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The following stories about the seniors are written and interviewed by the
the FIT members from the three high schools we are serving. It is all about
the paths and hardships the seniors have had been through.
以下所有的人生經歷全都是各前輩之親身經歷及我們三所中學學生所記録.
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Stories of the seniors from
Newcomer High School students
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Mr. Ng Sing Man, Age: 80
Record by Wu Hui Fang
Ng Sing Man is
nearly eighty years old. He has lived in San Francisco for thirteen
years. He has five children and sixteen grandchildren. He cannot
only cook, but also can do crafts. In his life, he went thought ups
and downs, but he has never given up.
When he was
still a high school student, he got married. He got a diploma after
graduated.
Because of the
changing policy in China after the
Cultural Revolution, the government had chosen some educators to
teach in high schools. Mr. Ng was one of the educators. He had
already taught in a high school for several years. He liked teaching
and being with students. He still keeps a photo that he took with
his students. He misses his students.
After a few
years, the policy changed, and therefore he lost his job. He tried
hard to look for a new job. He found a job in a company working as
an accountant. Unfortunately, it would not last long. He decided to
move to Canton, China. He left behind his wife and children in his
village. He worked different jobs in Canton. Finally, he learned
cooking and became a cook.
Mr. Ng and his
wife immigrated to San Francisco in 1989. When he came here, he was
sixty-seven years old. He still tried hard to find a job and study
at school.
He knew it was hard to find a job at
his age, but he never gave up. He studied because he desired so
strongly to successfully apply for his children and grandchildren to
move here.
He is currently
retired, but he still attends activities and does volunteer work in
the senior center. He believes that he should give back to the
community. He is very active in the center. He likes playing Chinese
chess and singing, so he joins the competition
every year. He gets some prizes from the events. He also
likes doing crafts. I see different kinds of crafts in his living
room such as a dragon boat, snowman, vase and dragon. These are
beautiful artistic items.
He
enjoys his life very much. He likes living in America because he can
do what he wants.
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Name:
Zhao Hong Age: 70 Record
by Tony Chan
I visited an elder who is named
Zhao Hong. He is seventy years old living in San Francisco. He
shared his life experiences with me.
He came from Kai Ping, China. His
father lived in Singapore, when he was small. Therefore, he lived
with his mother. His father came to China to visit him and his
mother every three years. He seldom met and talked to his father. He
did not have many memories of his father.
The main family financial support
was from his father. His father sent the money draft from Singapore.
Besides, his mother worked on a farm to earn some money. He did not
have to worry about his basic needs. He also had the opportunity to
go to school.
When he was a high school student,
the war had already begun. His life had changed. He was suffering.
His family could not get money from his father because all of the
banks around the world had collapsed. His family faced a financial
problem. It was a very hard time.
The war had ended. After high
school graduation, he went to Canton to take a class that the
government held. Finishing this class, he could work in the
government. He had been chosen to work in the Department of Market
Analysis. It was hard work.
Mr. Zhao got married and settled
down in Canton, China. He decided that he would like to live with
his mother, so she moved to Canton. He has seven children. He took
care of his family very well.
While his first five children
graduated high school, the Cultural Revolution had begun. His
children had been chosen for the Civil Service jobs that required
that they had to go to a particular place to work on a particular
job such as farming, construction, or fishing. They went to
different places. It was a very difficult time for them. Their
father, Mr. Zhao, was worried about them. He sometimes visited and
brought some clothes and food for them. About eight years later, the
hard times passed. The President Ding changed the rules. His
children could go home. He was so happy.
He has lived in America since 1990.
When he arrived, he lived in a very small town. There were hardly
any Chinese people there, so he moved to San Francisco. There are
more Chinese people in San Francisco. He likes going shopping and
eating in Chinatown. He appreciates what he has right now.
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Name: Nancy Choy Age: 81
Record by Ray Wei
Nancy Choy came from China. She is
eighty-one years old. She went through some difficulties in her
life.
The war began; her family had been
moved to Shiu Kwan, China. Her husband worked in the Department of
Health. He also opened a motel in Shiu Kwan. They lived in Shiu Kwan
about one year. Her husband with her daughter went to Toi Shan to
visit her parents. After the visiting, the road had been cancelled
by the soldiers. They could not go back to Shiu Kwan, so they had to
stay at Toi Shan. Nancy lived in Shiu Kwan by herself about one
year.
