My First Love

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Our first couple pic

 

Back to 1 jan 03, the few days before the new year. I keep going to IRC, to chat.Hope maybe find someone to spend the chirstmas and new year with.There was a girl by the nick of Jenni17.I had chat with her first time 28 dec 2002, my nick was jerson.That afternoon i was very sian then i ask her wana talk in phone.At first she dun want.But i keep press on, say i very sian.she use her afther hp and call me.

We talk for awhile but talk till almost 3pm. she is late for work liao, she told me she work in a bakery. she still ask me what clothes she should wear.Before she left the IRC, i managed to get her hp number. From that day onwards, i sian i just sms her.She like then she reply me, if not she will not.I remember 30 dec 2002, i call her hp at night, she talk to me for awhile, she find me very fan and then say her mum dun allow her to use hp at night..she just drop my phone.Then on 31dec 2002, i sms her and ask her if she wana meet up.

That day 31 dec 2002, was a half day. i came home at 12 noon. i was very sian, new year eve. I call her hp, ask her where she is. she was on her way to Tampines Mall in MRT, she going to help friends buy chalet things.she agree to meet me, but say dunno what time.

At 5pm, i was at shop N save, i call her again.Ask her if she wanted to meet. She say maybe not meeting me.At night, i call her again, i was rejected again.

on 2 jan 2003, the day i very sian, because i keep failing my test in AETI. I feel very lonely.I very stress, i feel that i have no friends.In bus 87,I pick up my two hp, 6510 and 3315.I see which number i dun want to contact, i just delete it off...I  saw jenni17 number also, i also delete it off, because she bluff me say wana meet then no meet..

on 4 jan 2003, the day was a saturday, i was alone again.i sudden feel very lonely.I call a few friends, they are not free.....then i go out myself.......i take bus to toa payoh, then mrt to bedok then bus bedok to changi air port. At there sitting alone watching aeroplane and recall my working days in chye thiam. i was very sad, suddenly i feel have no friends..

 

on 5 jan 2003, Sunday, i wake up at 1030am.Very sian again, as usual i go IRC and chat. At about 1 pm , i saw the nick again, Jenni17. It was her. i click on her, chat with her again..I very sian, i ask her wana meet again. she say she is free.then agree to meet me.But dunno go where?

Then we decided to go for a movie.. I meet her 230pm, but I was late, I turn up at 245pm, when she call me, I was in the taxi. We meet at bedok princess cinema, she brought the ticket first…. when I went up the stairs, I saw a long hair girl wearing red t-shirt and blue jeans. I did not wear spect so I did not see her face clearly, but there was no one wear red liao. So the girl that I am going to meet must be her. I walk up to her, her first impression of me, she thought I was a malay…we just meet then say hi, and went in the cinema, it was dark, I did not see her face clearly. The movie was lord of the rings; we did not really watch the movie, but talk a lot in there. We even fight, grab each other hand, she took my watch, she say she like it. Then she dun wana return to me, I snatch back from her. Haha we even exchange our IC and see, make sure that we are the person to meet.

After the movie, we went to bedok interchange, that time I can see her face clearly liao. First impression of  her, she was a cute, xiao mei mei and very talkative. I ask her if she is going home, she say she can go out till 7 or 8 plus. Then we don/t know wana go where, just took bus 30 …….In the bus, we continue to talk. …When the bus reach past PSA there, I look at her, and she look at me… my first kiss like that give her liao. After that we decide to go sentosa, we ate vegetable rice that time at world trade center… after that we went to Watson. Then we walk to sentosa…during that time very sweet, we hold hands all the way to sentosa. Walk all the way in to the beach there and talk. I never forget that time. After that, you say too late liao, your mum keep calling her. We took bus 80 to her house, the first time I send her home. we saw her mum wait for her below her block, she faster run home, and I run the other direction to catch a cab home. After I reached home, I call her. We chat on the phone for 1 hour, during that time before I sleep, I have fall in love with her…that night i had the sweetest sleep in my life....that time we started to be bf and gf….. later part of our story is to be continued…………………………and it lasted for that 9 months....3 days

This 9 months, every month we will take a picture for memory...

