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Hey Andrea,
As far as coming up with the right combination of products that work for you, this is hard. I have a feeling that you just have to keep it really moisturized (not GREASY!) and wash it regularly with a mild shampoo that's not too drying. I actually like experimenting with it though. It's kind of fun. I still havent gotten the confidence to wear without a headband though. I have to get past this.
Will send more later.
What happened when you went home? what kinda reactions did you get? Well, I got rather mixed reactions to my hair, but for the most part they were all very positive. This woman named Angie was real interested in whether or not I was heading towards locs....I told her it was a possibility but not real soon yet. My sisters had suggestions regarding different products to use but the problem is they are still recommending these after seeing their affects on relaxed hair. It seems as if locs is the ultimate for natural hair. the final destination. if i do loc will that mean my quest is over or is it simply the beginning?
I can't remember how long ago I performed that massive haircut, but I took another inch off last night. I think I'm STILL seeing some stray areas where there continues to be relaxer in this, especially at the top. I may get brave and cut a bit more next week, but this has to settle in on me first. These ends apparently needed to come off too, because there was much less tangling when I untwisted it this morning. I'm thinking that I will be done with this ordeal by mid summer.
I had a buddy over last night who has always had issues with her hair. She has the back completely buzzed off but is still getting relaxers. Her problem is that she has extremely nappy hair and tends to want it bone straight. I think because of it's texture, each beautician she goes to uses a relaxer that is too harsh for her hair.
I'm personally looking forward to getting enough hair on my head to have a pony tail....it is possible, right? I mean, I know it will grow, but there is no way that it will all reach a pony tail at the moment. I kind of took care of that. So all those people that knew me and were tired of the ponytail.....your wish has been granted!
What new and exciting thing have you done with yours lately? Keep me posted.
you are really and truly brave!! when i first starting hacking away at my half dead relaxed ends it was very painful. i felt like samson. then after a while i just wanted it gone. i started cutting away in september '99 and did the final cut around jan. it was such a wonderful feeling. i felt totally free.
you'll definitely get your ponytail and sooner that you know. each time i take out my twists i can't believe how much it grew. also, my hair seems to grow alot faster in the summer, most people's probably do too, that glorious sunshine i guess (which can also be drying on the hair, can't win sometimes!!)
Mine is braided at the moment in some big ole fat braids. can wait for memorial weekend, i'm gonna 'treat' myself and go to the hairdresser to get it tail comb twisted. i can do the two stranded twists myself but i'll need practice for the tail comb twists. i think getting the partings right would be my biggest problem. i'll have to watch em real close and ask a bunch of questions to find out the 'trick'. some people say 'don't use gel, it's too drying on the hair'. others say 'don't use beeswax, it's too heavy on the hair'!!. but when i twist mine up i use a beeswax that i absolutely love called or made by 'Kuza', so what to do? what ever works for you i suppose.
My hair actually sucks today, but I realize that not every day can be wonderful. I'm actually thinking about eliminating the remainder of the relaxer to be done with it (about 1 - 2 inches)...at this point, what difference would it make? The pony tail option was eliminated during my last affair with the scissors!!! Once I do this, the twists will probably stay a lot longer than they have been.
As far as coming up with the right combination of products that work for you, this is hard. I have a feeling that you just have to keep it really moisturized (not GREASY!) and wash it regularly with a mild shampoo that's not too drying. I actually like experimenting with it though. It's kind of fun. I still havent gotten the confidence to wear without a headband though. I have to get past this.
Will send more later.
I'm really thinking that since my hair is rather ugly already, why not try and get it locked now....what do you think?
WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
it's a good thing i'm sitting down.
how is your hair today? mine is teeny weeny two strand twists.
Andrea,
WOW!
went out again last nite a coupla guys started calling me 'dread' one of them asked me if i was in fact gonna dread, 'i don't know' was my usual response and what did he say? 'do it from the heart'. i said 'so i must turn rasta'? he never did answer me!!
