Welcome to this little corner of my world, and the Buick! Project

Welcome to this little corner of my world

and the Buick! Project

{words written in "black" are actually links. Click them for more information.}

I would like to welcome you, and say hello!  My name is Mary, and after transplanting from the upper midwest to Arizona, and then BACK up north, I've once again, and finally, moved to Texas, where I plan to stay. I thought I'd miss the seasons, but it actually snowed here the other night! While you are here, please take a couple moments and sign my guest book, at the bottom, so I can get to know a little bit more about you - be sure to tell me a little bit about YOUR own little "corner of the world".

This site is a "work in progress", and was developed as much to help me define the things I enjoy and feel strongly about, as well as maybe bring together people who may wonder about some of the same things, maybe even develop some friendships along the way. 

I became disabled about 12 years ago, in an automobile accident, that has left me with a disability. After spending a couple months in the hospital after the accident, it seemed like I had some time to think about things, and I realized that I was putting way too much emphasis and energy toward things that do not greatly please me - and I started doing some very deep "soul-searching".  You might call it that, although my faith was not really the issue.

I will say here, that I do not consider myself any kind of "crusader" or activist for disability rights. I know all the stories, perhaps you do also, and I will not rehash them by repeating them here. It has taken me a long time to finally accept some parts of my "new" life, and even if I may say that sometimes I "am not always happy with it", I AM happy with myself, and have learned much about taking the time now to enjoy the little things in life, examining my priorities, loving deeper and fuller, laughing more, and yes, sometimes crying more, too.  I did not "suddenly arrive" at my acceptance, it has taken me this long, and I still have days that I struggle with....in some ways, I could say "this is NOT the life I wanted", but it is the life I was dealt, and not only have I learned to accept that part, I have found happiness within this little corner of my world.  Please join me.... 

So, what does a newly disabled woman do to keep sane? I am now very happily married, with grown "kids", and wonderful grandkids.

I am happy that you either found this place, or were perhaps even invited to visit, and I hope that you enjoy your stay, please tell someone about it, and thank you. There are some links at the bottom to the other pages as well, and I hope you will check them out also.

And now, we delve into the real reason for this site, and what the Buick! Project is all about. I have always loved quilts: looking at them, making beds with them, sleeping beneath them, dreaming about them, browsing through books that talk about them, buying them, and yes, especially MAKING them - even going so far as teaching others to make them. I am sure I spend more time on the "big picture" "QUILTS" than on almost any other item in my present life.  I always have at least three quilting projects going, one large one, to keep warm under while I sit visiting or watching old movies,  hand quilting it as it lays across my lap, one medium one, that will find its way eventually, gift wrapped and sent to a new home, and one small one,  packed in a ziploc near the door, with all needed supplies, ready to grab on my way out the door.  (There is no such thing as "short waits" for anything anymore, and sitting quilting somewhere while I wait, has opened entire worlds of conversations with some of the most interesting people!)

I have always enjoyed the idea of "charm quilts" - where every patch or piece is of a different fabric.  In fact, I have made several, and always love how the finished piece surprises me even though I thought I would know how the colors and designs played together beforehand.  Now that the world has gone "online", I have also discovered that it is not very hard to find others who share this hobby (passion), and many have even formed wonderful groups to share ideas, swap items, and enjoy the friendships that develop. 

That brings me to my other hobby/passion/"sanctuary" - stamp collecting and letter writing.  In some ways these are completely separate, as I do write to lots of wonderful people who do not collect stamps.  I also am in contact regularly with many stamp collectors who do not write letters.  But for me, personally, they are joined - I cannot be thinking about one, without dreaming about the other, planning what I want to write to one, without thinking of the right stamp to put on the envelope.  I spent many years, even before becoming disabled, wondering if there was a way to combine these parts of me.  Each is important in its own way, but sometimes I would even feel almost guilty if I spent too much time on ONE part, nearly for a time ignoring the others.  I could not devote just a few minutes to each of them, that is just not feasible in the magnitude of them.  Rather it would seemingly devour my time, the whole dining room table would be covered in either stamps, stationery, or fabrics. In thinking about it, I finally realized what I could do, so I went to my friend, the internet, and "put myself out there", asking people who wanted to write letters, or who would like to trade stamps, to send me a little piece of fabric, so I could then put them together into a beautiful and unusual, international charm quilt!   Just call me crazy...If you would like to be a part of the "beautiful, unusual, international charm Kwilt" (BUICK!) project, this is the place!  I would most appreciate if you joined in all three parts of the project - writing a little bit about yourself, in a letter, include a 6-inch (15 cm) square of fabric, placing a colorful, pretty, or unusual commemorative (that's the big ones with pictures, or that tell of something interesting!) stamp on the envelope, and mailing it to:

Mary Helfrich

7212 Oak Hill Drive

Houston, TX 77087

USA

In exchange, and to thank you, I will then send you five beautiful hand-made "friendship books" (fb's), that you can send to your friends and penpals.  Please read about them Read about friendship books (Please be sure to include 5 stick-on return address labels for each fabric square.)  Thank you, and I look forward to hearing from you. 



You can read about the fascinating art of Temari, a beautiful Japanese art-form that I have recently discovered, by clicking on the ball. (This Temari ball was stitched by Barb of Japanese Temari. She has a wonderful site with a fine tutorial, that I invite you to visit.)

Learn about the
ancient and exciting art of Temari

Read about friendship books, and how to use them

Learn about stamp collecting, how to find and care
for stamps, and much more!

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Guestbook
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(this picture just makes me chuckle!)
this picture just
makes me chuckle!

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