JAN 2003

On 20 jan 2003, when i was staying in at air force school..i was on the phone with her, i was just kidding that i was hungry, i wanted to eat something...she immediately took a cab to air force school and pass me the food at the gate. she brought me a curry puff, hot dog bun, packet of ribena and 2 chocolate bar.....after pass to me, she took the same cab home.....i was very touched, i felt love....my friend, yingwei was with me, in the end we share the food....The next day, my whole class knew that my gf brought me food last night...they tease me say i very xing fu, say i got lover bun to eat...

On 26 jan 2003, she gave me a big pillow....few days ago, i remember we went carerrefour shopping at suntec, we saw a big pillow...i told her i wanted one to hug to sleep......then on that day, she brought  a big purple pillow, got a girl on the pillow....we name the pillow, xiao jinyan....

chinese new year eve 2003, it was a raining night, after i had finish dinner at my uncle house, i took a cab to her house and fetch her to bedok princess cinema ....before chinese new year, she brought me long sleeve U2 white colour shirt...i wear it that day when meet her....

FEB 2003

On 14 feb 2003,valentine day, my first, we spend that day at chinatown point, swensen....she ate chicken chop and i ate bake rice.i give her a bouquet of red roses and she brought me 2 boxes of lego...After that we go walk walk.....

15 feb 2003, was a saturday...i bring her along to meet my air force friends... we went to sentosa...i remember that day morning, i went to her house, she waited for me at the bus stop...After that, she took me to her neighbourhood barber shop, i had a hair cut....she waited for me at her father stall...after that took mrt to tiong bahru meet my friends.......just as we reached there...went to our fav shop, bread top, to buy some bread to eat....then meet my friends at delifrance....After that ,we took bus to sentosa....at there , we celebrated my friend, adrains birthday..then we play volleyball, captain ball, i can see that she play till very happy.....very happy to see her smile...after the trip, my friends all went home.....me and her went to  catch a movie, the ring....we sneak in shun kuei to eat.....                                                          

i remember everytime go out. i will send her home, but not her house...At the bus stop, she would wait with me till my bus 80  come, then she will walk home...when she reached home, she will call me, we will chat in phone till i reached home..

28 feb 2003, she got her O level result, she got 16 pts for 5 subjects,but got D7 for her science..she was very sad.....she call me immediately after she know her result, i was the first to know...After work, i went to meet her......

march 2003

she brought me to her sec5 class bbq, at there i dunno anyone except jac her good friend.....at there, i play daidee with her friends.....after the bbq, we went to east coast walk walk....that month, she brought me to her home...the first time i saw her mum.....i am very shy and paiseh...i dunno what to do...i just sit down sofa......she went to take life board game and uno card play with me.......that period, she and her friends keep looking for jobs...she and jac wana go woodland interview for a office job...the day before, i accompany her to parkway, saw her best friend, wan jun.....she brought a black pant and white shirt....

april 2003

finally she had found a stable job, that day she and her friend went to interview for a job at bossini...meet her after work at queenstown mrt...she very happy, she told me she had beem recruited....that day she treat me eat....we took bus 11 back to my home... Her first day of work was a thursday.I remember i went to pick her home, she had a hard day...she told me she had to learn many things, name stock, altering,cashier and many things...Her first friend there was joan.. Everytime she would tell me, how is her work everyday, complain.....sometimes i see her work till so tired, i see liao also heart pain....

The first time i scold her, that time she work overtime, season chnage.she forgot to tell me and her mum....should have stop work at 1030pm...keep calling her hp,on one answer, worried about her.she had 30 miss call that night...her mum also called her, but divert to my hp, that time was also the first time , i talk to her mum in phone...in the end, she call me say work overtime, i scold her, she cry....that night really make her mum and me worried...That night she stay at my place, waited a hour under my block for her...

May 2003

This month is the month of my birthday, she wanted to open a chalet for me, i don/t want, i know she dun have $$..On 4 may 2003, i bring her to my secondary school classmates chalet.....second day of chalet, my friends, me and her went to eat breakfast early morning..then went to market buy things for the night BBQ..She treated us eat ice cream, back to chalet, we pack the ice cream into 10 cups and share..After that she sit on the sofa watch tv,then fall sleep....i was playing mahjong then, i somehow neglect her, she like very sian.....i dunno she is angry with me....suddenly she just open the door and go out of the chalet, i was shock, i chased after her...i dunno what happen...ran to pasir ris park, she sit alone at the chair crying...i was warned not to follow her....i hide behind the bushes to see her...then see her hitting her hand on the chair, bleeding, quickly ran to her, and grab her hand....ask her what happen, and don/t cry.....she say i just play mahjong , don/t care about any thing, cause i promise her go chalet i wll study for my next day air force exam, but end up play mahjong and don/t care about her, say wana bring her go escape also never go........ya i was wrong i neglect her...wanted to bring her go escape but she don/t want.....cause she is a good girl, she knew that time i don/t have much $ left, dun wana waste $$.