What kind of twists did you have that you took out that were so cool? I want to see pictures.
Girl,
What EVER bit of relaxer at the ends existed on my head is long gone... at the floor of the beauty shop.
The ordeal took FOREVER! Like, my appointment was at 11:00 - I was done at 2:15. Then, they wouldn�t take ANY checks so I had to run to the bank to get cash and bring it back.
I know one thing, if someone wants to knock a place off and make some money, all they have to do is hit this salon on a busy evening, like Friday or Saturday. Due to this, I will not mention the name or location of the joint! Don't wanna see a set of hard workin' sistahs being ripped off!
Anyway, as far as the twists are concerned...there are like a million of them. They are very fine....about an eigth of an inch in diameter (maybe not even that wide). They are no longer than 2 inches each. I have a feeling that even the headband could prove to be an issue initially with these bad boys. You KNOW the in famous headband is my security blanket!!!!! The total price charged was $65. (Of COURSE I had to tip about 15%, so needless to say, I am rather broke!) They will last only until they get wet. This part is the drag, as I usually go no longer than a week without washing my hair, and hate to think that $65 plus tip is about to go down the drain within 7 days. There is an awful lot of gel and spray on it so that the hair feels rather hard. Actually, it feels CRUNCHY! Seeing as though I'm one that doesn't like alot of grease or spray, this is not a thrill for me.(how will I survive locs? Maybe I'm STILL not ready!)
I'm now in need of some true encouragement. Fortunately I do not go into the office until Thursday, so perhaps they will fatten up a bit. The verdict is still out in terms of how I feel about them. I feel like I look kind of 'hard', if you know what I mean. I think the makeup is going to take on a greater sense of importance in my life as long as these exist.
Also, I think WHAT I wear will be increasingly important. The beautician says that I would have beautiful locs because my hair is so thick. I don't know how long it would take for them to 'set' or lock on me, and I can�t afford $65 each week to get them started. I'm not sure where to turn at this point.
I do have pictures of the 'before' mini-twist application. I need more poloroid film, but will pick some up tomorrow. PROMISE! I will send pictures of the twist results that I did, as well as what is in my hair right now. These things look like little worms or something actually. I think I will like them better once they swell up some. I would also like them if there were approximately 40 pounds LESS of me! You KNOW peoples reactions at work will be worth writing about....I bet very few of them will say anything directly to me, which is a BAD sign! I don't believe I did this! They gettin' ready to shatter a sistah's ego a bit, I think! Write more later.
this is too much.
i also did the hair this weekend, i had it tail comb twisted. she used a mixture of beeswax and gel when i saw her mixing the two together i was cringing cause i remembered the gel days and no matter how much they claim 'non flaking' there was always these whiteish gray dandruffey cornflakes things left sitting atop my head after a few days. not to mention the itching and once you scratch it, forget about it!
i got there at 10am got in the chair at 11:20 sat under the hair dryer at 12:30 and was outta there around 1:15pm. i paid $60. i'm not exactly sure how i feel about the results. the top and middle is all going back but the sides are like hanging down. people have either said they like it (not with much enthusiasm) or commented on how much they look like dreads.
like you, i was told they will last til they get wet or for a month whichever comes first (get wet!). i tell you what though, i can't stand this itching and i feel like i have no control. i don't want to waste 60 bucks but............. i was kinda used to my 20 big fat twists which i could reach up and touch and twirl and untwist and retwist and my girls always wanting to �do my hair�
oh, i don't know. we'll see i suppose.
you know, i was just in the elevator and it's all shiny glass like metal inside, then i saw my hair.
i thought, you know, this doesn't look so bad. if i stop fighting it and just let it fall where it wants.
now both sides have fallen and the top / middle is still kinda going back. i'm thinking, maybe i'll get some of those little silver diamondy hair pin clip things and work with it a little, you know, give it a chance. 60 bucks got to last longer that one week!!
