Judd lived his first 4 years of his life in Westminster, South Carolina until moving to Toledo, Ohio. Over 5 years later, moving back to South Carolina where he lives now.

Becky has lived in the same house in Michigan for the past 16 years. She lived her first 3 years of life in a mobil home or as some know them as, a trailer. Becky grew up as a shy girl. Her blue eyes and fair skin being captured by the outdoors. As a suburban girl, she was familiar with the outdoors and loves animals and children. She didn't own a computer until she was about 14 years old (1997).

Judd slowly became interested in computers, getting a little more acquainted with how they work, got more and more interested in websites. In September 2000, Judd started the website "-Irjudd- Welcome To Weird...", a simple website, with a few pages such as Teddy Bear Section, Cool Links, Amusing Pictures. Other than this, this site had nothing else. Adding on it and editing the site every day, it began to slowly expand.

One day shortly after first making it, in that same month, he was doing various things online, when a message box opened up from his Yahoo! Instant messenger he used often for talking with his friends who lived far far away. The message was something like this, "Hi, my name is Becky. So u been baptized for 5 yrs aye?"

Judd, skeptical at first not knowing who this person was right away, hesitantly talked a little. He found out many different details about Becky, very good things that he could closely relate to. Also that she lived in South Eastern Michigan, right near where he used to live, only an hour and a half drive. Then she asked Judd "So do u know anybody in Woodruff?"

Judd, sort of startled at this question, replied yes, strangely, his brother-in-law and his sister both live in Woodruff, SC.

Why did Becky make such a big trip for almost an entire month from Michigan all the way to Woodruff, South Carolina? Here�s her story

Becky has some very close friends of all ages in her congregation of Jehovah�s Witnesses. Her friends are of all ages, Becky is a person of many people. Her very good older friend Dorothee moved from MI to SC early in the year 1998. Becky loves to travel and promised Dorothee that she would come visit her someday.

Becky saved her money for this big trip and Dorothee suggested staying 2 or 3 weeks, that would give her better opportunities to meet new people and learn the area. Becky most certainly did meet many people, most of the Woodruff congregation. Little did she know who she considered a good friend, that Vince was Judd�s future brother-in-law; Judd was a person she then did not yet know.

After talking about the different people that she knows, Judd recognized almost every name. He quickly told her he'd be right back, got offline and called Vince in Woodruff to see if he knows Becky. Judd's brother-in-law said that he does remember her and so he comes online. Judd, Becky, and Vince have a 3way conference through yahoo conference and strangely as it turns out, Judd finds out that Becky had visited Woodruff for 3 weeks the year before and had gotten very well acquainted with all the people he knows there

On November 19th 2000, they had their first telephone call, it was the call that changed 2 lives forever. Little did Judd realize that night how much that phone call would change her life forever. They continued to talk regularly and became very close friends, eventually best friends.

Becky was always very interested in Judd's site and was always the person who'd excitedly look at every new little thing he did to it. One night, Judd wanted to do something special for Becky... so he took into account that she loves photography and that her pictures were very good! She had sent him a picture a while back so he decided to do a little something to surprise her.

He told her to go to the Picture Page and there she noticed one of her pictures on his site and it made her very happy! Then he told her to click on the picture and to her huge surprise, a new page opened up... it was Becky's Pictures Page! A page dedicated all to her and her pictures! She was very happy. She never imagined that she would become a part of his site in a way that something would be specifically dedicated all to her. It touched her heart deeply and till this day, she is still very proud to have it shown off to everyone.

After that she became more and more involved in the site, until one day he gave her his password to edit the site. Then shortly after he asked her to join him in the site. Together, they changed the website to "J&B Welcome To Weird..." Judd & Becky's Homepage.

Some time passed by... Then on the day of April 22nd, 2001 is when completion was made.

He found out his 99 year old Great Grandmother still in Toledo wasn't doing well, so his mom arranged to drive up there. Judd quickly called Becky the day before and casually said, "Whatcha doin Sunday bud?" Becky replies "Whyyy?" He then says, "Wanna make plans?" After some time of beating the dashboard of her best friend's car, screaming and giggling, going hysterical, Becky finally calmed down a little bit and let it fully settle in her heart that she was about to see her very best friend of all and see him for real, in person.

Then on that Sunday of April 22nd, Becky drove to meet Judd in Toledo Ohio. In the driveway of his aunt's house is where they shared their first hug. Okay, so she almost ran him over with her car when she first saw him in the driveway, but he�s a smart bud who moved out of the way

Becky met all of Judd's northern family and got acquainted in person with his mother, who she had already talked to on the phone very often. Judd & Becky walked the streets of the neighborhood with her friend Jenny tagging behind talking on the phone constantly, but she didn't mind of course... They shared many eye gazes, many smiles, walking side by side around the whole neighborhood. It was a dream come true, a very happy day. That day was a breaking point for what Judd & Becky are today. The starting day of an eternal relationship.

