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1-3-13-Supervisory SkillsRead Luke 2:41-52 According to God's law, every male was required to go Jerusalem three times a year for the great festivals (Deuteronomy 16:16). In the spring, the Passover was celebrated, followed immediately by the week-long Feast of Unleavened Bread. Passover commemorated the night of the Jews' escape from Egypt when God had killed the Egyptian first born but had passed over Israelite homes (see Exodus 12:21-36). Passover was the most important of the three annual festivals. At age 12, Jesus was considered almost an adult and so he didn't spend a lot of time with his parents during the feast. Those who attended these feasts often traveled in caravans for protection from robbers along the Palestine roads. It was customary for the women and children to travel at the front of the caravan, with the men bringing up the rear. A 12-year old boy conceivably could have been in either group, and both Mary and Joseph assumed Jesus was with the other one. But when the caravan left Jerusalem, Jesus stayed behind, absorbed in his discussion with the religious leaders. The temple courts were famous throughout Judea as a place of learning. The apostle Paul studied in Jerusalem, perhaps in the temple courts, under Gamaliel, the greatest rabbis of the land would assemble to teach and to discuss great truths among themselves. The coming Messiah would no doubt have been a popular discussion topic, for everyone was expecting him soon. Jesus would have been eager to listen and to ask probing questions. It was not his youth, but the depth of his wisdom, that astounded these teachers. Mary had to let go of her child and let him become a man, God's Son, the Messiah. Fearful that she hadn't been careful enough with this God-given child, she searched frantically for him. But she was looking for a boy, not the young man who was in the temple astounding the religious leaders with his questions. It is both sweet and painful to see our children as adults, our students as teachers, our subordinates as managers, our inspirations as institutions. But when the time comes to step back and let go, we must do so in spite of the hurt. Then our protégés can exercise their wings, take of light, and soar to the heights God intended for them. This is the first mention of Jesus' awareness that he was God's Son. But even though he knew his real Father, he did not reject his earthly parents. He went back to Nazareth with them and lived under their authority for another 18 years. God's people do not despise human relationships or family responsibilities. If the Son of God obeyed his human parents, how much more should we honor our family members! Don't use commitment to God's work to justify neglecting your family. Jesus' parents didn't understand what he meant about his Father's house. They didn't realize he was making a distinction between his earthly father and his heavenly Father. Jesus knew that he had a unique relationship with God. Although Mary and Joseph knew he was God's Son, they didn't understand what his mission would involve. Beside, they had to raise him, along with his brothers and sisters (Matthew 13:55, 56), as a normal child. They knew he was unique, but they did not know what was going on in his mind. The Bible does not record any events of the next 18 years of Jesus' life, but Jesus undoubtedly was learning and maturing. As the oldest in a large family, he assisted Joseph in his carpentry shop. Joseph may have died during this time, leaving Jesus to provide for the family. The normal routines of daily life gave Jesus a solid understanding of the Judean people. The second chapter of Luke shows us that although Jesus was unique, he had a normal childhood and adolescence. In terms of development, he went through the same progression we do. He grew physically and mentally, he related to other people, and he was loved by God. A full human is not unbalanced. It was important to Jesus-and it should be important to all believers-to develop fully and harmoniously in each of these key areas: physical, mental, social, and spiritual. What was the significance of this feast; which was an annual tradition with Jesus' parents (see Ex. 23:15; Dt. 16:1-6)?
