Comments in italics are my own opinions.
-Because of your thoughtful nature, you need others to express sincere interest in you or the relationship. This offers the secure feeling that you seek.
-You may be a matter-of-fact person who may be critical of the shortcomings of others who display a more emotional or outgoing side. I don't say so out loud ;-)
-During times of stress or tension, you may withdraw inside of yourself and appear as somewhat cool and aloof. You need to be alone when thinking through projects, problems, or solutions.
-You usually assume a cautious and reserved demeanor when meeting new people. Your relationships must grow natually and in sincere ways. You will not confide in others readily because of your need for security.
-Others may see you as disciplined and self-controlled. You have seen the problems of being overly optimistic when planning to depend on others to follow through. Always have a Plan B.
-You are usually astute in social situations because you take little at face value, will listen carefully and accurately, and will watch others carefully.
-You tend to listen rather than talk. You may place a premium on display of emotions. As a result, "reading" you at times may be difficult. Gotta practice my game face for when it comes time to play Euchre.....
-Because of your need to be quiet rather than rambling, you are somewhat introspective about events and activites. You may not communicate readily and rapidly with others, but this does not mean you don't support others.
-Here is what you want in a partner: Patiently draws out personal interests (please don't interrogate me), respects quiet demeanor, uses a tone of voice that shows sincerity (and don't patronize me either because it makes me want to cause physical pain 0:-), finds areas of common interest and involvement, shows sincere interest as a person, and provides personal support and assurance.
-You are very sincere in actions and words.
-You are excellent at listening to the concerns and ideas of others.
-You are good at "troubleshooting" potential problems in a relationship. Well, I am an engineer....
-You are good at helping other people reach their goals.
-You may want: Respect among peers and friends for your quiet demeanor, time away occaionally (you value your privacy), a supportive environment where you do not have to display great emotion, time to think things over before making a commitment, things done "right" the first time (are you listening?), time to adjust to change, no flattery or shallow praise (again, this inspires thoughts of torture....for you, not me, you shallow faker), and for others to adhere to your high standards (exactly!).
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