The friends are never equal. In old times of Ramayana & Mahabharata there were many good friends. In Ramayana, Rama & Laxmana were brothers but they were also good friends of each other, also Rama & hanuman were good friends of each other. Actually hanuman was considered as a worshipper of rama but he was also a good friend of rama at that time. Also, in Ramayana, Krishna & Arjuna were good friend of each other. The friendship of Krishna & Sudama is world famous. Especially, when it is about Mahabharata their names are taken at least once between the talk. Krishna was a very rich person, a very powerful person, with a great Shakti, Arjuna also was a very powerful person, a stout body with a healthy mind. His archery still is world famous. Arjuna was the best friend of Krishna, but the friendship of Krishna & sudama is also there. There are lot of examples of good friendship for the present. In today's friendship, we require examples to understand what does friendship actually mean. Friendship is to be followed. Friends are to be followed & to be enjoyed. In friendship there is no need to run after your friend. A friend need not to run after his/her best chum, but they walk together in true friendship. A best chum makes his friend walk with him, not run after him. In friendship you are supposed not to be running after your friend, but to following him. God created the friends & so we are here for each other. To change everything simply change your attitude and you would see all your dreams come true. Friendships is the emblem of eternity. It confounds all nations of time, effaces all memories of beginning, all all fears of an end. A real friend warms us by his presence. Trusts us with his secrets, and remembers you in his prayers, strengthens us with his prayers, blesses us with his love, and encourages us with hope. It is said that the life always is successful in love but it's never been said whether love'll become successful in life or not. Actually love doesn't become successful in life it has to be made go successful. The Japanese poems are always special The Japanese poets have a kind of special power that they can explain many things in few words in their poems. According to them, there's no other substance like love on this earth.
There has been a war for about whether love is a curse or a blessing. It is not easy to answer this question. When there is relation between two person, when it is hard to define, when it is tough to say whether it is love or a ordinary kind of relation. Why always is the result of Romeo & Juliet is death?, Always the lovers are found dead & their love also. Human creates heaven on earth by loving each other, but it is always felt like a pricking thing to the God of heaven & they always dislike us creating our own heaven of love on earth. We have three types of friends, our lovers, second who are always angry with us & third who always hate us. To hate someone that is to have enmity with someone. To fall in revenge with someone takes friendship with the same one. Friends means friendship. The friendship has to be passed from the tough test of time. There's no perfect example for friendship. Smile is human's precious ornament. It is like giving birth to a delicate & beautiful rose unknowingly. They who welcome their lives with joy & cheer are always welcomed with joy & cheer by their lives. Most people live with negative behavior. One can make out about our thoughts by making out an macro upon our behavior. Our mind, the thing which is known as one's nature also indicates our thoughts & behavior. If you give one a slap, you obviously cannot aspect Rose from him. What ever we get is a sound result of our behavior towards others. The same thing is there in Friendship. You cannot aspect more than you've given, you've sacrificed. According to Tagore, "Flower is a nonmoving butterfly & Butterfly is a flying Flower..." Nature is God's art. He loves to creative & we love to enjoy. Friendship also is god's creation. he loves to make two friends & we love to make them our beloved one. Once Fra Grawani was caught by the town officer and was supposed to be a prisoner. At that time he wrote a letter to his friend. `I'm your friend, and I feel love for you but deep inside my heart. You've much & there's nothing I can give you, still there's so much that I cannot give you but you can snatch out from me. Fra Grawani wrote this in 16th. There is no barter system in Friendship. Only giving & receiving presents from each other is not friendship. Friendships love, love is friendship. There's great meaning of love but we've forgotten that. We've time to watch & play but to for love. we even don't have time to have a conversation without children. and so when our child arises & becomes a youth he also becomes busy & he also don't get time to have a conversation with us. We are tied by the time. And now time doesn't allow us to go for even love or friends. Sometimes when there is no our beloved one, then the world looks empty. Then the pain, PAIN is one kind of feeling. How can one help someone in pain?, I wondered. I don't know any reader, nor even what their pain is! How can anyone understand what hurts someone else?, When I am in pain, helpful advice from others turns me off. Times of pain are so individual, so very personal and secret.
