Craig is now 5 (almost 6) years old and was diagnosed with autism at the age of 3. This will be the story of how we learned of his autism, the devastation, the sorrow, the fears, and then the acceptance and realization of what autism really is and what it has come to mean for our family. Don't worry, this is not a sad story, not for us as it turns out. There have been and we are confident there will be in the future- many reasons for celebration and joy in the life of our son who is so often marching to the beat of his own drummer. I would like to share with the many out there who do not know what autism really is, to do away with the misconceptions and to dispell some of the myths and fears that often come to mind when people hear the word "autism." Sadly enough, I have come to find that a large majority of the books in our local library portray only the form of autism that is totally disabling and hopeless. I have also noticed that television also like to portray those "textbook" cases of severe and profound autism and an autism in a time where there were none or very little programs and treatments to help individuals with autism. So, here I will be spilling my thoughts and feeling on these pages becauase I am hoping to reach others who need that contact with someone who has been there and done that, someone who is there and doing that, someone who understands and wants to help. I remember well those early days when I felt so alone in the new world of autism. But that is all to come in these pages where I will share our experiences and keep you up-to-date on Craig's progress. So here we go..... get ready to read, to laugh a little, cry a little and send up a little cheer in those times of triumph.
I am going to start
with a poem that I wrote in our first year of the journey.