Aries in love is romantic, daring and has a flair for the dramatic. Rams seek a lover who will sweep them off their feet and have the same craving for adventure and romance as they do. When an Aries meets a potential mate, they want to hear choirs sing and see fireworks bursting above them in brilliant colors.
The upshot is that Aries' passion for love is more superficial than some other signs. Rather than "'till death do us part," a Ram's love is likely to be "'til excitement do we lack." These natives need constant ego-stroking, and count on a lover to provide most of it. If this praise is lacking, Aries will certainly try to find it from someone else.
The group views love as a conquest. Male Rams love the chase and relish the hunt for a potential mate. Aries women are equally titillated by the thrill of pursuing relationships, but are little more subtle than their fellow sign-mates.
When it comes to sex, Aries almost sees it as anticlimactic to the thrill of getting a person into bed. The decision by someone else to have intercourse with them is a pinnacle of stimulation for the Arien lover. The act itself sometimes pales in comparison.
If you are interested in an Aries, the best way to attract them is by the straight forward approach. Timidity will never pique a Ram's interest. A good start is to compliment them, because they deserve it anyway. But don't lay it on too thick, or even Aries will see through your plan.
When the chase ends in a wedding ring, Aries women will become fine wives. If the man is ambitious, his new wife will complement his ego at parties and business functions. Aries wives spend extensive time on constructive self-improvement and are witty, clever conversationalists with wonderful social presence.
The Aries husband is a distinguished, desirable man, but is very difficult to catch. He has such an idealized, perfect image of his future wife that almost no woman can live up to it. Aries is difficult partner in love, but not impossible to get along with.
Here is how the Ram relates to the other signs:
Aries and Aries.
- Lots of passion, but neither partner is comfortable being the inferior. Eventually the battle for supremacy takes its toll, and the relationship ends in disharmony.
Aries and Taurus.
- Both are very sensual, but Aries may grow bored with the deliberate and unimaginative Taurus. The bull is good at making money, but the Ram is even better at spending it. No good long-term prospects here.
Aries and Gemini.
- Both love to talk and are relatively free of inhibitions. Their minds meld well, and they compliment each other in the bedroom. This is a very promising match.
Aries and Cancer.
- While fascinated with each other at first, the attraction quickly wanes. Cancer is too cautious and domestic for the Arien taste.
Aries and Leo.
- Both have huge eqos and aggressive natures. They are compatible sexually, but must learn not to take each other that seriously if this match is to work out.
Aries and Virgo.
- Almost opposite in every way, these two make for contentious, and probably incompatible,
mates. They have different ideas about sex, love, and just about everything else.
Aries and Libra.
- Looks are the key to the initial stages of this match. But, while a Libra wants peace and harmony, Aries craves action and adventure. In time, the Sacles will want someone less demanding, and the Ram will find someone more adoring.
Aries and Scorpio.
- Both are physical, energetic and passionate, but want to have the control in the relationship. Scorpio's jealousy may undermine this match. When the Scorpio tries to reign in the Ram, the two will grow confrontational and distant.
Aries and Sagittarius.
- The Archer's temperament is perfectly matched to Aries. They're both active, love sports, socializing and the good life. While arguments can be forceful, their senses of humor will likely cool the fires. Great love potential here.
Aries and Capricorn.
- Conservative, ordered, practical Capricorn has a natural disdain for wild Aries. But they are both very sexual, so if Capricorn's strength and endurance can win Aries' respect, there's potential for a long-term coupling.
Aries and Aquarius.
- Both are active, eager and independent. Aries finds the Aquarian unpredictability exciting, but may never feel totally secure with the slippery Water Bearer. This isa great affair, with some potential for a lasting love.
Aries and Pisces.
- Aries likes to dominate while Pisces needs a shoulder to lean on. Aries' boldness and Pisces' intuition will combine into a cohesive whole. If Aries can manage to exercise a little tact, there's a great chance for marriage here.