The war was ended. She decided to
go to Toi Shan to meet her husband. Unfortunately, some thieve stole
her food. She only had left a golden ring in her pocket. Before
passing through the customs agents, she put her golden ring in her
mouth. If the soldiers found her ring, they would not give it back
to her. She paid one dollar for the ferry fare to Canton. In Canton,
she sold her golden ring, so she with her friends could have some
money to go to Toi Shan. She liked helping others, but after that
she never saw her friends again.
She came to America in 1968.
Sorrowfully, her husband died in 1967. She felt a lot of pain in the
beginning because she could do nothing. She learned how to sew in a
sewing company, but it was too hard for her. She only earned about
thirty dollars a month. Consequently, she quit that job. After that,
she found a job washing the dishes in a restaurant. She could not
stand it, so quit again. Then, her friend introduced her to work in
another restaurant as a cook. She did not like it. She made up her
mind to quit, but her boss needed her. She worked for him about six
months. Finally, she left.
Nancy took an English class in
Chinatown. She had prepared dinner for an American family for five
years. When she was sixty-three years old, she finally retried.
She has more spare time to study
English and to learn singing, now. She also does volunteering at
Self Help for Elderly.
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Name: Mr. Lee
Age: 80
Record by Wu Hong Liang
Mr. Lee who was
born in Canton, China, and is now 80 years old. Forty-five years
ago, he got an American immigrant visa. Beginning his journey, he
left behind his wife, a son and a daughter in China.
Having the dream
in his heart, he believes that could succeed in the United States.
He lived in his relative�s house when he was just arrived. He knew
he could not live there for a long period of time, so he found a
studio with a shared bath and kitchen in Chinatown.
The main obstacle
in his situation was a language: English. He looked for a job as a
bellboy in a hotel, but he just worked there a short time. He had
never thought it was so difficult to make a living in the US. He
earned not very much per month, however he not only paid for the
rent, but also sent money home. He could not have much savings.
Never giving up
was his aspiration. He had a dream that he would accomplish
something in this foreign country. He could not �surrender�. Time
was gone. His life was steadier; subsequently he took an English
class after work and during his free time. He wanted to become a
citizen in order to be applying for his family to come to America.
Seven years
later, he got his citizenship. His beautiful wife and two gorgeous
children immigrated to the US. He told me it was the happiest and
most unforgettable day in his life. He was thrilled.
From being a bus
boy to a manager, his hard work was rewarded. He had worked in the
restaurant for ten years. He was pleased.
He retired. He
goes with his friends to the playground to do exercise everyday.
After lunch, he plays Chinese Chess with his friends. He is
satisfied. He likes living here and his family like it too.
He has something
to tell to younger people, �What you give may not be returned, but
don�t give, and you can be sure that nothing will be returned.� I
learned a lot from Mr. Lee.
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Name: Lee Fung Jie
Record by Leo Wei
Lee Fung Jie was
born in Hong Kong. After the war was began, her parents and she
moved to China. She lived in China for a long period of time. After
the war, she went to Hong Kong.
Her daughter
married and immigrated to America. Her daughter and son-in-law had a
restaurant in Los Angles. They had no time to take care of their
children. As a result, her daughter felt like it would be good to
have her here to help out. She did not want to go to America because
her mother was about ninety years old. She was the only one who
could take care of her mother. After her daughter and son-in-law
requested her to move to America, she finally moved here, to live
with her daughter, a few years later.
She had nothing
to do besides stay home and take care of her grandchildren. She
wanted to go to the restaurant to help out, but her daughter did not
allow it.
Her grandchildren
grew up, and she moved to San Francisco by herself. She is so
pleased that she can still see her daughter and grandchildren. She
feels that people in America are nice and kind. Elders can receive
health care and other public services in America. She likes living
in America more than in China.
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Name: Lin Hui Pin Age:
72 Record
by Lin Qin Fu
Lin Hui Pin is seventy-two years old. She was born in a
poor family. She did not have an opportunity to go to school. She
had to work when she was small.
She got married and gave birth to five children. As she was
about to turn thirty, she had been working every day because her
family did not have enough money.
