POSITIVE THINKINGIf you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you have already lost the battle. If I can do it, you can do it. There are only challenges. No problems. When you give instructions to somebody, use positive words. For example, "Take this milk to the fridge with both hands." instead of "Take this milk to the fridge and don't drop it." Believe it or not, the use of negative words such as "don't" often bring the unwanted results. The reason, according to one research, is our mind does not focus on the negative words in an instruction. So ".......don't drop it." becomes "......drop it." Homeorwww.geocities.com/findoneselfHow to contact me: [email protected] |