- Dr. Ew
First, you are not god's gift to the opposite sex. Quit thinking you are because it will get you nowhere. Ladies do not like an asshole unless you fill them with alcohol, and even then they will regret it the next day.
Second, ladies like to cuddle. Guys need to understand that. Ladies do not want to rush into things. They just want to cuddle. It can work in the guy's advantage too becauwse when you cuddle, you usually talk.
Third, you will get dumped for another person sometime in your life. My personal favorite excuses are, "I like you, but I like them too." and "My ex wants me back.". Don't let it get to you. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. You will find another special someone sooner or later.
Fourth, you will be rejected at one point in life. "I like you as a friend" means "Get out of my face you creep!". You will hear other excuses such as "I like you, but not that way.", "I like being friends with you, and I don't want to risk anything.", "I'm not really up for dating at this time.", and "You're sweet, but you aren't my type.". Those all mean that the other person does not want you.
Fifth, if you are rejected, do not keep asking. You will seem like a creep, and the other person will think that you are stalking them. Just let it go and move on. It is not worth the trouble that you may cause the other person, as well as yourself.
Sixth, should you go out on a date, dress nice. You do not need to dress up, unless it is required, but there are a few things that each gender should know.
Guys: Do not dress like a slob. You only get one chance to make a first impression, and dressing like a slob will only blow it. Also, do not spend hours making yourself smell nice. Too much of it will make the other person sick. Grooming is nice, but too much can affect how the date goes.
Girls: Dress nice, but not too nice. You do not want the guy thinking that you can be seen on the corner every night, now do we? If the guy can see up your skirt, there is a problem. If the guy can see up your skirt and out your mouth, there is a bigger problem. Don't give yourself away on the first date, because the relationship will go to hell quickly.
Lastly, do you really need to look? Sometimes you will not even be looking, and you will find the special someone. You never know when it will happen.