They are not unusual occurrences. I'm sure everyone of us humans have dreams at some point of our lives. Dreams are good in many ways, they are the reasons for all those innovative, creative ideas and products we have now. However some ambitions or dreams that Man have can really disrupt the peaceful living of people and harm others.
Those destructive dreams are like, you want the power of something desperately that you'd do anything literally to achieve it. Even if you have to kill someone or to betray someone for it. DReams are wonderful so long as you don't hurt anyone in the process of fulfilling them.
Well, so you may ask, What are my dreams? *laugh out loudly* I have had many dreams before and still have many now. The past dreams were being a LAWYER, an ACTRESS, a DETECTIVE etc. *Grin* Now my dreams are:
> Finish my polytechinic edu with my best efforts
> Try to get into an university whether local or overseas.
> Be a counselling psychologist/ counsellor
> Learn driving a car or a motorcycle
> Maintain all my present friendships and develop new ones.
> Learn something new each time i can and have time.
> Travel to one new country each year if possible.
> Honor my family, Goddess and myself. *lolx*
> Get a boyfriend as close to my ideals and prolly marry him when i'm 28-30
> Have a happy family & maybe migrate to 1 of the western countries
> Open my own shop or business.
> Be a good mom and wife. lolx
> Enjoy life, Be Happy, and Help others.
Many of these i can't really be sure that i'll do them. Because the future for me is still uncertain, there might be some circumstances in the future for me to change my plans and dreams. But ultimately, i still want to have children, enjoy life, help others and be independent. Someday i will do those but the others i might not be sure. However i'll finish my poly studies. ITs just whether if i can afford and able to go into uni.
I'm not going to worry about that yet. The time hasn't come for me to decide. Sure, i've been checking out the universities, the school fees, and whatsnots. I have no idea even if i'm able to get good enough grades, but i'll do my very best.
I know, some parents aren't exactly supportive of their children's ambitions or dreams. But i'd like to tell you, if something is what you wants to do and know you can do it, just go ahead! To hell with what others think or say, the most important thing is whether you are being true to yourself and that you have the passion in it to work at it.
Actually i think that one of the lessons in life we have to learn especially in this society, is to be able to be true to yourself. Not to follow the crowds blindly but to know what you truly wants and to go ahead achieving them. In this society, we aren't encouraged to break out of the mound but to follow what's expected of us , of our ages, of our cultures and religions.
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