In 1979, she found a job in Macao. She not only had to
work, but also had to take care of her family. It was a Chinese
tradition: women did all the housework even though they had to work
at a job, too. She earned about $1000 per month, but she paid half
of her salary for rent on an apartment every month. It was a hard
time for her. She was very stressed.
Her burden was taken away once her children grew up. She
was delighted because her children built up their own families. In
1982, one of her daughters got married to an American. Her daughter
moved to the United States. After seven years, she also went to here
live with her daughter.
Now she gets the SSI
from the government. She enjoys her life very much.
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Name: Mrs.
Lam Age: about 63 Record by Cheng Sin Yee
Mrs. Lam
was born in a village in China. Her family was not rich. It was a
traditional Chinese family; the rules in her family were very
strict. In China, men rule everything. The men were made more
important than the women. Therefore she had very little respect from
her family. She had to do all the housework and obey everyone. She
could not say no in her family. She had had a very difficult life
since she was small.
The war was begun when she was only ten years old. The
terrible life began. Everyone had suffered. They didn�t have much to
eat. Everything that came to her family gave them black luck.
They could not live in their village anymore, so they
started the journey to Hong Kong. They were in for a very hard on
the journey. When they arrived to Hong Kong, all her family members
had to find a job to support their family. Even she had to work. She
found a job in a factory.
The time passed and their lives became good. Until she
was 18, when she met her husband and they got married. They had
three daughters and a son. After a few years, her family moved to
San Francisco. She doesn�t need to suffer anymore. She enjoys her
life so much.
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Name: Lee Sun Feng
Age:72 Record by Frances Yuan & Wendy
Yang
Lee Sun Feng, who came from Canton, China, is
seventy-two years old. She has lived in San Francisco since 1990.
She has six children: five daughters and a son. She lives with her
children. Chinese say, �Having an old person in the family is a
treasure.�
She likes eating vegetables and fruits. Her favorite
fruit is papaya. Her daughters often buy papayas for her.
When she was a young girl, her family was very rich. She could
buy anything she wanted. Unfortunately, her family became bankrupt.
After her family�s financial problems, her moral values and attitude
toward living life changed. She learned how to save money and how to
spend money. As a result, she became frugal. She has never wasted
money. She doesn�t buy anything expensive and spends most of her
money on food and clothes. She also fully supports the effort to
save energy. If someone forgets to turn off lights, she will turn
them off. She collects paper for recycling.
She likes wearing old clothes and shoes, but in fact, her
children always buy many new clothes and shoes for her. She would
like her children not to spend money on clothing.
She is not a good cook, but she can make delicious rice
wrapped in triangles. It is her secret recipe. She is happy when her
family likes eating her food.
She thinks the main concern in her family is safety.
Everyone should live in safe and happy places.
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Name: Rachel (Not her real name) Age:
70 Record by Wilson Qiu
Rachel was born in the United States. Her father was
born in the Middle East. She would never want to live in the Middle
East because she would not have the same freedoms as a woman,
sometimes even as a human being.
She considers herself very lucky to be born in America,
even though there are problems sometimes, like racism and sexism.
She is happy to be here because, even though these things exist, she
has the right to rebel and refuse what she considers injustice
without being persecuted for her thoughts, her speech, or her
feelings about the government and society. The most important thing
about the US is that she is allowed to fight to make it better. It
is a country that allows room for improvement, and is always
changing.
She thinks she is old enough to share something with the
younger people, but her only advice would be to take advantage of
everything life gives you. She has met many students, who are not
happy to be in the United States, but she tells them �You have no
choice; your parents brought you here. The only choice you have now
is to either take advantage of being in a new country, or lament and
gloss over memories of home until you can go back.� Always try and
make the best out of any situation. Never let anything in life be a
waste.
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Mrs. Liu Age: 88 Record by Chi and
Sen
Mrs. Liu, who is Chinese, is 88. She arrived from China
in 1961. She married twice; has three daughters by a first marriage
and a son in the second. All of her children got married also. Her
younger daughter and son still live in China. The other two
daughters live in America.
She was a farmer in China. Her family was not rich, so
all her family members had to work on the farm. She was the elder
child in the family, thus she worked on the farm and did the
housework. Although she felt tired all the time, she was happy.
