don't even think I remember anyone else ever holding that position. :) We've had our good times and bad times, but there is something so special about our relationship that none of the bad times were ever able to totally break us apart, and that means something very special to me. You've been a very significant part of my life and I know that you've helped shape me in a lot of ways. I know I don't say or show it all the time, but I hope you know how much I love you and how much you mean to me. No matter what happens, where we go or what we do, you'll always be a part of me. Never forget: Gatlinburg, shopping trips, Sophomore Spring Break (MIAMI!), 1 L'd allergies, classes together (when you'd actually show up!), "I dig scrawny pale guys," girls nights out, movies with Ben & Jerrys, your obnoxious scratching habit, dragging our butts to kickboxing or the gym, bitching about men in our lives, the detergent aisle at Wal-Mart, McDonalds, me harassing you about learning the back-roads, the Honda, 8 AM classes, Remingtons, Flossy, and 'bunny parts.' I love ya forever, Fag.

Scott

I caught Scott under the mistletoe, Christmas 2000.

Alises: Bread!!, Pookie, Pumpkin

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Age: 25

Birthday: June 3, 1976

Lovelife: Single (any single gals reading? He's such a fantastic guy!)

Hobbies: Music, especially Megadeth. Playing guitar, watching movies, frisbee golf, softball, bars, being one of 'the girls,' making fun of us 'girls,' heehee. :)

Profession: I have no idea what he does there, but he works at a place called Clopay. He's also a full time wiseass. :)

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I met Scott in the summer of 1992, I think. Jen's friend Shawna had a crush on him, so she invited him to go to Kings Island with us. I was terrified of the guy. He was older than me, kinda scary looking at the time, and when he pulled out his pocket knife I thought for sure I was a goner. Heehee. Now I know better. Scott is one of the nicest, most considerate, and thoughtful guys I've ever met. He and my sister dated for 8 years and they're still the best of friends. Scott and I didn't get along so great for the first couple of years because I thought he was stealing my sister away from me. Luckily, I finally got over my bitchiness and took the chance to get to know him. Now I consider him to be one of my best friends. Well, as I mentioned over there, Scott is just an all around great guy to be near. He's very nice, very intelligent, easy to talk with, and he always makes me laugh (even though he's usually making fun of me!). Even though he'll never admit it, I don't think he minds having me around too much. =) Scott is very laid back and it takes a lot to make him angry. He's a little bit shy around people that he doesn't know, but once you get to know him, he's a good friend to have around. He also takes a lot of pride in being a guy so the girls take advantage of that when we need car or yard work done. :)

Nicki & Scott, December 2000.

Scott is a lot like the brother that I never had. I guess I think of him a lot as a brother anyway because him and my sister dated for so long, I think I sort of expected him to become my brother in law. But even if that's not in the stars, I'm still really glad that I got to know him. I've learned a lot from Scott. He's got a wealth of strange trivia locked inside of his mind. I sometimes marvel at the useless little facts that he knows. He and I have an ongoing battle. He wants me to watch the Star Wars movies, and I told him I'd do it as soon as he listened to my CD collection. I don't think either of us will ever get our way. :) He's introduced me to a lot of other cool things though, especially in regards to music.

Me & Scott in the Bahamas, March 2001.

My Message to Scott:

Bread!!! Heehee. =) Scott, I know that you and I have had our differences from time to time, but I really can't imagine what my life would be without you in it. You always find a way to make me laugh (usually by imitating Nicki or Jen) and I feel like I can trust you with a lot of things. I do miss living with you, and not just because you had the cable hook-up and took care of the pool. :) I'm sorry for those years when I was younger and tormented you. Although, I guess I still torment you, eh? :) Anyway, thank you for being such a good friend. I know that you're going to do really well in life, and I'll always be here cheering you along. Never forget: All the trips to Gatlinburg (especially when you ripped your pants), long games of Trivial Pursuit, South Park, picking me up from school, picking on certain parents, 'babysitting' Nicki while I was in Italy, going to the gym, me always asking you to fix something in my entertainment center, all the movies we watched, going to dance clubs, girls night when we dyed your hair (giggles), all my stupid questions about men that I come to you for, and, of course, BREAD!!! =) I love ya!! Bread. :)

Andrea

Andrea & Nicki proudly display the penis cake. :)

Aliases: Beeb, Seben, Bo-Brite

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Age: 33

Birthday: Sept 15, 1967

Lovelife: Married

Hobbies: Reading, TV, bitching about work, acting goofy, misbehaving while in Cinti, music, telling stories, surfing the internet.