i've re-scheduled with Dixie for tomorrow at 3, but since I didn't actually talk to her, this may have to change. When I spoke to the lady on the phone, I told her that Dixie did comb twists two weeks ago and I would like to have them re-done but I want to loc. She said that she would more than likely definately) wash it. THANK GOD!!!!!!! Getting excited. As soon as it's done, will get more polaroid shots and send them to you! Girl! This scalp can't wait! I'm starting to feel a bit nasty, like one more day and I'm taking these bad boys out myself and doing a deep conditioner and twist them up me-self!
Man,
Seeing as though it will probably take my mess a while to loc, I will go on for re-twisting again today. Will send pictures shortly after (sometime next week). Keep your fingers crossed.
You are not going to believe this! My salon visit was like a double-edged sword. First of all, girlfriend left me waiting for 2 hours! I actually stayed because by then the traffic on Route 1 was bumber to bumber, and I really was dying for a shampoo. She shampoo'd then twisted. I've already started locing! say what????????!!!!!!!!!! so did she just re-twist what was already there? how much did it cost? when do you go back?
There was a woman there who had locs but cut them out. She says that they are real hot in the summer. She also seemed to think they were too common-place now and everyone had them. I guess for this reason, she had beaten her hair back into submission with a relaxer.
D said that she has a client that dreaded within a month. She only wants to see her now once every three weeks. This woman had locs to her shoulders within two - three months. That seems awfully fast to me. But, as you can see, there really is no turning back for me at this point!
OK, here goes....
Sending a photo or two this morning. They are just as bad really as the last ones I sent. (I'm really unphotogentic, coupled with a lousy polaroid and you get what I'm talking about! YIKES!) Anyway, it's only been since Wednesday, and some of my twists are trying to come unglued! Especially in the front. I have this one that was completely undone this morning....tried to twist that puppy back up. It got real thick, somewhat twisted, then decided to stick straight up on my head! This probably wouldn�t be so bad if it wasn't the very front, but it! Top it off, a lot of my twists appear to have these rather straight, spiky ends....whazzup with that?!!!! Not really liking it all that much today. Maybe I should have thrown the headband into my bag before I left this morning.
right now i have it in chinese bumps. the tail comb twists have been in for 3 1/2 weeks and was starting to get old, so i took em and twisted them up. i'm gonna take some photos. maybe today.
Last night, I sat with a bit of gel (the clear kind! Not that icky brown stuff that every beautician seems to favor) and began re-twisting some of my twists. It's really a tedious thing to do, but my hair is looking a lot better.
Two things I noticed during this time though. First of all, the loctician used a lot less of the gel, and I think this is why they had a tendency to come undone faster. Remember I said they were kind of 'crunchy' last time? Well, this time, they weren't and I'm sure it's due to less gel being used. Also, my scalp doesn�t itch nearly like it did the last time. Secondly, I have not been adding oil or a lot of spray to my hair, so I think it's not getting as dirty as before. I haven't had to resort to the Sea Breeze yet.
One common thread in a lot of the responses that you are getting to your website concerns the versatility of natural hair in comparison to locs. I too, have this concern, although I've obviously decided that locs are my destiny. Locs appear to be rather versatile depending on the length of them. Right now, there really isn't anything versatile about my mini twists....headband....no headband.....these are my choices!!!! But this too, will change as these babies start to actually loc and grow.
Did you get the pictures yet? If not, the next set I send may have to be sent via USPS to your house! This darn interoffice mail's gotta go!
did you have to retwist your entire head?
No, I didn't re-twist the entire head. I actually sat at the table with a cup of water, gel, mirror in front of the tv and got busy! I retwisted all along the front and a bit at the top. The back comes undone real fast, but couldn't quite figure it out because it's so tangled back there. Didn�t want to put twists that were the wrong size back there.
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