She moved to America for the reason that her elder
daughter wanted her to take care of her grandchildren. She has two
granddaughters and a grandson. She loves them very much. When they
grew up, she found a job in a sewing factory. She had worked in the
factory since 1970.
She will go to China and stay there this coming Chinese
New Year for helping her son to look after his children. She says,
�I would like �sleeping� in my country, my home country.�
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Name: Mr. Fong Record by Wu Hui Mei
Everyone has his or her own experiences; Mr. Fong�s
experience is special and as exciting as riding a roller coaster.
Mr. Fong was born in a rich family in China, but he never showed
off. He did not want to get money from his father. He made up his
mind to earn money by working hard.
The war began in 1937; he submitted an application to be
a soldier. His parents prohibited his decision, but he still went
for it. He thought it was the right thing to do. His parents would
worry about him.
A few years later, the war ended. He went home, however
he did not stay long because he decided to go to America for good.
He gave up everything he had in his family. His parents strongly
forbade this plan. Because of this, they fought a lot. Finally, his
father stepped back and gave him five US dollars. His father might
think that he could not have any money, and then he would come home.
His father was wrong.
Mr. Fong thought five dollars was a lot of money for him
to use. He had a plan: first, he bought an English book in a book
store. Second, he searched for a job. Third, he found a place to
live. Finally, he went to school to learn English. He realized that
he had to learn English. If he did not know the language, he could
not survive.
Now he is not alone. He has children and grandchildren.
Globe- trotting with his wife is his dream. Certainly, his dream
came true already. He is so thankful that he is able to choose his
own way to achieve his goal. He shared with me, �We should not
regret, and should not miss a chance that can accomplish our goal.�
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Name: Mrs. Kong
Age: 97 Record by Ma Feng
Mrs. Kong was
born in Canton. When she was small, her parents had gone to Vietnam
to build up their own businesses. Her father was successful in
Vietnam. Her family became very rich. She had three servants to
serve her meals and to follow her every day, but she seldom saw her
parents.
Her father
passed away when she was twenty-two. Her brothers had their own
businesses, so they did not have time to take care of her father�s
business. Consequently, she took over the business. She did it very
well.
Her mother
would worry about her because she only spent time in the office. She
did not go out with anyone. As a result, her mother arranged a blind
marriage to her with a rich man who was a widower with two children.
He was twenty years older than she. His children were about twenty
years old.
Her husband
died when she was thirty years old. She became a widow with three
young children. She took over all of the businesses from her father
and her husband. Some servants looked after her children.
The war began
in 1937 and her business collapsed. She spent all her money to buy
gold. She thought she could not stay in Vietnam anymore. She spent
a lot of gold to buy ship tickets for her children. Her older son
and younger daughter went to France. She and her youngest son went
to America. After the war, her older son and daughter came here from
France.
Now she thinks
that she has nothing and lost everything in the war.
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Name: Mrs. YU Age: 77 Record by
Christina Wu
I went to visit
my mother�s friend, Mrs. Yu. She came from Canton in 1987. Now she
is seventy-seven.
Her family was
very poor. Her parents, who rented a small farm to raised
vegetables, were farmers. She is the elder child, so she had to take
care of her younger siblings. When she was ten, she woke up early to
help her parents on the farm.
The war was
begun already when she was thirteen. Her family went to Toi Shan.
Sadly her parents had been killed. She looked after her sister and
brother. They lived in Toi Shan during the war. They had a very
difficult time because they did not have enough food to eat and
clothes to wear.
After the war,
her uncle adopted her siblings. She went to Canton to find a job as
a waitress in a restaurant. She met her husband who was a waiter in
the same restaurant.
She got married
and was the mother of two lovely daughters. When her daughters were
still little, their father died. She became a widow.
A few years
later, she had a chance to go to America. She left her daughters to
stay with her relatives. She promised to come back. She worked with
her friends in a restaurant. She broke her promise that she would
return home. Some strangers, who were her relatives� friends,
adopted her daughters. She has never seen them again. She has worked
in the restaurant ever since, until she became retired.
Now she is
lonely and sad all the time. She felt sorry that she left her
children in China. She misses her children everyday.