Profession: Office Manager

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I met Andrea on April 11, 1997. Well, sort of. That's when we first started talking on the internet. I didn't actually "meet" her until September 2nd, 1998. And though I've only spent 34 days with her in person, I feel like we know each other pretty well. We became instant friends and have only grown closer since. Though we live 600 miles apart, we still try to visit each other a few times a year. Just to show how close she and I have become, she made me her maid of honor for her wedding in 2001. :) Hmm... Andrea is an Italian gal from da Bronx. So yes, she's got a bit of an attitude (and more than just a bit of an accent.) She runs very hot and cold on everything in life. She'll love ya to death one minute and the next minute her temper flares up along with a pointed tail and a pair of horns. :) Though lately she has been keeping that in check for me. :) She's a fabulous friend, funny, sentimental, a good listener, and quick to laugh. She's somewhat impatient but still good natured. And if she loves you, then it is completely and forever, even when she gets mad. :)

Andrea in the morning with a wild hairdo. August 2000.

Andrea is a character and a half. Everytime you think you've got her figured out, she finds another loop to throw at you. Andrea and I have very little in common on the surface, so it's surprising that we even became friends in the first place. It was a love of Celine that got us talking. But incredibly, despite our differences, our souls are very similar and when we met we were both in need of a good friend. The word 'devotion' comes to mind when I think of Andrea. There should have been a million or so times when she should have given up on me, and yet she didn't. She's incredibly caring and has a lot of dreams for the future that I hope will be fulfilled for her. She deserves it because life has handed her more than a few proverbial lemons. But she somehow continues, and I've learned a lot about life, pursuing dreams, and understanding people from getting to know her.

Jen, Andrea & Jess pose in our hotel room in Washington DC. Dec 2000.

My Message to Andrea:

Andrea, I honestly don't know what I could say here that I haven't said to you a million times already. Not a day goes by when I'm not thankful that I finally got the nerve to just write to you. You've been a huge influence in my life over the last four years and I can only hope you know what you mean to me. I'm so happy for you that you're finally getting your life in order and that you've found so much happiness in the last few years. I hope that you and I will forever be friends. Never Forget: IMing until the sun rose, laughing till we cried, long conversations while you're at work. my first trip to NYC, your first trip to Cinti, the 1 year IM where I confessed what I thought of you, Skyline, Burnett Woods, getting crispy at the beach, goofy names given to certain things, Montreal, Celine concerts, the time your mom called the police on us, the problems with my couch, the bachelorette party, jen sleeping in the bathroom, "holy fuck," and "ni vous sans moi, ni moi sans vous." I love you always, Boo.

Katy

Nicki, Katy, and Jess at the park, June 2000

Aliases: Shrivled Penis, Katalia, Fag

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Age: 21

Birthday: Nov 25, 1979

Lovelife: Dating Chris

Hobbies: Being insane, reading, going out, taking care of her adorable daughter Isabella, making the rest of the world laugh.

Profession: Something in a hospital, I'm not really sure what she does there. :)

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Katy & Nicki were friends for a while before I got to know her. They worked together and Nicki would tell me about her, but nothing could prepare me for the first time I met her. She was working in the drive thru at McDonalds and when she knew I was at the window she ran over to introduce herself and asked me if I liked her pigtails cause Nicki was making fun of them. I started laughing and I haven't stopped laughing when she's around since. I don't see her as much as everyone else, but I still love her dearly. Katy is absolutely hilarious, flat out. That's the first thing that anyone notices about her. But beneath her wild and crazy personality, there lies a very deep, caring, and understanding person. She went through a very wild stage for a while but becoming a mother has really calmed her down in a lot of ways, and I'm glad for that. Katy tells some wild stories at times but she's got a very pure heart and a deep love for the well being of others. Even if I don't see her as much as I'd like to, I still know in my heart that she's a great friend.

