The process of improving from premature ejaculation problem

Those who have premature Ejaculation problem ( or say early ejaculation) which is caused by masturbation may wonder how are they going to get well. Though they might have know things from their own experience but they might have not shared it with any one or have talked about it to any one. Here i am going to narrate that experience just for the sake of knowledge.

When the premature ejaculation problem is caused due to masturbation the penis loses are its strength. It becomes narrow in the base. It becomes bent in one direction. It erection size decreases as well as its size when it is limp. It totally loses it regidity. When it is hard, it might have some rigidity but that rigidity is in no comparison with the rigidity of a healthy penis. When your penis is limp and you press your penis between your fingers, you fingers almost touch each other. This is a meaure of how weak your penis is!

When you stop masturbation, you gradually improve your penis health. If you keep yourself away from masturbation and sexy thinking for 27 consecutive days your penis gets some strength. This strength appears in the form of your penis getting some weight and gets a little harder. That is when you press your penis between ur fingers, you feel the difference. When you press it now, you feel that there is 'something in there'. Your fingers do not touch each other any more. It shows that your penis is improving. After a couple of days you will be used to your new improved penis. After next 27 days, you will again experience a similar change. Sometime when you pee and you hold ur penis you will feel that your penis has got even more weight. It will feel better to feel it in hands. The thickness will become even greater and you will feel like your penis has become something. At this point, when you erect, you will notice an increased erection size not only in length but also in thickness. At this point the length might increase by say .5 cm and the increase in the thickness of the penis will be visible. There are also some other changes in this process. When you think about girls, you penis do not leek or if it leeks it leek very little. Now that you are improving, you are looking on girls with more confidence. After next 27 days you experience another similar kind of improvement in your penis. This time it really helps. You feel the elongated sized of your penis even when it is limp. When it gets hard, it is more hard and big. You seem to feel like a man.

Something that i did not mention in the above column is that when your penis is week, it looks very small, after you stop masturbation for certain time, it gets it strength. The increment always happens after 27 days. When your penis improves, it seems more elongated even when it is limp. The erection size also increases.

If it is all that simple, why not a person who has this problem get well if he quits masturbation habit? There seems no reason but there are good reasons. The hardest point in the above process to get control over are:

• Controlling over masturbation
• Controlling your emotions
• controlling Night Discharge

Now it is true that you can get control over masturbation if you have strong decicion and you will also subdue your emotions for some time but the real problem arises in night discharge. You know sex is WILD. If you want it and you do not get it, despite all your efforst it will show up itself. Mostly probably in dreams. After so much hard contolling, you will notice that you get frequent discharge in nights ( like once every month or more). Now this night discharge are ok if it happened in dream but you did not experience the dream ( in other words you did not get satisfaction nor did you remember what happened in the night) but if you experience the dream and got the satisfaction from it, it is the same as masturbating. Hence with one such dream you are pushed back 27 days in your progress.

Further more, the night discharge becomes really an issue when you penis get healthier and healthier. Once it is good shap, it jumps around so much in night that you almost certainly get the night discharge.

Controlling over masturbation

Controlling your emotions

You will wake up in the middle of the night and discover yourself masturbating. You will be toward the end of climax and wont be able to control yourself stopping it.

At night you might go wild. Even knowing everything that masturbation is bad and this and that but you just can't help yourself. You will will do it will all your vigour and enthusiams.

You will experience frequent night discharges. If you discharge at night and you dont remember it, it does not have any bad effect on you but if you are experiencing night discharge and you wake, it has the same bad effect as donig masturbation. This is quite strange phenomana for me and i would like to know about it from medical point of view.

In my 15 year of experiecing the premature ejaculation i have been bettling it but i could not over come it for the above two reason and to be honest for the 2nd reason because you are helpless to control masturbation even if you control over it on your best. The cases may vary from person to person.