| I N T I M A T E I N T E R E S T S |
| This page last updated 07/02/2006 |
| Self Esteem I have found that people with low self esteem suck the life out of everyone who is unfortunate enough to know them. Self esteem can only be found inside yourself, no one else can find it and give it to you. Honesty Trust is something that can only be earned through honesty. Honesty and trust should be the foundation of all relationships, no matter how casual or intimate. When in doubt, always err on the side of truth... you can't be blamed for being honest, even if the truth is hard to bear. Dependability Being someone who can be counted on is what friendship is really all about. If you make a promise, follow through, It shouldn't be such a difficult concept, but it apparently is rather uncommon. Compassion & Understanding The ability to care about the needs of others is a very important quality to me. There is so much selfishness in the world that it just breaks my heart. I understand taking care of yourself, but never at the expense of others. Acceptance of Others Diversity is what drives us. If we were all the same there would be no need for music or art. Only by accepting the differences of those around us, will we be able to embrace our collective humanity. Acceptance of Yourself I know... it sounds so New Age, but the truth is that if you are not able to accept yourself as you are, you will never be able to accept me as I am, and if you hide who you are, I'll never be able to accept you... only the illusion that you choose to share with me. That's NOT the way to start a friendship. You may notice that I have NOT mentioned any physical attributes at all. That's because we aren't interested in purely physical relationships and we do not base friendship on what a persons physical appearance. We only care about WHO you are... your hobbies, your opinions, your beliefs your dreams. If we choose to meet, I will expect to exchange pictures so we can recognize one another when we meet, but that's just common courtesy. |
| T h e Q u a l i t i e s We S e e k i n F r i e n d s & L o v e r s |
| I believe that ALL healthy human beings need to have an active interest in enjoying, exploring, and expanding their own sexuality. We prefer to share physicaly intimacy with our close group of friends and do not play with strangers. I am happy to share my intimate interests with you so you know that you can be completely honest about your interests with me in return... This is NOT an invitation to have sex however. You need to keep one very important thing in mind: If you are not interested in taking the time to build a friendship with me and with my partner, I am not interested in having sex, with you! |