A Guide to Begging Release and other Manipulations

Slavery (true slavery such as Gorean slavery claims to be) is seldom easy and there are going to be times when any girl in her right mind is going to fight it. Besides girls have been programmed to fight slavery.

This guide includes the Earth counterparts of these manipulations in an effort to provide evidence that these behaviors have basis in the societal conditioning girls grew up with.

This guide is presented mainly as satire. These manipulations are so ingrained in girls that at times they may not even be aware they are attempting to manipulate.

This guide is offered to bring greater understanding and awareness of the ways girls have learned to be manipulative as they are raised in Earth society. The author believes that only through understanding and awareness can these behaviors be overcome.

These are manipulations. While for every manipulation there is an exception (a true tale of abuse for instance) this guide is about the rule, not the exception. As girls struggle with their slavery, it is not uncommon to resort to one or more of these manipulations as she attempts to maintain some control over her life. However, if these manipulations become the rule, and not the rare exception, it could prevent her from understanding and realizing her slavery.

There are of course other dangers, but this guide is not (at this time) about the dangers of manipulations. This guide seeks only to bring them to light. This guide is a work in progress and there are manipulations currently being observed, researched, tested and developed so a Part 2 is promised if the guide continues with the current popularity it has enjoyed.

The injured kajira often manifests online as the abused kajira (all have a story to tell) who suffered greatly at the hands of a "wanna-be" Master (yes, the same one she begged to serve usually). She came to him flawless and well-trained and left him destroyed and shattered. There are true tales of abuse and caution out there, and usually a simple and direct approach here will help uncover if this is a true tale of abuse or manipulation. One may simply ask, "What did he do to you?"

Tales of physical abuse can be followed up to determine their validity, but more often you are going to hear about what an insensitive, controlling, motherless child the Master was. How he took her heart and trampled it before throwing her to the sleen. After an emotional breakdown (online - from leaving gor and online), she is now on prozac and/or has stomach ulcers, and had to beg release to escape his reign of terror.

Symptoms of the abused kajira include, but are not limited to, flightiness, frigidness, illnesses (physical, mental, real and imagined), and showing pictures of their vomit.

Although not as dramatic as other manipulations, the stepford kajira is nearly as effective and a lot less emotionally draining, and easy to pull off if you have a talent for withdrawing. A really long withdrawal can start with a mental reinforcement such as "I would not tell you now what I think or feel if you were the last Gorean on Earth!" followed by the verbal reinforcement, "Yes, Master .. as you wish Master" repeated to everything he says (even to things you don't usually acknowledge, for effect).

If he insists on more dialog, you can add, "a slave doesn't know Master" and "a slave will strive to do better Master" or anything short and sweet that doesn't tell him a thing. If he still presses (you know he caught on) then you can always try "your slut is emotionally drained Master, may she please kennel?" If he doesn't press (hasn't caught on) then entice him just enough to get him warmed up, then ask to kennel.

Symptoms include, but are limited to standard, no frills service, and/or inability to perform sexually and/or unresponsiveness to any type of physical stimulation, lethargy, distraction, sustained silence, stubbornness, apathetic, inert, spiritless and doesn't even know what vomit is.

This manipulation is most effective with Masters who are concerned with honor or how their peers view them. You are after all a reflection of his ability to train and Master a girl. This one also works real well if you can back it up with begging release, which would avoid any punishment that might be forthcoming. This manipulation works so well that even with punishment, the disobedience can be worth the punishment. Refusal to follow the most simple of commands, for instance, is not going to bring as harsh a punishment as refusal to follow a major command.

Symptoms would include all those manipulations which fall under the general heading "fighting unfair" including, but not limited to refusal of sexual favors, cursing and personal insults, hysterics, uncontrollable crying, and forced vomiting. Its online manifestation "x-ing out, cursing and personal insults &/or hysterics in public forums, removing everyone on icq, putting everyone on icq on ignore, deleting posts, posting logs, and talking about vomit"

For this manipulation to work, the Master has to be stressed out over something. The she larl then comes to his protection. She will fight for him. She will support him and love him no matter what happens. She will always be there for him. Then when she needs something, she will remind him of the time she was there for him, through thick and thin. How can a man not give some small concessions to the she larl of his heart?

