Contract for Feeding and Lifestyle Transition
composed by gertrude ([email protected])
For the purposes of this contract, the subject will be referred to as
'the feedee.' It is understood that the goals and conditions of
the contract go beyond the scope of simple weight gain and eating, but
the term feedee will suffice to define her. Similarly, her
feeder's duties will go beyond providing her with food. He or she
will also encourage her, enable her, make decisions regarding the
length or conditions of her transition, and work to insure that the
feedee adheres to the conditions of the contract.
The ultimate goal is to allow the feedee to completely let herself go
and to experience life as a morbidly obese, middle-aged woman.
Not just any obese woman, but specifically, a woman in her 40's or 50's
who has lived an overly-indulgent, gluttonous life and is unwilling or
unable to lose weight or change her lifestyle, who has ceased to care
about her appearance, has little self-respect, and is lazy and
neglectful of her health, and to whom satisfying her cravings has
precedence over her body or anything else. They may have not
grown obese intentionally or are happy with the result, but they did so
nonetheless. This type of woman will be defined as a 'role
model.' The feedee must wholeheartedly accept these role models
as the end result of her transition, and must strive to model her body,
personal habits, and life after them.
As such women have grown and remained fat despite the consequences, so
must the feedee. The feedee will be put in a position to face the
same risks as do these women, so that she may share in the full
experience, both the negatives and the positives. The full
experience is defined as not just becoming physically fat, but also
coping with the weight over many years, dealing with possible
complications, and almost certainly passing away because of those
complications (even if they take a long time to manifest). The
purpose is for the feedee to knowingly place herself in an inescapable
position where she will find it difficult, if not impossible, to cease
being like her role models after she becomes one of them. After
she transitions to become as much like her role models as possible, she
will live out her life as one of her role models and, like them, very
possibly meet her end due to one or more physical consequences of her
overindulgence.
Just as these role models are unable to change themselves, the feedee
must also be left unable, through habit and conditioning, to improve
herself to any great degree after the program is complete. She
must ignore any advice dissuading her from this course of action.
Just as her new role models accept (or through inaction, do not avoid)
the consequences of their lifestyles, so must the feedee become
resigned to her fate. Despite some of the language in the
contract, the purpose of the contract is not to force the feedee to
become ill or to 'feed her to death.' However, by becoming like
her role models, the feedee will by necessity also be lowering her
standard of living, increasing the likelihood of serious health
problems, and reducing her life span. Some force is permitted by
the terms of the contract, but the feedee is ultimately responsible for
any hardships she may have to face later on.
In order that the feedee 'catch up' to the average, middle-aged role
model who has been obese most of her life, she will be put on a program
of overindulgence and premature aging, with the interest of matching
the role model's appearance, body, and lifestyle as much as
possible. The feedee understands that if the external and
internal aging process is effective, she will essentially be 'skipping
over' ten to fifteen years of her life in the course of a few
years. The lowered standards of hygiene are intended to reduce
self-esteem to a suitable level and to discourage intimacy. A
lowered self-esteem is more befitting the woman she will become and
help to discourage the feedee from avoiding the latter phases of the
contract. Simply put, if the feedee doesn't feel she deserves to
better herself, then the likelihood of her doing so will be
reduced. She should come to have low expectations in order to
help her be more content with her life.
To achieve these goals, the feedee understands that her body must be
ruined by most standards and that she must sacrifice her old self in
order to realize her own and her feeder's goals. By giving in to
indulgence, she will effectively end up losing control of her life as
well as her weight. She will 'let herself go' and surrender all
vestiges of youth, figure, fitness, and social standing. She
understands that within only a few years after entering the contract,
it will be virtually impossible to reclaim her old figure and physical
condition, and that many of the changes will be irreversible,
comprehensive, and lifelong. She understands that within these
few years, she will become conventionally unattractive and, as a
result, will likely find forming intimate relationships
difficult. She must abandon any prior aspirations and must limit
her primary goal in life to becoming morbidly obese. Once that is
accomplished, she must accept her life ‘as-is’ and not seek to improve
herself or her situation. She will have no purpose other than to
remain obese and to enjoy her lazy, indulgent lifestyle for as long as
possible while waiting for the consequences to catch up with her.
The feedee enters into this lifelong contract fully aware of the
potential risks and consents to the feeder actively increasing those
risks, at least so far as meeting the role model standards are
concerned. She is intended to eventually feel helpless in her own
body and unable to prevent any complications. The feedee accepts
that complications including diabetes, lymphedema, cellulitis, hardened
arteries, arthritis, high blood pressure, spinal lordosis, heart
disease, amputation, reduced mobility (needing a wheelchair, walker, or
cane), oxygen dependency, and permanent immobility (due to disability
or uncontrolled gaining) are very real possibilities that may occur as
a result of her new lifestyle. The development of one or more of
these complications should be considered unavoidable. While aware
of these risks, she agrees to willingly meet the terms and indulge
herself as though ignorant of these and any other consequences.
