Here are a few common
dream symbols.
This
list is not meant to be comprehensive
just a small guide to
help you get started. It is better to interpret symbols within the context
of the dream they appear in, rather than piece by piece which would leave
too much room for error. There are thousands of symbols, and it depends
upon the context of one's own personal dream as to what they all mean for
him/her. Look at it this way...a dream is like a puzzle, and although there
are several pieces that are quickly pieced together because they are so
obvious, the puzzle isn't complete until all the pieces are placed together
bit by bit. Then you have the complete picture...until then, you'll only
have disjointed images that don't add up to anything coherent, and you'll
still be confused.
So please remember that and try not to piecemeal a dream...it needs to be fully interpreted or it will most likely be totally wrong.
Most dreams are NOT precognitive, and once one learns the subtle differences between a precognitive dream v.s. a regular dream, they are easily discernable and will put your mind at ease. The first thing everyone should consider is the typical universal symbology of the dream images. For instance, death symbolizes the end of something that's ready for change, and a new beginning. Most people start out highly resistive to changes of any sort, and see any upcoming change in their life as something foreboding and scary. Death dreams are usually about change.
Dreams about a boyfriend cheating on you are most likely--though not always--fear-based dreams. There may be a nagging fear eating away in your subconscious that is breaking through in a dream, or you may have fear of abandonment issues rooted in childhood that are affecting your dreams and this would then be a signal for you to get a handle on this problem before it grows into something that could hurt the relationship. Or it could be that you noticed inattentive behavior towards you by your boyfriend, while he has been spending less time with you and being cryptic when you ask him questions, so a warning flag in the form of a dream has appeared to help you become more aware and start dealing with this issue.
The above are several examples of how dreams can be fear-based or showing your negative viewpoints more than anything else, and one should not suddenly dump their boyfriend because they dream he cheated on them. It's been done many times, and it's a sad commentary on just how important it is for people to learn how to understand their own dreams more effectively, to save themselves much heartache. Once you learn how to do this, you will be relieved and amazed at how much clearer your life becomes. It no longer seems like one big puzzle. That said, let's get to some common dream symbols!
These are not 100% right in every person's situation, but they are common symbols and their meanings to give you a point of reference to go by. Evaluate your own individual dream against this info to see if it feels right in your case. If it doesn't--chuck it and move on. Have fun exploring!
Every person that appears in a dream is supposed
to represent an aspect of one's Self, and not actually be about that other
person at all; rather, it is a quality or characteristic about that person
that your dream is focusing on, and how it applies to YOU. Try to think
about what aspect(s) this could be. It can be something you admire and
wish to emulate and incorporate into your own personality, or it could
be a more negative characteristic that you may dislike intensely in your
waking life, but which is telling you something about yourself and your
beliefs, judgements, & attitude. It could be a call to alter your thinking
in some manner, in order to be more open-minded and accepting of this aspect
in their and your own personality, because it is hampering your spiritual
growth & making life harder for yourself. The other person in your
dream is always mirroring something back to you about YOURSELF. Try to
discover what that something is, and go from there. Once you get it through
your head that the other person's appearance in your dream is NOT about
them, but really about YOU, then you will get much more successful interpreting
your own dreams. This takes constant reinforcing--I still find myself wanting
to think it's about that other person instead of me. The only exception
I know of is if the dream is precognitive.
FLYING
: usually represents freedom from the physical
body, as we experience in sleep & while dreaming where we don't use
our physical bodies but instead use our mental & spiritual bodies to
experience our dreams. It's one of the first things people attempt to do
when they gain control of their dreams and start lucid dreaming. Everybody
seems to have a natural inclination to want to fly, unless that is changed
by a fear of flying due to a frightening incident in their waking lives.
Flying = freedom; either a desire for freedom, an "escape" from restraints
in your physical life (like a mini-vacation for the mind) or any number
of possiblities. Tie it in with the context of your dream...what were you
doing in your dream besides flying? How did it make you feel? etc. Also,
the type of flying I'm referring to, here, is the person flying on their
own without an airplane or any aircraft at all. That would be a different
symbol dealing with spiritual awareness, among other things.
SCHOOL
: This type of dream relates to your current
"lesson in life," and if you learn how to interpret it, you'll find out
how you are progressing...yes, folks, you're still taking tests and getting
graded! Our "true selves" are our souls, and not our physical bodies. You
are a spirit/soul having a physical dream, not the other way around. Ever
feel like your life is like a play, and you are acting out some role that
you don't even understand, even suprising yourself with your actions sometimes?