This manipulation probably won't work for big manipulations, but for small things like not having to help your sisters serve one night or escaping punishment for minor infractions, it should do the trick. It is especially effective if you can tie the incidents together, for example: "Master, your slave would not have glared at that Master if he wasn't being so terribly nasty to you" or "Master, your slave just does not think she can do her journal tonight after all she went through today."

Symptoms of the she larl include, but are not limited to quick wit, fast thinking, attention to detail, deep devotion, memory of an elephant, and the ability to relieve nausea and prevent vomiting.

This one works real well hand in hand with the stepford kajira. It gives you something to do while you are not speaking to him. Write nice essays (spell checked and proofread) about how you feel and why it should be your way. Do a bit of research and back your essay up with some quotes and past success stories. Give it to him to show that you have been thinking about the things which are troubling you and trying to work through them so that you can be more pleasing to him.

Online--post it to a forum. Get a few of your girlfriends to reply to it agreeing with you 100%. See if you can find a soft-hearted, sympathetic Mistress who will also reply to it. Don't get a Master to post to it unless you are positive he will support it or the whole thing could backfire on you ~smiles~ Even then, you better think twice about it as they can be shifty under fire.

Symptoms of the teacher kajira include, but are not limited to impressive knowledge of the books and philosophy, command of the written language, persuasive and intellectual arguments, smoke screens, red herrings, stubbornness, whining, and cleaning up the vomit of others.

The Saint kajira manipulation is very effective because she is a shining example of a Master's technique and expertise. She is very valuable as a result and highly sought after. She usually has a who's who list of Masters she has served real life and long list of men who have begged her to wear their collars (the un-collared Saint kajira). She can be married and/or living with her Master 24/7 and in this capacity serves as a matriarch to girls who have not yet been found worthy of a collar (the collared Saint kajira).

The Saint kajira manipulation is very hard to pull off though and requires great sacrifice. This girl is often under attack from other girls because they are jealous of her and feel she is a threat. Hence, she spends a great deal of time validating her election to sainthood by pointing out her impeccable record and the faults of other girls. Her Master will find that the defense and protection of his Saint kajira also takes up a great deal of his time and patience.

Symptoms include, but are not limited to arrogant and condescending manners, irreproachable, perfectionism, deep-seated need to be "most popular kajira", knows-it-all, flawless, fake or doctored up pictures (online), and chokes on own vomit.

The rational kajira can be extremely effective with men since men are very vulnerable to logic. The problem for the rational kajira is that she is usually pretty easy to see coming, since she will often preface her comments with disclaimers such as "your slave knows these words may not be pleasing but" and "your slave begs to speak freely". This manipulation would best be used by those girls who are able to speak inappropriately with such prowess that there is no need to qualify her statements.

Symptoms would include, but not be limited to complaints of pms & hormonal changes over which she has no control, gentle reminders that we all make mistakes and no one is perfect, pointing out the mistakes of others, justifications for behavior such as life can be very hard and we are after all only women and emotional creatures, reminders we live on Earth and not Gor, and apologizes for her vomit.

This manipulation should be in every girls arsenal who does not like pain. Start very early in your "getting to know you stages" letting him know you are a masochist. When you get your initiatory whipping -- enjoy it!! Beg for extra lashes. The rest of your slavery will be painless. He will realize he can not punish you physically, because punishment is not suppose to be fun, and he will find more creative ways to punish you like making you write essays.

Disclaimer. This guide is presented mainly as satire. If you should attempt any of these manipulations at home, the author is not responsible for any injury, physical or mental, real or imagined, and you will have to clean up your own vomit.

Credits. The numerous girls who have tested these manipulations deserve credit for their suffering, pain and efforts. Being humble slaves, none wished to be named however, so the author will just note that she has had help creating this guide and offers her thanks to those who have made it possible. You know who you are ~winks~

The author would also like to thank all of the girls who responded to the guide, especially tera, mari and tracie. Their critiques and ideas played a very large part in the addition of two new manipulations.