| Tips on How to Handle Girls |
| Possessiveness is just dumb. When we want to go out with our girlfriends don't freak, we're not going to cheat on you, we just want to spend some quality girl time together. |
| Pay attention to what we like and don't like. If we don't like chocolate, don't buy it for us for Christmas! |
| Do not tell us you want us one minute, then change your mind the next - don't play games with us, either you like us or you don't. |
| Clean up after yourself for heavens sake! If you're over at our places and we make you dinner or a snack, take your dishes over to the sink - at least! |
| Don't tell us what to do, we won't listen anyways. It's just irritating. |
| Never say, "oh are you lesbian?" Dude if we've been with you or are with you, what kind of question is that? |
| Don't get upset with us if you call us five minutes before you want to go out on a Friday night and we've already made other plans. If you want to ensure time with us, make plans ahead of time! |
| Be honest. If we ask you a question, don't lie to us, answer us truthfully. On the other hand if we don't ask a question, do not offer up brutal honesty. |
| When we cook for you, if you want us to cook again, don't say it was bad or bland unless we ask, just say "thank-you." If it's good - tell us! |
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| If we're singing to the radio - don't change the station. And never tell us, "don't do that, you look stupid" if we're dancing around in the mall. Who cares? We're just having fun - loosen up! |
| If we call on a Saturday night and ask if you're doing anything and you say you don't have any plans, then we ask if you want to do something with us, do not say "not really." If you don't really want to do anything with us, why are you with us in the first place? |
| If you've been with us for awhile and we're in that "comfortable stage," don't forget to still remind us every once in a while how much we mean to you. |
| Yeah, it's true we like to cuddle, so do so sometimes, ok? |
| "See ya, when I see ya," is not something you tell us when we're about to go on a three week trip across country with our best friend and you're jealous because heaven forbid we have a little fun without you! "Have a great time and I'll miss you" is what you should say. |
| Never tell us that we are way down on your priority list. We don't expect to be #1, but if you reiterate how low we are on your list...ouch! |
| Talk to us! It's so annoying when we have to carry the conversation all the time. When we ask you a question, try and give us more than a one worded response. |
| If we come to you crying about something serious, it's best not to say anything at all (most likely you'll end up saying something stupid), so instead, just take us in your arms and let us cry, there's no need to try and get us to stop crying, we just want a shoulder to cry on. |
| Don't give us a rose and a poem after one week of seeing eachother. Too much. Wait awhile. If you want to give us a flower, leave out the poem and get a daisy or carnation instead. |
| Definition of dating: going out on dates; leaving eachother's places. Dating does not mean, hey, let's hang out at your place. We might be stupid enough to go along with it, but after awhile we get fed up and will demand we be taken out somewhere. |
| Tips on How to Handle Girls by Melisa & Sarah (friends of Ash & Connie's) Things all girls should know about Guys |
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| This is a list based on our experiences with guys. |
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