Katy, 8 and a half months pregnant, and Jess :)

Katy and I don't have quite the history that the other people and I on this page have, but it's mainly because our schedules just never seem to coincide. So I don't have as many wild stories to share about her, but I do know that Katy is a fantastic person and a wonderful mother. Her daughter has got to be the cutest little thing on the planet these days. :) I hope that growing up Isabella will think of me as an Aunt and that I can sort of help to raise her since I'm not ready to be a full-time mom myself yet. I give Katy a lot of credit for being able to handle herself so well. She works, takes care of Izzy, and still finds time to hang out and date. She's very committed to getting her life back on track, and I know that it's not always easy for her. In many ways I admire her determination. She's working a great job now and it looks as though there might be some wedding bells here in the future, so I've got my fingers crossed. She's another person who really deserves to be happy in their life.

Jess, Nicki, Katy & Isabella - Spring 2000

My Message for Katy:

Katy, Girl I swear I'm always doubled over in hysterics when you're around. I often wonder how on earth you keep a straight face with some of the jokes that you come up with. I am so glad to have you as a friend in my life. Even if we don't have all the time to hang out, it just makes me appreciate the time that we do have all the more. I know that for a while we sort of grew apart but again, that just makes me even more thankful that we're friends again now. I'm really proud of you for all the ways that you've turned your life around, you're an inspiration to all of us. Thanks for letting me be Auntie Moo Moo Head to Izzy. I wish you all the happiness in the world Katy, you deserve it. By the way: I'm still sorry that I missed Izzy's birth! Never forget: Gatlinburg, McDonalds, Aerosmith!!, both of us dating the same gay guy, girls nights out, making fun of Nicki (hairy balls!), hanging out at Fridays, those damn railroad tracks by your house that kill my car, our love of cows, steven tyler fantasies, lectures from Andrea, "Jess, I love your hair, what kind of products do you use?" "Katy, I'm gonna throw up, I can't talk right now." And then you coming back with a cereal bowl for me to get sick in!!, my 'professional' messages I leave for you at work, and the pigtails I saw you in the first time that I met you!! I love you, Fag. :)

Others

There are a lot of other friends of mine who I'm not as close to as the people on this page, but I definately feel like they should have mention on this page, too. They're good friends and people that I really enjoy spending time with.

Mike & Amanda (who is terribly drunk in this pic!)

Michael is my cousin and Amanda is his girlfriend. They hang out with us pretty frequently and they're always a lot of fun to be with. Michael and I are only a few months apart and so we've been good friends our entire lives. He & Amanda have been dating about nine months and I've really gotten to know her and like her a lot. She's always up for a girls night out and always has a great story to tell to make everyone laugh.

Nicki, Mike, Tom & Katy, Summer 2000

Mike (2nd from left) is Nicki's boyfriend of 3 years. For the first year and a half or so that we were together, he and I didn't really see eye to eye on a lot of things, and that was mostly my fault. I don't think that I gave him a very fair chance. He's a little hard to warm up to, but once you get to know him, he's really a great guy. He's really funny, and he can imitate Nicki better than anyone I've ever seen. It's so hilarious! I'm glad that I've gotten to know him better and I hope he and Nicki find a lot of happiness together.

Shawna & Rob

Rob is another one of my cousins and Shawna is my sister's best friend from High School. The two of them have been dating for over a year now and they're very happy together. They don't go out with us as frequently because they both always have to work so early in the morning, but we do have fun when we go out.

Internet Friends

There are a few very special friends that I've made on the internet that require mention here, too. Even though we've never met, all of these people have become very good friends to me.

Kay: You're the only person I know who is more sarcastic than I am. :) And that's just one of the many things that I love about you. I do hope that one day you and I will get to meet, hopefully for a Sarah or Celine concert! Check out her webpage.

Amelia: I wish I knew where ya were these days, but I think of you often... If you ever stumble upon this page, please write to me. I miss you, little sis.

Jenn: My first real AOL friend. :) I don't think you and I have ever agreed on anything, but that just makes me love talking to you all the more. :) You're a doll and I know you'll go far in life.

Ian: You're another sarcastic one, but I do love that about you. But then, you seem to think that I love *everything* about you. Too bad you're a world away from me... =) You're a great guy.

Jason: You're one of the sweetest guys I've ever met and I feel like you and I can (and do) talk about anything. One of these days I'm going to drive out to PA just to say hello.

Sara: "awwwww." Heehee. You're probably the only person in the world more sentimental than I am! I love our long and rambly e-mails and I'm so glad that we've become friends, even if it was a long process!

