| Q: |
Do you have rules? |
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Yes. First and foremost we comply
with all Federal and State laws. No one under 18
is allowed. Prostitution and drugs are not
tolerated. We have our own Rules, we also endorse and
request the use of common sense, in it's absence,
we require, at the least, "Safe, Sane and
Consensual" play. |
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| Q: |
Can you help me find what I
fantasize about? |
| A: |
Maybe, maybe not. We are not a
match making service. We are not a singles club
or a swingers club. If you are looking for
information, opinions, and discussion about AB/DL
we can help you. However, we are not a support
group, we are an educational / play group. |
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| Q: |
How do I come to a Social? |
| A: |
EMail Abilene ABDL, tell us a bit about
yourself (age, sex, orientation, etc.) and what
you're looking for and ask to attend the next
Social. Once we have spoken with you, either by
eMail or telephone, we will let you know if you
can come to a Social. If you already know a
Member, ask them to vouch for you so you may
attend. |
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| Q: |
Who can attend a Social? |
| A: |
Anyone over 18 who has personally
received a Social Invitation (which includes the
Location, Date & Time) may attend, even if
they have not been interviewed for a Play Party.
Also, if you are new, you can attend a Social as
the guest of a Member, if they will vouch for
you. |
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| Q: |
Can I skip the Social and go to a
Party? |
| A: |
- That
depends, are you planning on coming with
a current member? Yes, you may attend if
they are willing to vouch for you.
- Have you
have been interviewed by two
representatives of the group or Jessi?
Two Abilene ABDL Members or Jessi
can interview you at a public location.
Yes, you may attend if the meeting with
the two representatives or Jessi goes
well and they are willing to vouch for
you.
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| Q: |
How do I become a Member of Abilene ABDL? |
| A: |
You must have already read the
membership page of the web site applied for
membership on the Yahoo Group and answered the e-mail
that was sent to you when you applied to the Yahoo Group. OR You must be referred
by a current member of the Abilene ABDL group and applied for
membership on the Yahoo Group. |
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| Q: |
How much is Membership and what do
I get? |
| A: |
Membership is free. When we have
Socials; you will be responsible for your own
ticket at a restaurant, may be asked to bring a
munchie or pot luck dish if we have it at
someone's home or a public park. You will receive
State and possibly National recognition from
other BDSM / AB/DL groups, Demos, Parties and the
satisfaction of supporting your local AB/DL
Community. |
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| Q: |
If I get interviewed, can I attend
functions? |
| A: |
Just because you have met with two Abilene ABDL Members or Jessi does not
mean that you will be invited to participate in
our group. After the meeting you will either be
invited to join or you will not. All Membership
questions are lodged with Jessi and Daddy Jay. |
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| Q: |
If I'm interviewed, and have
attended a function or even several functions,
can I bring my spouse (who no one else has met)
to a Social or Party? |
| A: |
Social: Yes. You may vouch for your
spouse, and take them to a Social. Party: No. Everyone must
have met with at least two Abilene ABDL Members or Jessi before
being allowed to attend a Party.
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| A: |
Wow this is a lot of info - can I
just get myself on a list without anyone knowing
about it, and see how it goes? |
| A: |
No. Our Yahoo Group is a closed list and you
must be approved before being added to the list. |
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| Q: |
I belong to another AB/DL
organization, and would like to attend an Abilene ABDL function. |
| A: |
When you contact us, be sure to
tell us what group you are (or were) with. You
may not have to be interviewed to attend our
functions, provided we can verify your membership
with another group. |
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| Q: |
Is Abilene ABDL part of any other AB/DL
group? |
| A: |
No, but we will be having
affiliations with other State and National AB/DL
groups. |
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| Q: |
Are
there other AB/DL / BDSM groups in Texas? |
| A: |
Yes.
You can contact them from web links on our Main Page. |