The DDD It is NJ state run and to qualify for services you must have a lifelong developmental disorder, which was diagnosed before a certain age (I am not sure of all the details.) It is a long process to qualify but in the end there are services available especially after all the public school services are finished*(after Graduation) Here is a link to their homepage.
Here is Dr Robert Naseef's Page. He is a professional and a parent of a Developmentally Disabled child. He is A GREAT RESOURCE; he is very insightful and does a lot of Fathers stuff.
