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1-2-11-Success isRead 2 Timothy 2:14-26 Because God will examine what kind of workers we have been for him, we should build our lives on His word and build his Word into our lives-it alone tells us how to live for him and serve him. Don't settle for less than God's highest and bes t. Allow God to use you as an instrument of his will. If you are to teach God's truth, is to be kind and gentle, patiently and courteously explaining the truth. Good teaching never promotes quarrels or foolish arguments. Whether you are teaching church school, leading a Bible study, or preaching in church, remember to listen to people's questions and treat them respectfully, while avoiding foolish debates, if you do this; those who oppose you will be more willing to hear what you have to save and perhaps turn from this error.
Encouragement-patiently offer grace to the disgraceful, hope to the hopeless and faith to the frustrated-Acceptance, Affection, and Affirmation. Prayer-Prayer serves as a declaration of dependence relying completely on God. InterdependencePrinciple: God expects you to acknowledge your need for others in discovering and doing ministry.The eye cannot say to the hand, "I don't need you." And the head cannot say to the feet, "I don't need you!" But God has combined the members of the body and has given greater honor to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it. (1 Corinthians 12:21, 24-26) Knowing what interdependence means in your ministry will help you to become a healthy person who is not Dependent on, nor Independent From others in ministry. Defining Interdependence.It seems like such a foreign word in an American culture that has championed the virtues of independence," especially in the Christian context of ministry? First, we do not mean "independence." This means "to have no need of others." We also do not mean the opposite characteristic, "dependence." This means "to totally need others." Independence and dependence. One is the mark of the Lone Ranger who heads into life, alone. The other is the sign of a person who can't stand up without clinging to others. Both are extreme and unhealthy forms of behavior. Interdependence combines the best characteristic of both. Interdependence means to "depend upon one another." It does not mean losing your identity for the sake of belonging to a group, but just the opposite. Interdependence, as God would have you practice it in ministry means your uniqueness as a person will be complemented and even magnified by others who have distinctive gifts of their own. Independence says, "I don't deed you." Dependence says, "I need you too much." Interdependence says, "WE need each other to work together for an end that's greater than our individual selves." Using Interdependence to Accomplish MinistryGod created you with the need for interdependence so that you could accomplish His ministry in the company of others. We see this principle at ministry in two ways. 1. Interdependence is needed to get the job done.The fact is, you'll need the gifts of others to accomplish your ministry. Paul knew the importance of a body of believers: "The eye cannot say to the hand, 'I don't need you.' And the head cannot say to the feet, 'I don't need you'" (1 Corinthians 12:21). Paul understood that the seemingly less important parts of the body were actually very critical to the proper functioning of the entire body. If you've ever temporarily lost the use of a thumb, or been unable to walk because a tiny sliver lodged in your big toe, then you know how true it is. You appreciate even "the lesser" parts of the body when you realize that you can't function without them. In a similar way, you can be thankful for your talents, abilities, and skills, but you won't be able to put them to their maximum use in a life unless they function in the proper relationship with others' gifts. Players on a football team know they can't score a touchdown unless everyone on the team uses their individual gifts to work toward the same goal. When each player becomes interdependent with the others, then the entire team is able to accomplish far more than any one player. The reward, as Paul suggests to the Corinthians, is that "if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it" (1 Corinthians 12:26). When you minister successfully with others, you can see why God created you with the need for interdependence. God wants to encourage you to realize your unique importance and significance regardless of your abilities. As far as He's concerned everyone has something important to contribute through his or her lifework. Therefore, nobody should feel less important than others. It's encouraging to know that you're needed! Interdependence is also needed to keep us humble. No matter how much you believe that all talents are needed, the natural human tendency is to elevate certain ones over others. Investing money seems more important than collecting garbage. Fixing a broken leg seems more important than repairing a broken water main. This kind of graduated scale of worker significance only encourages people to have an exaggerated sense of self importance. By creating people as interdependent beings, God has leveled everyone, including you. By learning to be interdependent with others, you can experience a bona fide pride in your own ministry and still appreciate the contribution of others. 2. Interdependence is needed in order to discover and confirm your proper place in ministry.One of the best ways this happens is through the counsel and confirmation of significant people in your life. These are special people who care about you enough to listen, ask sensitive questions, and give advice that helps you make wise and careful life decisions. Very few people are able to do this for you because very few people have the qualities worthy to be a "significant other" in your life. When you choose who your "significant others" will be, ask yourself these questions: Does this person know God and His Word? People who really know God and His Word, and who understand His claims on your life, are rare. If you're truly seeking God's direction in your life, then you will want to seek out Christians who have this quality. Does this person know you well enough to be honest with you? If you're like most people, you allow your real self to be known to only a very few people. Even these people will probably know more about your feelings then they do about your talents, abilities, and skills. Those who know who you are and what you do well-AND who'll be open and honest with you-are, again, hard to find. Does this person know the world of ministry? Many well-meaning folks will try to counsel you in your life decisions, but often their understanding of the ministry is very limited. This can severely restrict the level of wise counsel you can realistically expect, since a counselor can only share the things he or she understands. Therefore, you have a choice: You can either seek counsel from the few people who have a broad understanding of the ministry world, or you can call on many people whose knowledge of the ministry world is limited. If this person is a professional, does he or she have a proven track record? And will he or she commit themself to help you? There are a lot of "professional Christian life counselors" advertising their services today. Some are very competent. Others are not. Ask yourself, "Who have they really helped in the life decision-making process? What are their credentials? To what extent do they truly integrate a Scriptural approach to the life decision making process/ Do I sense that they really care about me and are willing to work and pray with me throughout my entire life planning process?" Let's face it, the credentials for being a wise life trainer/counselor are tough. They will be few, but they play an important part in discovering your lifework/ministry. and others. And that's where you come in as a trainer. Three Environments to Find Wise CounselNow that you know what to look for in a person who can help you with your life decisions, your next question might be, "Where can I hope to discover some likely candidates?" Here are three likely environments in which you'll be able to seek out the Christians who'll be able to counsel you wisely in your life decisions. 1. Your home.The first place you're likely to find significant others is right where you live. Your parents, spouse, children, and roommates can often provide helpful life advice. 2. Christian Leadership Training InstituteLike it or not, your trainer is often an ideal person to evaluate your talents. He or she will be able to observe your life strengths and weaknesses. A trainer isn't always on-target in evaluating your performance, but the insight and knowledge help you understand the type of ministry you enjoy and do best. 3. Your church or school.The local church can be a third valuable source of individuals who can give you wise life counsel. Is your church committed to fulfilling Christ's ministry in the world? Is the teaching you receive there grounded in Scripture? is your church allowing Christ to be the head of the body? Does your church acknowledge the power of the Holy Spirit? If the answer to these questions is "yes," than the body of believers to which you've committed yourself can be a great help in your life decisions. Your church should especially be a place that allows you to discover your sense of mission. It should be a place that helps you develop your ministry and supports you in your actual life decisions. Often, Christian professors at school or the advisors in your school's career planning office qualify as competent ministry counselors. SummaryIt's no coincidence that this lesson concludes by focusing on the word "interdependence" You began the ministry decision-making process alone. By now you should have some company. You should be able to step back from Leadership training and realize that you're in the company of other Christians who are also busy seeking to discover what their leadership is all about. As a matter of fact, having completed this lesson, you're now more qualified to be part of the solution for others who are seeking God's perspective on their life! Homework
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