Maria: I've learned a lot from you, my 'twin' halfway around the world, about the person that I am and the person that I want to be. You and I have gotta go traveling someday. You've got the most interesting persectives on life. Check out her webpage.

Paul: My favorite tease... what else can I say?? :-) I still want the Return2Zero CD!!

Joe: I always enjoy talking with Joe because he's so intelligent, but he's also very caring, a great listener, and a good friend. He has a cool webpage, too.

Mattie: A fantastic guy from England with the coolest accent and the best sense of humor. :-) I always love reading what you have to say and what you're up to. I do hope that you'll consider moving here to the US! :)

David: David's an original, that's for sure... He always seems to manage to make me get myself into trouble somehow or another. But, what I love about his is that he always gives me the straight answer and helps me to try to understand guys!

Peter: Another great one who always helps me to understand guys! He's also a great listener, funny, interesting, and very intelligent.

Ony: Ony is such a sweetheart! :-) He totally surprised me once by sending me all these cool things from France from a trip that he took there. He and I always have very deep conversations that I really enjoy and he's helped me to understand a lot of things.

Friendship Quotes

I've ran across some great quotes about friendship in my life, and so I'd like to share them here. It's nice when you find one that fits perfectly in your life in regards to how you feel about your friends. I realize that I'm not always the most articulate person in the world and sometimes I have trouble expressing my emotions, therefore I'll let these more articulate people say the words for me. :-) If you know of any good friendship quotes, please feel free to email them to me and I'll add them on here.

'Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.' - Anais Nin

'Every person is a new door to a different world.' - Six Degrees of Separation

'No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever.' - Unknown

'Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy you must have somebody to divide it with.' - Mark Twain

'Life is partly what we make it, and partly what is made by the friends whom we choose.' - Tehyi Hsieh

'Some friendships do not last, but some friends are more loyal than brothers.' - Proverbs 18:24

'Friendship is one mind in two bodies.' - Mencius

'A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway.' - Fr. Jerome Cummings'"Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art... It has no survival value; rather is one of those things that give value to survival.' - C.S. Lewis

'Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Walk beside me and be my friend.' - Albert Camus

'The real test of friendship is: Can you literally do nothing with the other person? Can you enjoy together those moments of life that are utterly simple? They are the moments people look back on and the end of life and number as their most sacred experiences.' -Eugene Kennedy

'It is not so much our friends' help that helps us as the confident knowledge that they will help us.' - Epicurus

'One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives.' - Euripides

'A friend means well, even when he hurts you.' Proverbs 27:6

'When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face us with the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.' - Henri Nouwen

'Friends need not agree in everything or go always together, or have no comparable other friendships of the same intimacy. On the contrary, in friendship union is more about ideal things: and in that sense it is more ideal and less subject to trouble than marriage is.' - George Santayana

'Life is to be fortified by many friendships. To love and to be loved is the greatest happiness of existence.' - Sydney Smith

'A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.' - Walter Winchell

'Some people go to priests; others to poetry; I to my friends.' - Virginia Woolf

'Let me in, I want to be your friend, I want to guard your dreams and visions.' - Bruce Springsteen

'Some may criticize and sit in judgement of us, but they can't take away the love that lives inside us always.' - Corey Hart

'Count on me through thick and thin, a friendship that will never end, when you are weak I will be strong, helping you to carry on.' - Kenneth Edmonds (Babyface)

There is one song in particular that gives me strength and hope when it comes to my friends. It is the way that I feel towards each and every one of them, and I hope that they, too, feel this way towards me. Everytime I hear this song it gives me chills and brings very special memories to mind. It's called "I'll Stand By You," and is performed by The Pretenders. Here are the lyrics:

'Oh, why you look so sad?
The tears are in your eyes
Come on and come to me now
And don't be afraid to cry
Let me see you through
Cause I've seen the dark side, too
And when the night falls on you
You don't know what to do
Nothing you confess
Could make me love you less
I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you
So, if you're mad, get mad
Don't hold it all inside
Come on and talk to me now
And hey, what you got to hide?
I get angry, too
Well, I'm a lot like you
When you're standing at the crossroads
And don't know which path to choose
Let me come along
Cause even if you're wrong
I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you
Take me in into your darkest hour
And I'll never desert you
I'll stand by you
And when, when the night falls on you
You're feeling all alone
You won't be on your own
I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you

Take me in into your darkest hour

And I'll never desert you
I'll stand by you.'

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