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Name: Li Fang Age:
78 Record by Xie Yi Ran
Li Fang who was born in China is seventy-eight years
old. She has two daughters and four sons. They all immigrated to the
United States.
The war was begun when she was about 13 years old. She
was poor and afraid. She had no money to buy food and clothes. Her
family had nothing, but still had faith. They believed that things
would go smooth after the war.
She decided that she had to immigrate to another country when
she grew up. Choosing America to be the destination, she was looking
for the freedom and liberty that were here.
After living and working about thirty years, she
retired. She can get about $1000 from SSI every month. In addition
her children give some money to her for living. She saves money from
her grandchildren for further education and also contributes some
money for non-profit organizations to poor people.
She is a faithful Christian. Every Sunday, she goes to
church and listens the pastor preach the Lord�s words. She has peace
and faith in her heart.
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Name: Lau Fay Foug
Record by Li Qing Zhong
Lau Fay Foug came from Tai Shan, China. She
has been here since 1987. She lives in a senior center in Chinatown.
She likes living in San Francisco. She watches television and does
exercises everyday. She also likes listening to the Chinese opera.
When she was in China, she was poor. She was a farmer
working on a farm in China. She woke up early everyday and worked
until sunset. She was a hardworking farmer but she only got little
money.
She would not say the reason why she left her children
and came here alone. Her family still lives in China. She misses her
children very much; nevertheless she will not go to China because of
health and financial difficulties. Her relatives who live in
Oakland sometimes visit her.
She was very sad when asked her about her experiences
during WWII. She said she did not want to talk about it or
mention it at all. As a result, I did not ask anymore.
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Name: Yu Buo Zhu Age:
100 Record by Wu Li Feng
I had a chance to talk to an elderly lady who is Yu Buo Zhu.
She came from China. She is a hundred years old but is still strong
and quite healthy. She has lived here since 1959.
She got married in 1932. She has a son and a daughter.
Now, her children are grown up and have their own families. She has
four beautiful grandchildren.
She likes singing. She can sing without the lyrics. I am
so glad that I have the chance to hear her singing a gospel song
during my visit.
She enjoys living in the Self Help for Elderly center
because she makes a lot of friends. Her lovely children and
grandchildren go to Chinatown to have lunch with her every Sunday
afternoon.
When I asked her about her past, she did not say much.
She told me, �I am comfortable and happy now, so I do not want to
reflect on my history.� I considered her feelings, and that is the
reason that I did not ask anymore.
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Name: Mrs. Zhang (Not her real name) Age:84 Record by Yu
Mei Hua and Yan
Mrs. Zhang just passed her eighty-four birthday. She
came from China in 1990. Her husband died a few years ago. She has a
daughter and a son.
She moved to America alone in 1990. She could not find a job;
hence she picked soda cans and bottles in the street. She saved
every penny she earned. After several years, she tried a job in a
restaurant, washing dishes.
She took a citizenship class in Chinatown. If she became
a citizen, she could apply for her children to come here. Finally,
her daughter and son moved to America in 1995. She was no longer
working in the restaurant. They married, but two families and her
live in a big house together. She is happy that she can live with
her children. They will share the housework by schedule. When she
was talking to her children, she was overjoyed.
Her children go with her to Chinatown every weekend.
They have lunch and go shopping in Chinatown. I am surprised that
two families can live toget
her without any serious relationship problems. I also want to live
with my family after I am married.
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Name: Zhu Zhao Ming Reord by Caly Huan
It was about a year ago where Mr. Zhu had to stress over
the whole fact of his family immigrating.
I learned that he went through a lot to try and get his
family over here to America. He was under stress and could not ever
get much sleep. Everyday he would worry constantly about their
immigration status and papers. I would go to the law office every
week to check up on the sent documents.
I feel that he is very strong man. He is able to manage
a lot of stress and problems.
Name: Zhu Zhao Ming Reord by Caly Huan
It was about a year ago where Mr. Zhu had to stress over
the whole fact of his family immigrating.
I learned that he went through a lot to try and get his
family over here to America. He was under stress and could not ever
get much sleep. Everyday he would worry constantly about their
immigration status and papers. I would go to the law office every
week to check up on the sent documents.
I feel that he is very strong man. He is able to manage
a lot of stress and problems.
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