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Distance in relationship Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love. Although you may feel like you are losing faith in your relationship at times, hold fast and trust your heart! I, like you, truly believe that love & relationships are what make your life special, and that ones built on love & understanding are always worth preserving, regardless of the miles that may separate two people. YOU ARE NOT ALONE ! All across the world, there are couples just like you who are crazy about
each other but are forced by circumstance to live apart...
Commuter marriages, online dating, bicoastal romance, long distance love on the Internet... The fact is that more than 10 million couples worldwide are coping with long distance relationships ... and that number is increasing daily! Some dating advice : Take out a piece of paper and write down everything you want in your perfect relationship. What is he or she like? How do they look, smell, talk? What kinds of things will you do together? How do you feel when you're around them? Really get into this and take the time to write down every detail. It'll be well worth it in the end. Most people never take this step of writing down what they want and yet it is the single most important step in finding the partner of their dreams. "Do you know that by simply writing down what you want, you increase your chances of getting it by 80%!" Just think about that for a minute... Don't doubt yourself. Assume that you are perfect in every way and there is nothing standing in your way of getting exactly what you want. Not money, or looks, or time, or anything else. "Imagine� You can have anything that you want!" When you have finished this exercise, you will be well ahead of the game. Take as long as you need... This is key to your ultimate success! Be VERY clear in your mind about what you want. Otherwise, the Universe will have no idea what you really want � and that's what it will give you. (Just a quick note, when I say 'Universe', I mean God, Buddha, Mother Earth, or whatever term you use for your universal higher power.) Confused? Stay with me here� Imagine going to a restaurant and ordering a hamburger. The waiter turns in your order. Before your hamburger arrives, you change your order. Now you tell the waiter that you really want a steak. The waiter turns in your order. Before your steak arrives, you tell the waiter that you have changed your mind again and would like a salad. Now at this point, most waiters would tell you to make the salad yourself. The Universe will not do this, but can you see how it is very difficult for the Universe to give you exactly what you want when you don't even know? OK � finished? If you didn't do it � go back and do it. I said that this would be simple, but you still have to do a little of the work. Now that you're very clear about what you really desire in a partner, take that piece of paper, fold it up and carry it with you for at least a week. Carry it in your pocket, in your wallet or purse, or in your underwear. It doesn't matter where you put it, as long as you keep it with you for at least a week. Every time you remember that you have this piece of paper with you, remember the feeling of what it will be like to be with your partner. Really feel it! There's one more very important step. During this week, make sure that you listen to your gut, or inner voice. If it tells you to stop at the dry cleaners on Tuesday when you normally go on Thursday, go on Tuesday! You may meet you soul mate while your standing in line. The point here is that you've placed your order with the Universe, now you need to pay attention to the signs that are being sent your way and ACT ON THEM! That's really all there is to this exercise. If you're interested in learning more about the Law of Attraction and how it can change your life, here are some of my favorite books on the subject. Read them all � twice!
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