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2. Rating-Ranking ScaleConsider all those on your list in terms of their (quality). Cross out the names of any you cannot rate on this area. Put name in Column 1, below, on the first line, numbered 1. Cross out his name on your list. Consult the list again and pick out the person having least of this area. Put his name at the bottom of Column 2, on the line numbered 20. Cross out his name. Now, from the remaining names on your list, select the one having most of the area. Put their name in the first column on line 2. Keep up the process using up the names. Area: _______________________________________________________
3. Forced Distribution Method"Grading on a curve," predetermined, percentages of rates are placed in various performance categories. One practical way of doing this is to write each person's name on a separate index card. Then, for each trait being appraised (quality of work, creativity, etc.) Then, for each trait being appraised (quality of work, creativity, etc.) you place the person's card in one of the appropriate categories. 4. Critical Incident MethodHere you keep, for each subordinate, a running record of uncommonly good or undesirable incidents. Then every six months or so, you and your subordinate sit down and discuss his or her performance based on these specific incidents. Problems to Avoid When Appraising PerformanceOne your subordinates find out that the appraisal system is unfair, the performance-appraisal-reward link will be broken, and performance will likely suffer. 1. The Clarity of Standards ProblemsIt is important that you obtain consensus among your supervisors regarding the meanings of traits and degrees in the rating form. 2. The Halo Effect ProblemThe appraiser assigns the same rating to all traits regardless of a person's actual performance on these traits. The problem often occurs with people who are especially friendly (or unfriendly) toward the supervisor. 3. The Central Tendency Problem.Most people have a central tendency when filling in questionnaires or rating scales. For example, if the scale ranges from one through seven, many people will tend to a void the highs (six and seven) and lows (one and two) and put most of their checkmarks between three and five. The ranking tools we discussed are aimed at avoiding this central tendency problem, since ranking your people prevents you from rating them all "average." 4. The leniency or Strictness Problem.Some supervisors tend to rate all their subordinates consistently high (or low). 5. The Problem of BiasThe problem of how the employee's sex or race affects the rating he or she obtains: One reason this problem is more difficult to deal with is that the bias is sometimes for and some times against the person being rated. At present there is no easy way to predict just what effect this bias problem may have on an appraisal. About the best one can do is be on guard against being a "biased" appraiser. Avoiding the Appraisal ProblemsProviding clear instructions and training can help to minimize or eliminate problems like the halo effect. You can minimize many of the problems by choosing the right appraisal tool. Communication and Coaching/TrainingInterpersonal Communicational ProblemsWhile most people here what the person they are speaking to is saying, much of it doesn't "register," because the listener is busy trying to formulate an answer, or because his mind is wandering or because he simply is not working hard enough to figure out the actual meaning and feelings behind the speaker's words. Other people make the mistake of trying to make their point through arguing or by cajoling or prodding. Criticizing is another barrier to effective interpersonal communication, one that is almost guaranteed to have an adverse effect on the speaker. Another common mistake is to attack the other person's defenses, for example, by saying that "you are just denying fault because you are insecure." Guidelines For Improving Interpersonal Communication and Training1. Avoid Making Your Subordinates DefensiveWhen you attack subordinates (through criticizing, arguing, or giving advice), it is natural for them to try to defend themselves: they might do this by denying they are at fault, by getting angry, or by retreating into a shell.
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3. Do not Criticize.Criticisms is a negative consequence-a form of punishment-and while it may help diminish unwanted behavior, it is of little use in eliciting the desired behavior. 4. Counsel on a Day-to-Day Basis.It is important to avoid "critical broadsides" and to give reinforcement immediately. 5. Use Critical IncidentsGo into the appraisal conference with concrete critical incidents - specific examples of effective and ineffective behavior. 6. Agree on Standards for ImprovementFacilitate improvement by jointly setting specific targets that your subordinate can shoot for. Related to this jointly set up a timetable with some intermediate goals. 7. Get the trainee to talk.To get your trainee to analyze their own attitudes and change its importance that their- rather than you-do most of the talking. One way to do this is with reflective summaries. Here you reflect back to the person his attitudes and feelings; this will usually encourage the person to elaborate on his ideas. Another technique is to repeat the person's key words or phrases, perhaps as questions. Avoid "turning off" the trainee. 8. Do not Try to be an Expert.Concentrate on actively listening, mutually setting goals, and reviewing achievements. Disciplining Trainees/StaffDisciplining also leans heavily on the leader's interpersonal skills. Prerequisites to Discipline1. Communicated Rules and RegulationsThe purpose of rules and regulations is to inform staff ahead of time as to what is and is not acceptable behavior, (usually in writing) what is not permitted. This is typically done during the orientation and the rules are also listed in the orientation booklet. 2. A system of Progressive PenaltiesThe severity of the penalty is equally a function of the type of offense and the number of times the offense has occurred. 3. An Appeals ProcessThis helps to ensure that discipline is meted out fairly and equitably. Guideline for Effective DiscipliningDisciplining is one of the only forms of punishment most organizational experts would sanction. But since it is a form of punishment, it is important to have safeguards against its misuse. 1. Do not Rob your trainee of His or Her Dignity - (discipline in private - Attack the act, not the person).2. The burden of Proof is on You.The burden of proof is always on the manager to prove that a rule or regulation and that you can back this up with positive evidence. 3. Get the facts.Do not base your decision on hearsay evidence, or on your "general impression." 4.Do Not Act While Angry.A good idea to "cool off" a bit before disciplining trainees. 5. Provide Adequate Warning6. Do not Make the Punishment Too Severe7. Make Sure the Discipline is Equitable8. Get the Other Side of the Story.It is a good idea to always let your trainee fully explain what happened and why it happened. 9. Do Not Back Down When You Are Right.In most cases "being soft" is not viewed as a virtue. Instead trainees either assume that the rule itself is frivolous, or that the rules and penalties are being applied inconsistently. 10. Do Not Let Disciplining Become PersonalMistrust your motives-Do not harbor a grudge. Homework
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