This guideline has the potential to take your lovemaking beyond anything you may have experienced before! With this guideline you learn to transform sexual energy into spiritual energy which ultimately leads you and your lover to the unfoldment of transcendental divine consciousness!

Before practicing Divine Lovemaking, you will need to have developed your ability to raise and circulate your sexual energy. This is accomplished by opening your back and front channel through the Micro Cosmic Orbit Meditation, Genital Breathing, and Orgasmic Upward Draw. This guideline is structured for the beginner, however as you progress, spontaneity and playfulness is definitely encouraged. This is not meant to be a mechanical practice. Let simplicity be your guide and not any attachment to complexity. The secret of this lovemaking is surrendering and opening your heart to divine love.

Create a meditative space. Turn off all distractions. Shower or bathe before practice. See and honor your lover as a manifestation of the the divine. Anoint one another with aromatic oils. Slowly and lovingly massage one another. Being present and in the moment, lay or sit holding one another harmonizing your breath together. Send and receive love to each other with your eyes and heart.

Slowly and lovingly begin to kiss. Caress, massage, and kiss your lovers entire body slowly moving towards the genitals. For the man, extra care needs to be given to the outer part of your lovers genitals before focusing your tongue on her sensitive clitoris. Take turns in this extended foreplay until both of you are sufficiently aroused. Remember, it takes more time for a woman to reach arousal than a man.

Choose a position that you both find comfortable. For the man, hold your erect penis in your hand and gently rub the tip of your penis against her clitoris. Then slowly and lovingly enter her vagina about an inch, then two, then pull back a little so that your penis is just inside the entrance of her vagina. This slow lingering approach will help you avoid ejaculation and allow you to begin a thrusting pattern that will bring both of you to the peak of pleasure many times.

Begin slowly thrusting into her vagina about and inch or two, three to nine times, then one deep thrust. Avoid withdrawing completely from the vagina. More important than any particular number of shallow and deep thrusts is practicing a basic rhythm that you can maintain and that both you and your lover can enjoy for prolonged periods of time. Don't allow thrusting to become a numbers game. You can also stay deep and just move the base of your penis up and down against the vagina which will help keep you from ejaculating. This is especially important when she wants you deep inside her and she is in the midst of orgasm. Also eventually learn to spiral your thrusts using your sacrum which she will find most enjoyable.

When one or both of you are close to orgasm, now is the time to rest and draw your energy up to the crown of the head. You will need to communicate with your lover when to rest. Resting the head of the penis at the G spot inside the vagina about two inches is a place of energy transference. It will feel as if the penis is resting in a slot. For the man, as you become able to separate orgasm from ejaculation, you can draw the energy up as you orgasm expanding the orgasm through the whole body without ejaculating. Both of you now inhale and contract the PC and anus muscle up towards the tail bone. As you both inhale, the man envisions drawing energy from the woman's vagina and the woman envisions drawing energy from the mans penis. Then move the energy up the spine to the crown.

Exhale and let the energy descend from the crown to the mid eyebrow, touch your tongue to the roof of your mouth then touch your tongue with your partners tongue. From the tongue, bring the energy down to your navel. At this resting period, relax and surrender unto your lover. Let the energy flow between your hearts and eyes. Harmonize your breathing together. This passive meditative resting period is the most important part of the practice. The genitals and the tongue act as a switch in the transfer of energy between the two of you. After this resting period, exchange of energy, and about fifty percent loss of arousal, resume thrusting to generate more sexual energy and repeat this process of raising energy. Each time you draw energy up and exchange it, the energy multiplies.

Your entire body and mind are vitalized and healed on various levels each time you draw energy up and exchange it, however in this process, it is emphasized that the tenth orgasmic upward draw and exchange of energy has the power to transform you and your lovers consciousness! This is where your body, mind, and soul fuse into one with your lover, and transcendental consciousness unfolds! This is where you and your lover transcend body, mind, space, time, and pleasure to that which is beyond words! 只可意會, 不可言傳

只要功夫深, 鐵杵磨成針 Do not be discouraged if you do not experience transcendental consciousness in the beginning. This process takes time, cultivation, and integration to fully become part of your experience. Depending upon the individuals, it could happen in a instant, or could take many months of cultivation and fine tuning. It also takes a commitment of love between you and your lover. Do not practice this process with someone who does not also practice this process. It will cause serious disharmony for the both of you. The same caution in the Big Draw exercise also applies in this guideline. Never try to force energy through a station that feels stuck. Always take standard precautions for birth control and sexually transmitted diseases. Ideally, you should practice Divine Lovemaking on a daily basis, however only practice when you are rested and mentally balanced. After Divine Lovemaking, take time to hold each other in your arms cuddling.

If you are with a new lover, spend more time in the harmonization phase non sexually. You may want to also just lay down together sexually joined but without movement. You may want to do this many times leading to Divine Lovemaking. For the man, the more highly aroused you are, the more challenging it is to harness ejaculation. That is why being slow and gradual is encouraged. This lovemaking is a meditation. In the beginning, when you are near ejaculation, you can also pull the scrotum down or press the indentation in front of the anus at the perineum with your three fingers to help harness ejaculation. Breathing slow and deeply from the abdomen also helps the energy flow.

For the man, if you do ejaculate, do not worry about it. Practice is part of the journey. Some women may experience the ejaculation of a fluid considered a nectar when having a orgasm. Particularly due to G spot stimulation. However there is no loss of energy. The G spot is inside the wall of the vagina. You can find it by placing your finger inside the vagina about two inches and gently pointing towards the clitoris. You should feel a slightly different skin texture about the size of your thumb tip and it swells during arousal. Remember, as you progress in practice, muscular contraction will not be required. All you will need is your attention of thought to move energy.

Also when you have progressed in your practice, you can begin to open the three primary centers of energy at your navel, heart, and crown. After drawing the energy up numerous times, both of you now focus your attention at the navel and mentally spiral the energy. Male clockwise, female counter clockwise. Spiral the energy in this meditation for as long as comfortable. Let the energy flow and merge together. It may take some time before you feel you have opened the center of energy. Do not move on to the next center until you have opened the first. Each center is a foundation for the next. Once you feel it is opened, then progress by spiraling your energy at the solar plexus, heart, throat, mid eyebrow, and crown.

The knowledge regarding this entire process has been kept secret for millennia and is a priceless treasure. It has not been until recently that this knowledge has been made available to the public. Please give this sacred knowledge the respect that it deserves. This practice is protected by karmic law. Consult with a Healing Tao instructor if you require clarification or experience any problems. With patience, practice, and most importantly love, you will unfold the flower of divine consciousness! May peace, harmony, and love be your journey into the divine eternal now!

Healing Love through the Tao: Cultivating Female Sexual Energy by Mantak and Maneewan Chia Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy by Mantak Chia and Michael Winn The Multi Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia and Douglas Arava Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving by Charles and Caroline Muir The Art of Tantric Sex by Nitya Lacroix

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