Bingo! When we sleep, that proverbial "Veil of Forgetfulness" that prevents
us from "cheating on the test" is lifted, and we are shown what type of
progress we are making (or, not making) and given guidance on what
to do next. We always have free will in our waking physical lives, though,
and if we stubbornly refuse to finish our tests, then we have that right--but
we are doomed to repeat it until we pass it; and each time we turn away
from it, the next time it will be more unpleasant until finally we are
forced to acknowledge it's importance for our growth. The things we consider
vitally important in our waking physical lives are not nearly as important
as the TRUE reason we are here, which is to overcome our shortcomings so
that we may get closer to our Source/God/Higher Power. To avoid learning
the lesson is like forcing your soul to a fate similar to the mythical
greek god named Sisyphus (thanks, Leah!) who was doomed to keep rolling
a boulder uphill for eternity, only to watch it roll back down & have
to repeat the same tedious hard labor again & again. That sounds like
school to me! So pay heed to the messages in dreams about schools, and
you may advance faster. Do you really want to repeat kindergarten AGAIN?
CAR
or VEHICLE
: This is supposed to symbolize
you in your waking life, in your physical body. Your physical body is used
by the soul pretty much like we use a car...it's driven for awhile and
we give it gas/nourishment & repairs as needed until it stops running,
and then we go back home. Pay attention to your car, which symbolizes your
VESSEL/physical body. Are you behind the wheel, or is someone else in control?
You want to be in charge of your life, naturally. What is the color &
condition of this vehicle? Do you seem to be driving it the right way,
on a safe road in good condition, or is the road rocky, winding, or suddenly
ends at a cliff? That would signal you need redirection. The bigger the
vehicle, the more energy you may be successfully using for your daily lessons,
depending on the context of your dream. Note all clues as to how you are
faring, and make adjustments accordingly.
HOUSE
: You drive a car, but typically you LIVE in
a house/apartment. Dreams about a HOUSE symbolize a larger aspect of your
Self, and the aspects of Self which make the whole. Each room is said to
symbolize a different aspect of your Self; for example:
AN
ATTIC symbolizes your Higher Self, and your spiritual development
& progress. Look at other symbols in the attic of your dream, and try
to evaluate what they mean. Also pay attention to the feeling you
experience in your dream...is it pensive, enlightening or what, exactly?
All these things are clues for you.
A
BATHROOM would symbolize the need for cleansing/purging/elimination
of something in your life that isn't quite working, or that has served
it's purpose and now it's time to move on.
A
KITCHEN would symbolize the need or act of supplying nourishment
or food for the body/mind/soul...whatever is currently "cooking" or developing
in your life. If the food is plentiful, you have what you need. If the
cupboard is bare, time to go shopping for new nourishment, and you need
to figure out what is needed for that "shopping list.
A
DINING ROOM is similar to the kitchen, but has more to do with immediate
needs for supplying , utilizing nourishment, and less with the preparation
or taking stock of those needs.
THE
MAIN ROOM or LIVING ROOM symbolizes your daily interactions with
others, and often you will have other people appearing in your dreams in
this room. Remember, they represent aspects of YOUR Self, and not themselves.
BEDROOMS
symbolize
the unconscious mind aspect of your Self, rest, dreams, sometimes sexuality
issues in your life.
THE
UPSTAIRS symbolizes your spiritual awareness aspect of Self, or
the Higher Self that holds all the keys or knowledge to this life's role
you are acting out, and always has your higher good looked after, no matter
how it might seem otherwise.
THE
DOWNSTAIRS/BASEMENT symbolizes your subconscious mind aspect of
Self, which deals with habits, old coping skills, automation, ego. That's
usually the part of our Selves that makes us feel "torn" between knowing
we should do one thing, but inexplicably ending up doing the opposite.
Old belief patterns fears have to be corrected,
if that is the case. Tackle & overcome it, and you will feel much more
peaceful about your life.
THE
GROUND FLOOR of a house represents your daily agenda; what's currently
going on in your life.
REVISITING
OLD HOUSES FROM CHILDHOOD OR EARLIER TIMES: This points to issues
that probably are resurfacing in your current life, and need to be looked
at, analyzed, and healed so you can move forward and not look back. If
you find yourself repeating the same old tired mistakes, or dealing with
the same old tired fears, chances are you will have this dream.
A
HALLWAY symbolizes that you have reached an area that is necessary
to journey through in order to get to the other side, and it may be a narrow
path that has to be traversed with care and awareness. If you have that
"closed in, claustrophobic feeling" then you need to expand your awareness/open
your mind to more possiblities for completing this phase of your journey.
A
PORCH symbolizes perhaps a metaphor of being undecided, such as
the saying, "I'm still on the porch on that decision." It could be
symbolic of being contemplative, or uncommitted or withdrawn. It
could be something entirely different such as being on the threshold of
a new sense or an extension of Self. It depends on the entire context
of the dream. Back or Front Porch? Screened-in or open? Messy
or neat Sparse or furnished? All these details add to the
overall symbolism.
