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Talk about keeping awake… |
- More like staying sober & mindful amidst desires
- The Chinese saying ,"Humans have three urges - the urge for survival (breathe, water & food), the urge for sanitary (urinal & stool passing) as well as the urge for reproduction ( intimacy & intercourse)" 人有三急 rings loud
- Who cannot resist these urges?
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I'm leaving … |
- Precisely, the urgency of the emotions can over-ride / over-rule the issue on hand
- There's why the judicial system is prevalent
- It does not examine the details of the incidents, but focuses on the issues, implications and integrity of objective individuals & society
- It is fundamental to be aware of the underlying governing concept behind the phenomenon
- Sexuality is intrinsic, inherent & important to our survival, yet it can become uncomfortable, unhealthy & destabilising
- What is happening?
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When U gonna go, U gonna go … Stop being soberish |
- It has been illustrated in A History of Sexual Appeal that sexuality, being sexual and sexually attracted are all part & parcel of being alive
- However, sexual appeal can as easily turn into sexual abuse
- To self or others
- The Chinese saying ,"Seven years of itchiness" 七年之瘍 rings true as we are being constantly scratched, tickled, teased, stimulated & manipulated by these fundamental sexual emotions
- The seven is a magical number that encompasses the period from puberty to marriage, during which girls are to remain chaste & boys to stay from girls
- Diverting, repressing or suppressing these desires can be necessary at times, but persistency would aggravate emotional explosions leading to extremism
- Remember some organisations of ideals take strikingly radical, extremist & even terrorist stances & actions
- Could this be due to strict, mindless conformance to the adopted ideals?
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U do what U believe, U ignore what U don't |
- Can the sun rise from the west & set in the east? Yes, if U change the definition of east & west
- Can we see dust in the living & life in the dust? Yes, remember the saying ,"From dust to dust" 塵歸塵, 土歸土
- Perhaps as fundamental to sexuality is perception - the perceived world model vs. the real world
- What would imposing an obstacle like circumcision do to sexuality - eliminate (nay), reduce (for what), repress (imploding) or increase (slap self)?
- Does sexuality affects growth - physical (U can't when U can't), emotional (perceived sexuality vs. real sexuality) or spiritual (R U alive?)?
- Would sobriety solve sexuality or would sexuality help reach sobriety?
- Why would an engine stop when its fuel is used up?
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Friction … |
- This implies that the world is detrimental in relation to the engine (in the form of resistance to engine torque)
- There's a saying ,"Row, row your boat. Merry down the stream. Merrily, merrily, life is but a dream." 人生如夢 U agree?
- Who cares? That's the analytical face of ours. But what are your feelings? Don't give them the substance, just consider the subtle movements in the spiritual emotions.
- The fact is we feel something & it is this feeling that implies the existence of perceptual resistance
- Friction can be either detrimental (to an elder climbing uphill & downhill (on knees) ) or beneficial (to racers running downslope) or neither (walking sideways)
- Perceptual resistance is the same
- Why would people continue to engage in chronic sexuality or masturbation against their health & wishes?
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P.R. |
- To proceed against health & wishes is to seek death & destruction
- It grows discomfort, dissent & dissatisfaction, devastating both the doer & the done
- Activism towards extremism & extremism towards annihilism
- In the mechanic world of disturbing loads & restoring forces, the push & pull can be studied & harnessed
- Bees can sting & kill, but they can also produce honey & royal jelly
- Awareness is crucial with criticism against extremism by perceptual motion (just snap out of it)
- The fact that awareness leads to restoring action is intrinsic - just like self-consciousness induces us to wear & wear well
- When would the wheels turn in our favour?
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By chance or by action |
- By belief or by motivation
- Without either, is there no chance?
- Talk about "make-believe"
- Belief addresses the perceptual resistance
- Motivation addresses the actual consequence
- With the trilogy of awareness, belief & motivation, we are now ready for sobriety in the face of sexuality - prevalent, persistent & penetrating sexuality
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The issue |
- Problem: facing sexuality either self-induced or inflicted or both, how are we going to face up it?
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Concepts |
- Nominal: sexuality environment & circumstances are well-defined, causal, even periodic & thus, predictable
- Uncertainty: sexuality situations are difficult to define, predict &/or preempt
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Nominal technique |
- Abstinence promotes fondness, but not negligence - neglect everything & anything else
- Turn on that negligence switch whenever it occurs
- Play politics with the main party called "Sexuality Comes"
- Remain & persist in your comfort zone & with-hold, not for avoiding bad, but for progressing good
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Uncertainty technique |
- Present in environments of random variations with high levels of strong interactions
- "A stick would break, but a bunch of them won't": they would be pushed off - gather soul mates & stay in one another's company, support, care & protection - remember how the aliens finish off those poor loners
- Sometimes the best defense is offense - "take the bulls by the horns, but make sure you survive"
- Feedback to one another & adjust accordingly to remain within comfort zone
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Where it comes, where it goes |
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