HAVING A GREAT ATTITUDE

I don't like to hang out with people who have an attitude problem.

Why?

It is NOT good for my self esteem BECAUSE hanging out with them makes me feel I NEED these people.

Sure, I need people. But I do my best to avoid those with an attitude problem because coming into contact with them is like begging for unwarranted sarcasm/broken promises/other shit.

What do I mean by having a great attitude?

Let me try to give you a precise idea with the following paragraph:

Team player, humble, keep promises, return money borrowed, polite (among other things, love to say thank you, please, sorry, excuse me, Sir, Madam), willing to pay the price to achieve realistic goals, willing to go beyond the call of duty, generous, conscientious, having honesty and integrity, flexible (i.e. not stubborn), hard working, positive thinking, not sarcastic, not waiting for things to happen ( i.e. proactive in life).

Now, if the adults who brought you up are like my parents, you are facing an uphill battle to improve your attitude.

Rest assured, your attitude problem can be a thing of the past.

The first step towards having a great attitude is to stay away from relatives, friends and other people who have a negative attitude. And if this means getting a divorce from a spouse who has a negative attitude or moving away from home from parents with a negative attitude, so be it. And I cannot emphasize this last point enough.