TORNADO
:this symbol points to emotional turmoil,
as in a "whirlwind of emotions"; and/or rapid or sudden changes in your
life. It is a sign to "get a grip" on what is possibly spinning out of
control & deal more effectively with your emotions. Meditation and
finding some private "think time" for yourself would be a good idea.
PINK
: the color of love in all it's forms. Often used to show healing
through love.
RED
: passion, anger.
BLACK
: the unconscious mind; void; death of the old.
GREY
: fear, confusion.
WHITE
: truth, "coming clean", purity; can also be symbolic of death and
new beginnings.
GREEN
: healing, growth, newness.
BLUE
: spirituality; could be a metaphor for "being blue" (look at context
of dream).
YELLOW
: peacefulness, hope (as in "sunny disposition"); could be a cowardice
metaphor.
ONE
: unity, completeness.
TWO
: balance of yin-yang principles, or male/female energies-either
it's needed or it's achieved.
THREE
: (common dream symbol) the trinity of the Father, Son, and Holy
Spirit; the 3 principles uniting in harmony, as in body-mind-spirit harmony.
This dream has an important spiritual message for you--pay attention!
FIVE
: changes!
BABY
or PREGNANCY
: newness or creation in
your life; a new aspect of self is being formed and coming into being!
Or you may just be worried to death about that unprotected sex you had
a few weeks ago and will be dreaming next about contracting AIDS, Gonorrhea,
Syphilis, Chlamydia and numerous other STD's so your subconscious is hammering
at you for being stupid. Hopefully it's the first symbol. Did
you know that 63% of these infections occur in persons under age 25?
Bird Symbology :
White
Dove
: well known symbol of peace; a symbol of the
Holy Spirit descending on Christ, as depicted in many artistic works.
A pair of white doves is a common symbol of love and devotion.
Mourning
Dove
:commonly thought of as a potential symbol
of upcoming death to someone you know, but only if it is seen in unusual
circumstances and not just eating at the bird feeder or sitting on a telephone
line.
Eagle
: Among the 7 mortal sins, depicts pride; among the
4 cardinal virtues, justice. Symbol of John the Evangelist, depicting
spiritual cognition, faith, healing and ascension. Similar powerful
symbol of the Great Spirit to the American Indians, who use it's feathers
in many ceremonial dress & implements.
Goose
: symbol of fidelity and loyalty. Could also
be a metaphor for
"being goosed" or "acting like a goose."
Ostrich
: closing eyes to unpleasant facts.
Also a symbol of meditation, since the Ostrich parent does not sit and
hatch it's eggs, but lets the sun do it's work while it guards them
vigilantly.
Owl
: wisdom, as portrayed in so many children's stories
and cartoons.
Peacock
:pride, vanity and showing off due to the male's
proud strut; but the male does this as part of his mating ritual to get
the attention of the female, so I would apply this as such. It is
used to symbolize the American CBS network, and a metaphor could be "showing
your true colors." The peacock also symbolizes joy in the afterlife.
True story: my mother & I visited my grandmother's grave one
afternoon to find a living, breathing peacock standing there staring at
us. When I found out that it symbolized "joy in the afterlife," you
can imagine how special that was. How often does one find a
peacock standing on a grave?Coincidence, my foot!
Nightingale
: symbolizes yearning and pain; in Christianity
it
symbolizes the longing for heaven.
Raven
: intelligence; oftentimes depicting things we really
prefer not to hear.
Stork
: instantly recognizable in our culture as a
symbol that a baby has been delivered or is due, possibly due to the young
stork's habit of gratefully feeding it's parents when it becomes a fledgling;
or due to the stork's return after winter migration, when nature begins
anew.
Swan
: transformation, as in from "ugly duckling" into
a beautiful swan. Also symbolizes loyalty and fidelity.
Turkey
: Is any American unfamiliar with the symbology
of "Turkey Day?" Also referred to as a metaphor often used to describe
something as being silly, or an embarrassing failure or dud.
Vulture
: impending death, or a metaphor for waiting to take
advantage of someone in dire trouble, as in "the vultures are circling."
Egg
: symbolizes primal beginnings from which all life
springs forth;
also in Christianity this is a symbol of resurrection (ever wonder
where the thought of Easter Eggs came from?), as in Christ breaking out
of his tomb similar to a chick breaking free from it's egg. Could
also have metaphorical influence, such as the age-old question, "Which
came first--the chicken or the egg? In this manner it could be saying,
"Some questions can never be answered by mere humans, so quit agonizing
over a problem without solutions and deal with what-is, as it is."
Other
types of symbology involving birds
: metaphors
such as
"bird-brain", "You eat like a bird", "birds of a feather flock
together," "that's for the birds", "A bird in the hand is worth 2 in
the
bush", "feathered friends", etc. Just apply the metaphor to the
context of your dream to get the gist of what the symbology entails.
Also helpful is relating bird dream symbols to song lyrics. Think
of how many different songs mention birds in one way or another.
Illusion and Reality in Dreaming