One name which you will see here, periodically, is that of "Inibmutes" or Donna Schaefer, the wife of Craig Schaefer. If you do write to her, I would ask you to please be very friendly to her. I've only met her briefly, but she seemed very sweet, and very genuine. Having looked over her posts on the board, I do not get the feeling that she is faking it.

Whether Tamara Siuda deserves it or not, Ms. Schaefer really seems to believe in her. I get the feeling that Inibmutes has had an undeservedly hard time in life, already, so just in case appearances are not deceptive, please do not do anything to make her life harder still, like, say, sending her letters mocking her, or the House. Craig Schaefer may deserve that, but Donna Schaefer does not.

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