Undoing the Knots
Help make sense of the issues
Able to make better choices
If not for the time would not be still here
Looking Back now can see how much it helped
Taught what feelings were and how they influenced the issue
Every one has their story to tell some are very sad and others when hearing them one just does not know where to start..
The starting is in the Telling with a person who does not have an emotional stake in the situation. That can remain objective and non judgemental and give empathy and good clear feed back.
One Client I spent time with had suffered abust over his life that had made him feel not quite a man, when he was stressed out he would sit and suck on his thumb and back back in a corner hoping he would not get hurt again. Other times he would lash out in fitts of temper and push and shuve any thing or person close by.
With time he started to see all the knots he had in his life and we bagan the road of undoing some till he finally worked out how to untangle knots for him self.
Another woman had suffered abuse at the hands of every one that came into her life supposed to help her and she had lost all feelings. If she felt it hurt so she had learned to push feeling so far away that they did not exist but she was left with an understanding that every thing was her fault any way. In time she began to discover what feelings were again and was brave enought to begin the journy to discove the feelings that she had denide existed and how they affected her in the here and now.
To day both these people have acknowledge that in telling the story it opened the door for the healing to come and that life is much different now than what it would have been..