The feeder's active role is expected to last from 6 to 10 years (the
durations of the first two phases). The minimum time may be less
if the feedee has reached all of her goals more quickly than
expected. By default, this contract assumes that the feeder will
leave the feedee to her fate at the end of the second phase. This
need not be the case if both parties wish for their relationship to
continue, but in order to avoid false hopes, the feedee should
anticipate being on her own after her transition. Whether or not
the feeder and feedee are involved intimately with each other is not
within the scope of this contract. The feedee expects no
remuneration from the feeder in return for entering into the
contract. Her expectations are only to enjoy the freedom of
indulging herself and, as a result, be left with no other option but to
experience life as the morbidly obese and lazy woman she will have
become.
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The contract will consist of three phases. The first phase is
meant to cause these changes rapidly so that she will be 'locked in' to
the contract before she has many second thoughts. With proper
motivation and dedication, the feedee is expected to reach these
conditions within 3 to 5 years. Even if she decides to quit at
this time, she will already have been permanently changed. The
feedee understands that upon completion of the first phase, her body
will have been prematurely aged and placed under greater strain, and
she will have become both unattractive and physically unfit. The
first phase will include the following conditions which must be
met. Greater detail is provided in the subsections.
The feedee will achieve a BMI of no less than 55 (approximately 400
pounds). (1)
Will strive to acquire a food addiction. (2)
Won't refuse to eat, no matter how fattening or how unhealthy the food
is. (3)
Won't bathe more than once per month. (4)
Will acquire an elevated cholesterol level or an elevated blood
pressure level. (5)
Will consistently smoke no less than 1 pack of full-flavored cigarettes
per day. (6)
Will drink to drunkenness at least once a week. (7)
Will develop chronic back and/or joint pain due to increased weight. (8)
Won't eat low fat or diet foods unless told to. (9)
Will become lazy and won't attempt to exercise or take part in
recreational activities that might be mistaken for exercise. (10)
Consents to the use of force or confinement to realize the these terms.
(11)
Consents to the deliberate weakening of her upper body. (12)
Agrees that gaining weight is more important than being healthy or
attractive. (13a)
Agrees that being fat is more important than a longer life span. (13b)
Agrees that being fat is more important than having a fulfilling life
or being happy. (13c)
Agrees to never seek weight loss surgery for any reason. (13d)
Agrees to reducing her own life expectancy by a minimum of ten years in
exchange for these changes to lifestyle and body. (13e)
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The second phase will begin once the above conditions have been met.
During the second phase, the feedee is required to maintain the
conditions without medication or alteration for three to five
additional years (minimum time to be determined by the feeder).
This period of time is to insure that any damage is permanent, even if
it is not immediately evident.
The exception to the conditions is that the feeder need no longer
remain on a rapid-gaining diet. The feeder is not expected to
actively cause additional weight gain beyond what is stipulated in the
conditions (~400 pounds). However, the feedee accepts that her
BMI will unavoidably increase during the second phase due to her
acquired overeating habits. A gradual rise in BMI should be
viewed as perfectly normal. She should not be surprised to find
herself weighing considerably more upon exiting the second phase than
when she entered into it. If her weight does not steadily
increase during the second phase, not even slowly or in small amounts,
this may be evidence that she is not indulging as freely as she
should. She is expected to continue to indulge each and every
whim of her appetite, no matter how fattening, regardless of whatever
weight gain this will cause. Though aware that any additional
pound will also increase the likelihood and severity of later
complications, she must not deny herself the food she desires due to
concerns of weight gain, and should not give any thought to
dieting. She should spoil herself by eating whatever she craves
whenever she wants it. She should not think in terms that she is
eating, smoking, or drinking too much: however much is required
to completely satisfy her cravings is the right amount. The
feedee understands that, by the end of the second phase, she is
expected to have totally lost the ability to self-regulate her own food
intake.
She should not be allowed to seek to further her education, be
productive, or significantly improve her standard of living. Her
new lifestyle dictates that she should be lazy and focused primarily on
satisfying her cravings, rather than giving back to society. Her
role models are middle-age or older and will live out their lives as
they currently are, rather than trying to improve their situations or
furthering their education at that point in their lives.
Additional education would serve the feedee no purpose in her new role,
and should be discouraged as a waste of time.
She accepts that, after this length of time, her sedentary lifestyle,
learned eating habits, and laziness of hygiene are intended to become
effectively unalterable, even if she should wish to change later
on. She is expected to actively participate in firmly
establishing these habits so that they will become a permanent part of
her personality and remain with her for the rest of her life.
