

Your Rep is Your Life
In my personal life I don't spend alot of time worried about what people think of me. If people choose to make inaccurate statements or snap judgements about me, I couldn't care less if my conscience is clear. My personality and preferences are not up for negotiation with the outside world. I am, take it or leave it.
This is a very healthy approach for your personal life, but it is not good business policy. While you should not compromise your dreams and need to maintain certain standards, you cannot appear to be inflexible and unapproachable to clients and customers. Everyone wants to deal with people who treat them with the respect and importance due them. If you don't do this they will go elsewhere, if you do they will be happy and continue to deal with you.
I take portraits for the bulk of my living right now. Often customers are scheduled back to back in such a way that it feels as though I am operating an assembly line. While I need to work with that level of efficiency, I should NEVER develop that attitude. Every client must feel as though they are the only one in the room for the few seconds I have them. My enthusiasm, my "glad to see you expression," that little joke I share with the subject and the care I take to get the "best" expression has to be consistent from beginning to the end of my day. It has to be there whether I am at a school dance working for the company or at a wedding working freelance.
People will remember you even if you don't have the time to remember them. I spent a few minutes joking with a sad looking little boy (he actually had allergies, but I thought he'd been crying at first) during my second season as a school photographer. Since I was working for my company, obviously how I acted reflected on the company, but it also reflected on me personally.
Apparently I made his day. A few weeks later at the mall I felt a tap on my side as I was approached by the same allergy ridden young man. He introduced me to his Mother as "that nice picture lady who told me the cow joke." She asked me if I had a card in case the family wanted pictures taken at their family reunion. Since I also freelanced, of course I had a card!
As this example shows, doing your job with your heart in the right place will lead to new opportunities. It also leads to something called "word of mouth advertising." Having a stranger state that they found your business through a friend is one of the best things that can happen to your business.
One the flipside, bad experiences which are not dealt with properly will drive people away. It can take years to develop a good name for yourself in your business, especially if there are many of the same type available in a given area. A few angry clients with big mouths can destroy everything you've done.
Words, like dandelion seeds, are impossible to regather once let loose. They can spread far and wide and take root where you least expect them to. And if you don't have any idea that people are dissatisfied, there is nothing you can do to correct the bad advertising you are receiving. Therefore, it's best to deal with customers before they have a chance to poison your company name.
How does one do this? Here are a few ideas, there may be more, depending on what it is that you do:
The more your clients and associates are pleased to do business with you, the better your reputation will be. Your future is determined by the actions you take on a daily basis and how you deal with those you come in contact with. Remember to do business with a good heart, respect and honesty and you will aquire the good reputation you desire. A name in business is worth more than any advertising you purchase.

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