That night, many of my secondary friends saw her, my friends first time see me got gf...they happy for me...lingshan my mei, told me,  always call me jie, say jie, your gf not bad.....She had fun that night, we took many pictures...she is such a cheerful girl, my friends say she is very cute....

On 12 may 2003

On my birthday that day, a monday....i very touch...she brought me a black forest cake and celebrate for me with my mum and sister at my house....She buy me a box of lego....this is the first time, a gf celebrate for me..after that, we went to see movie at suntec...after that, at city link, MPH.....she bought me a bear in a bottle, at the box , she wrote happy 22nd birthday to lao gong, may all your wishes come true, i very touch...

That month, she also got the posting from Poly, got the course she wanted first choice....she very happy...

 

On 15 may 2003,that day was my AETI graduation day.Before that, her first pay, she brought me a shirt for that day...that day i wore the shirt and a baggy khaki pants, but i find it not suit...i took a cab to her work place let her see, she say not nice....bring me to giodarno, brought me a pair of jeans...that day , first time see her use her atm card.

June 2003

From june onwards, she stay in my house freqent, near to her work and school during week days, week end , i will stay at her house....these is period where i get close to her family, and become quite good terms with her mum..

16 june 2003,that night, i just came back from work....she call me say she had stomache cramp....auntie visit coming...in the phone she seem to have great pain...i very worry, just change into simple clothes rush down to hougang mall watson buy her menstruation pills.knew that she had not eat dinner, buy 2 mc chiecken and a bottle of mineral water for her...took bus 111 to her work place......went to somerset mrt staircase there, she eat the food and eat the pills...that time she was very touched that i treated her so good..

July to Sep 2003

During these periods, we had simple life,.everyday before i go work, she will wake me with me, wait for me to change and open door for me..if not she will continue to sleep, i wll close the curtain for her...because 8am start, sunshine will shine in, sure tio her face 1....before i go out, will give her a kiss on the head, then 7 or 8 am , she will wake up from sleep, then go to school or work...

This period i am quite busy at work, week days we seldom go out, only week ends....we meet almost everyday...when she leave school earlier, she will go chua chu kang mrt and wait for me...if i stop work early, i will go yio chu kang mrt wait for her...then go my house...or she will wait for me at the bus stop near my house, then call my mum and sister ask them what they want to eat for dinner....she and me will go  buy dinner back to my house eat.....after that , watch tv , play computer games together....she like to play the sims and restaurant typhoon...after that, she will do her homework, and i prepare for my work for tomoro...

July time, we brought our first couple ring at wisma atria... we see alot of rings, many not match our size....finally, found a design and match our size...64 bucks for 2...that night we had a ceremony in my house,we exchange the ring and wear for each other......

1 Sep 2003, that day i had  a major quarrel with her ......in a moment of anger, i say break up again....my third time, i was very angry and stress that time, that night both of us cry in the phone.....i promise her that i wun say break up again....and we are ok...sad i did not keep the promise i say it again 1 months later which cause the actual break up....

26 Sep 2003, i brought her , her sister and her mum to see RSAF open house.......my first outing and last with her mum, that day we went to see the latest technology that our country had....we took a cab there....very hot...her mum brought me nasi lemak for lunch....after that, went to her house, then very tired. sleep my afternoon nap there, play with her dog boyboy....

27 Sep 2003, again went to open house again, this time bring my family go, she was with me also.....

 

Oct 2003

On 1 Oct 2003, celebrated her mum's birthday in her house, we brought her mum a t-shirt...eat cake, sing songs very happy.

On 3 Oct 2003, i celebrated my mum's birthday with my family at bedok 85 market eat, she was there also, celebrate with my mum.

 

The Break Up

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