Girls have crushes on boys and so do the women they become, but they don't consider their attractions sexual. Yet, physical attractions before puberty are indeed sexual. They simply lack a sex drive (aim, direction). still, many people call this form of sexuality sensuality. Sensual can be distinguished from sexual by wanting to touch, kiss, etc. versus simply wanting to have sex ("push it").

Girls and women aren't the only ones attracted to boys. Boys and men are attracted to boys as well. The problem is that so many women fear and hate men. They imagine all men as brutes who are only interested in sex and violence. While sex and violence seems to often dominate the mind of many men in their attraction to women, a man's attraction to boys is typically the same as a woman's. You see, it is these women who love boys who give birth to the boys who love boys; the boys who grow up to be the men who love boys. Yet, these women imagine men who love boys as macho men interested in dominating over the boys. However, just like women, it is purely emotional. The attraction isn't really "sexy" and "dirty". They say, "I want to hum him, kiss him, and play with him," not, "I want to @#&!* him." It's not like teenlovers, womanisers, or porn junkies with their high sex drives. It's a desire to touch because "he's so beautiful," not "he's so sexy."

I watched Air Bud first not because I picked it out but because my mother loves watching "family films" with boys. She's always been attracted to boys (long before puberty) and has talked openly about how cute she finds certain boys. Women can do that. She led directly to me. I understand how her sensual desires effect her. With respect to their attractions, women and men really aren't that different. Men can be sensual. Artists and creative men have been more intrested in feeling throughtout history. The problem is that it's the men women most fear and hate who are the most like those women.