| Tips on How to Handle Girls (Con't) |
| Never say the words "I love you" unless you truly mean it. |
| The little things are what matters most to us - spontaneously kissing us in the middle of a mall or while sitting at home watching TV; calling us just because, visiting us at work, stopping by our place from out of the blue; making eye contact from across the room and smiling at us, winking, or mouthing something like "I love you," or "I want you;" going inside a store while we wait in the car and bringing us a single rose; walking by us and giving us a little squeeze on the side; acting goofy with us in public; or play wrestling at home. Guys do not seem to understand that it's the simple, little things that please us the most. They're the things that really show us you care (By the way - the list of little things were only examples, those aren't all musts, but just examples - there's hundreds of little things that a guy can do to show he cares.). |
| Romantic Idea of the Week Have dogs? Take them for walk together at a park or just around the block. |
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| Don't ask us to a party Friday night then never call. |
| If you say you're going to call us back in a few hours, call us then - don't wait until the next morning to call. It's ok if it happens a couple times with a long time in between, but when it becomes a typical thing you do, then its a problem. |
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| If you're hanging out with us on New Year's Eve, do not tell us you'd rather be somewhere else. Duh! |
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| Compliment us every once in awhile. Not constantly, but just every so often. |
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| Be creative as to where you take us. Movies are cool, like for the first date or occasionally, but if that's where we go every weekend and we have the previews memorized, then we have a problem. Need ideas? Check out our Romantic Ideas of the Week, or pick up a newspaper and see what type of things are going on around town. Doesn't need to be anything elaborate, just something different. |
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| Just don't lie - why ask us out, act like you want to hang out with us, then leave us sitting there waiting for your call while you take off with other friends. |
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| When you get mad at us, at least tell us why you're mad - don't expect us to try to guess. |
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| Don't try and make-out with us in public places, especially in the daytime. I mean, we know we're incredibly attractive and irrisitable but please wait until we get back to our apartment. |
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| Do not let your mom call us after we've broken up and inquire about why we broke up and if I have a new "friend." |
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| Don't tell us you don't want to go to the beach, then go to the beach with friends. |
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| Constantly try and impress our mothers...when we go out to dinner with her, open doors for her, offer to pay for dinner, bring her a simple gift, and always make a point of showing how much you care for us (i.e. do those little things we mentioned before with our mothers close by). Mothers are more difficult to impress then their daughters and one of the most important things to us is our mother's approval. Though we often stick up for you in arguments with our mother, it'd make it so much easier on us if you don't create a reason for us to defend you. |
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| And...the #1 thing you must always remember - we should never have to remind you of these tips!!! You should just know! |
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