Jan. - Feb. - March - April - May - June 1/15 Where do you and your lover find it easiest to have intimate and heartfelt talks? How good are you about not bringing up important topics at the wrong place or time? 1/22 Are you willing to change your appearance to please your partner, or do you believe she should love you just the way you are? How much are you willing to make modifications to your hairstyle or change the way you dress? 1/29 Is spirituality important to you? Has it helped you accept your orientation or has it hindered you? What forms of spirituality interest you? 2/5 What one change in your behaviior would be most likely to make your relationship with your partner closer and warmer? Why don't you make that change? 2/12 How much of falling in love is illusion and how much is real chemistry? 2/19 How important is individual autonomy to you within a relationship? Are you insecure if your partner has too many interests that you don't share? Do separate interests jeopardize a relationship? 2/26 GAME NIGHT 3/4 How long would you be willing to support a spouse that was going to school, recuperating from an illness, writing novels that go unpublished, ect? 3/11 How much patience do you have for people with predudices? Do you deal with them gently or are you argumentative in defense of others? Why? 3/18 How has the role that sex plays in your life changed over the years? Are you comfortable with this change? 3/25 How do you feel when your partner tells you you don't listen well or express yourself enough? What about when she dismisses what you say as being illogical or not making sense? 4/1 What women in history (herstory) do you like the most? Whom do you dislike? 4/8 GAME NIGHT 4/15 If you could watch a video of yourself making love, would you want to? 4/22 Some lesbians suffer from intense feelings of isolation. How much can the community do to help these women, and how much is of their own doing? Do you sometimes feel this isolation? 4/29 In what ways are you able to love someone more deeply now than when you were younger? How did this change come about? 5/6 How frequently do you give your partner your full and undivided attention and try to understand exactly what she is saying and feeling? Are there times when you can't be bothered to really listen? 5/13 Do you think it is important to reach out and befriend someone who is having a difficulty accepting her sexuality? What might you suggest to them? 5/20 Do you consider yourself sexually adventurous? 5/27 If you could either double or halve your desire for sex, which would you choose? How do you think such a change would alter your relationship? 6/3 What is your earliest memory of the gay/lesbian issue? Was it a book you read, movie you saw, or don't you remember? 6/10 How comfortable are you with the different spelling of familar words like"womyn"? Do you feel the change is needed or does it amuse you? 6/17 Do you seek advice about romantic issues more or less than other things in your life? 6/24 GAME NIGHT 7/1 Does sex ever make you feel guilty? Has it changed as you've gotten older?