Time passed by, many different things happened, some good, some bad.

August 25th 2001, Becky flew down to Woodruff South Carolina. Judd and Becky are together once again, sharing many more hugs, finally together again. They also went on a long walk in the heat of Greenville, SC not far from Woodruff with their friend Shawn. They watched the Jurassic Park 3 movie together, it was so great! Going to the movies is so much more enjoyable when you�re with the one you love.

Judd and Becky did many fun things and went to many nifty places. They visited Ghost Town In The Sky in Maggie Valley. N.C. a theme park in the mountains where Judd and Becky hold hands for the first time. They rode lots of different rides, and had much fun with his family.

Becky also got to meet all of Judd's friends down in South Carolina and she was also finally at home, she belongs with her boyfriend. She may be a northerner, but her heart is in the south, always. She loves the accent and looks forward to the day she�ll completely lose her yankee accent as them southerners say she�s got.

It was extremely emotional for Becky to leave, walking away to her airplane when she had to return north again. She promised through a card, her words, and their final hug that she would return to him.

She fulfilled her promise to him�
The morning of Thursday, December 20th, 2001 around 11am, Becky was back into Judd�s arms. She had driven all night long, for 14 hours straight just to be with him, and when she was 10 minutes away she called him to let him know, so he set his watch to 10 minutes, and when it got about that time, he runs down the street to meet her. She quickly stopped the car and jumped out and he tightly hugs her, spinning her in circles! And Faulina her dog was in the car watching! Faulina had never met Judd before and was most certainly confused as to what was going on. Becky was back home again. There�s no place like home.

Each and every moment is cherished by both of them. They went shopping together, she went with him to work one night and the next night she went there to order cheesy sticks just to see him! What a surprise to both of them when his boss let him off and he got to go home with her and spend the evening with her and his family.

Mamma was so kind as to take them to a few nearby places because where Becky lives there aren�t as many pretty sights. They saw a waterfall, Isaqueena Falls and then they went to a deep cave, Stumphouse Tunnel is what its called. Its a long tunnel in the side of the mountain Judd lives on, that was dug during the Civil War so that supplies could be transferred from one place to the other without having to go all the way around the mountain.

They went in further with just a flashlight, it got colder and more water dripping until they got to one section where it got hotter progressively, and... dryer. Kinda creepy, so after a little bit of procrastination, Judd and Becky rather swiftly went back. This was just one of the sights they got to go to on that day.

Unfortunately Becky needed to leave 4 days early than planned. It was very upsetting to her. Now for Judd�s first long distance promise like hers... he promised he�d come get her. He will have to go north to see her again and he assured her that he will be there with her again and she will have a safe drive back north again.

Becky had a long trip back to MI, making a one day stop in Kentucky before her final destination in MI. Now plans are being made for Judd to see Becky in MI very soon.

His promise fulfilled
Arrangements were made for Judd and Becky�s families to meet in Georgetown, KY on April 1st 2002. Each driving approximately 6 hours to meet in the middle. They stayed overnight in a hotel. And for the first time went swimming together! Judd became Becky�s motor because she�s not a very strong swimmer and was too short to reach the 6ft deep water. It was so fun for her! Then the following day, Judd left for MI with Becky and her Dad.

Both, Judd and Becky�s father must have been so surprise how alike they are and could get along! It�s not like Becky had no idea. Haha ;) Judd got to meet some of Becky�s family. Her brothers, sisters and in-laws, nephews, neices, and friends. By the end of the trip, as sadened the two were to part again from Georgetown, KY, Judd was welcome to return again sometime.

In June, �02, Becky invited her friend Nicki to take a trip to S.C. to pick up Judd and bring him back to Michigan to stay for a week. Back in Michgian, they went on their first official date to Kensington Metro park for a hot dog barbeque and trail walks. Fun indeed!

They didn�t see each other again until the end of August. Judd was brought up for a two week trip with Becky and her family. But from October onward, Becky went down at least for a few days, once a month. October 25th, Becky arrived in South Carolina around 5:00pm and was greeted with a surprise! Judd drove the car to a beautiful view of Lake Becky in his neighborhood. He looked lovingly into her eyes and told her how he wanted to always take care of her for the rest of her life as her husband. He wanted her to be his wife! Becky was in disbelief the entire time. She didn�t expect a proposal so soon. A beautiful 10ct, 14kt white gold ring. That evening they went out to dinner at a mexican restaurant, and she constantly just stared at her ring. What a happy occasion.

Six months of much planning and the wedding soon comes! Finding someone to give their ceremony talk, getting the ceremony and reception music together to their liking. She had her dressed ordered before Thanksgiving.

But there is nothing that will keep these two buds apart. Justin and Rebekah will forever be together. Each day being one day closer to their eternal lives together, they continued on and was blessed.

J&B Forever!