People in pain most need understanding and personal care. Nothing I write can give that. My attention was drawn to a sentence written by a child, Pain is loneliness because no one knows what I feel. Pain is a horrible feeling. Pain is a word for its killing me. Pain is a feeling just like gladness but pain is much sadder than gladness. Pain is much agony. My own source of pain is primarily physical. One child told me, I don't know why people have pain its impossible to guess. The same child said, I don't even know why I have pain. Not everyone sees a happy purpose to pain, even in childbirth. Indeed, for most of us, it is the lack of purpose in it all that hits so very hard. Pain, when it strikes, seems to weigh us down so much that we cannot move. We are trapped. But pain also is must as a feeling. A friend removes your pain by his words, feelings & warm touches. If people didn't have pain that would mean that a big feeling was missing even though it would be good to be happy all the time it wouldn't be right. I think that people need to be in pain sometimes because it is like a body function. I suspect that all this is possible because, very often, times of pain become times when we get in touch with out own soul, perhaps as never before. They may even be times when we communicate with God himself in a new and deep way. Jesus said:` A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world. So with you: now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no-one will take away your joy.' JOHN'S GOSPEL. CHAPTER 16 When pain has gone on longer that you can bear; when you do not know how to explain that you cannot cope with such intensity; when nothing seems to ease it, you become too drained by it to fight. You want only to die. Sabina Wurmbrandt, a Rumanian Christian, was imprisoned and brutally treated for being a Jew. in prison, with other mothers, she had to tolerate hearing her children being gathered together in the cell next door to be beaten. It seemed too much to bear. Yet it is in those worst moments that we can stumble almost accidentally upon heaven, where it is least to be expected. I'm beginning to wonder if this is where heave is most to be expected... when we are past coping, where there is nothing left of ourselves -- nothing left that we can do, or give, or even be. And then God steps in as a Friend to help us. Not everyone experiences such colorful intervention by God. For some, his presence is much more everyday. They may not even see God's hand until, looking back, they concede that `somehow' they have come through. `Somehow' is possible just a poor way to describe God's help. That we cannot say more is a reflection of the poverty of the relationship most of us have with him. We hang back from him. We may be angry that he should allow suffering: or we may be afraid to look to him. After all, intense pain makes us extraordinarily vulnerable and, for some, it is too big a risk to allow God in to where we hurt already. What if he were to make impossible demands? But God is not like that, Jesus came, not to cast judgment on us, but to show us his love. His invitation is not for us to take a dreadful examination. He knows we'd fail! Rather, he wants us to enter a relationship with him - a relationship based on forgiveness and love. Loving and care makes my pain go better because if someone is doing that I know there is a hope. Some types of pain have no cure. It seems there's no hope. `To cure often, to relieve sometimes, to comfort always.' When you know you are cared-for, that knowledge alone may be sufficient to bring relief from the physical or emotional pain. But when that is in doubt, and comfort feels far away, no physical relief is felt, even when the original pain is cured. Mother Teresa once said that the worst pain of all is knowing you are not loved. She was referring to those left destitute, whose dying bodies are ignored or kicked around on the streets of Calcutta. But we do not need to travel to Calcutta to find people who are not loved.
On our very doorsteps are people whose lives are empty of love. Indeed, you may feel that you yourself bear this, the greatest pain. Each of us longs for love & care. We yearn for comfort, if not from our pain, then in it. Pain - especially intense pain - is very isolating. Each of us knows how easy it is to slip into a situation where pain seems to have cut us off. It's a lonely place to be. in times of pain we are acutely vulnerable to the feeling that friends are letting us down. Most of us have secret hopes for help or comfort, and we feel intensely disappointed if our expectations are not fulfilled.
I LOVE N RESPECT THE BRAHMINS COMMODITY.
I respect the Good qualitieso f Brahmins, Their living styles, thier living standards, their friendship too.
Often I have got good response from all Brahmins, whether my friend is a male or a female he /she is a BRAHMIN.
Brahmins commodity is most necesary to run the country.
Few of my best and nearest brahmins friends are listed below: -
ISHITA BHATT (BHARUCH)
OZA HARDIK (RAJKOT)
OZA HIREN (RAJKOT)
KRUPALI JOSHI(BARODA)
SHWETA BHATT(AHMEDABAD)
PRIYANKA CHANDRAN (AHMEDABAD)
CHARUKESHI SUDHAKAR (BARODA)
KAJAL SHUKLA (RAJKOT)
SHEETAL MEHTA (RAJKOT0
GRISHMA JOSHI (RAJKOT)
VINOD JOSHI (RAJKOT)
NARAYAN BHATT (RAJKOT)
Many are there but the list will go on.