The feedee is expected to continue to neglect her health and to ignore
warning signs during this period. She will not seek preventative
care and will avoid checkups completely, if possible. She agrees
to remain ignorant about the status of her own health and consents to
being kept in the dark by her feeder, even if the feeder is aware of
any developing problems. She should instead focus on enjoying
herself during this time of indulgence. She will not seek medical
attention except in the case of illness or medical emergency. She
is required to disregard all medical advice that is contrary to the
intent of the contract. The feedee understands that by consenting
to waiting to seek treatment only when problems emerge, she will likely
be beyond the point of being able to do anything to completely cure
them. This is not intended to force an illness or serious problem
upon the feedee, but to duplicate the behavior of the role model who
ignores emerging problems until they can no longer be avoided.
The second phase will end when the time of maintenance elapses (~3 to 5
years) or when serious weight-related complications begin to arise,
whichever comes first. Complications will be considered proof
that her years of carefree overindulgence have been sufficiently
effective and that she is on equal footing with her aging role models
and will share in their uncertain fates. This will be considered
the point of no return in the transition to her new life. If she
hasn't encountered any significant complications at the end of this
phase, she is obligated to gain an additional 50 pounds as rapidly as
possible before the third phase may commence.
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The third and final phase of the contract begins either at the end of
the maintenance period or at the onset of a serious weight-related
complication, and encompasses the remainder of the feedee's life.
The feedee anticipates that the appearance of a health issue may be
frightening to her and that she may seek to escape the contract.
Because of this, she understands that terms of the second phase are
intended to make the contract effectively inescapable. Her role
models are not those obese women who are able to diet and change their
lifestyles, but rather are specifically those who might also be
concerned at the onset of health issues and may try to alter their
lifestyles, but without success. Therefore, in the interest of
becoming like her role models, the feedee should similarly have small
chance of success.
Even should the feedee attempt to back out at this point, the fact that
she willingly neglected any health care while a problem developed will
insure that the condition will not easily be reversed or cured, and she
will have no choice but to deal with the consequences of her many years
of overindulgence. In addition, after 6 to 10 years of compulsive
overeating, the feedee should lack any control over regulating her own
weight or appetite. Even if she developed no significant problems
by the end of phase three, she should be effectively unable to lose
much weight should any complications develop in the future. The
feedee's self-neglect, laziness, deeply ingrained habits, and food
addiction should all insure that she will maintain most of the terms of
the contract for the remainder of her life.
During the third phase, the contract conditions need no longer be
enforced. The feeder may consider his or her role complete and
depart, if satisfied that the feedee will be unable to avoid the
consequences of her actions and she will have no choice but to fulfill
the contract, i.e. spending the rest of her life with little alteration
to her current situation. The feedee will have become her role
model in appearance, age, lifestyle, and personality. She may yet
face decades of hardship in exchange for a few years of carefree
overindulgence. She must acknowledge that she is no longer of
much worth to society and has only herself to blame for her current and
impending hardships. She will deserve everything that's coming to
her.
The feeder is free to leave the feedee at any time during this
phase. The feedee expects no support, financial or otherwise,
even if she has become disabled or immobile; the feeder may help out if
he or she wishes, but is under no obligation. The feedee must
find assistance the same as any other single woman in her
condition. If the feeder and feedee choose to continue their
relationship, the feeder may choose to remain and continue to help
enforce any other pre-existing conditions beyond such time as the
second phase would normally be concluded. The feedee will
continue to meet any agreed-upon conditions indefinitely.
If on her own, the feedee is not expected to be able to lose weight,
alter her eating habits, or change her lifestyle to a great
degree. She can expect her weight to continue to fluctuate beyond
her control. While she will be free to attempt to diet, the
feedee understands that she is expected to fail at dieting and must vow
to always try to prove those low expectations right by sabotaging her
own diet attempts. Even if she should succeed in losing a great
deal of weight, she should prove her low worth by sabotaging herself
and celebrating in her lack of self-control as she gains it all back.
After the second phase, she may use medication to treat her symptoms as
they arise or get surgery if necessary, but should not seek a cure if
it requires her to lose weight large amounts of weight. She is on
her honor to never risk weight loss surgery under any circumstances
whatsoever.
The feedee is expected to waste the remainder of her newly shortened
life by continuing to indulge herself without contributing to
society. She must strive to continue to be like her role
models. If the ending of her life is imminent, even if it occurs
significantly sooner than the ten year minimum, she must not seek to
extend her life through weight loss surgery, but must instead accept
the ultimate consequence of her meeting the conditions of the
contract. She may, if she so wills, choose to accelerate the
inevitable process at any time by feeding herself to immobility or
indulging even more excessively. At the time of her death, all
terms of the contract will be considered fulfilled and concluded.
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Details of the basic conditions.
(1) The BMI of 55 is only the minimum limit required to move to the
second phase. The feedee should be encouraged to meet this
condition as rapidly as possible. The assumption is that the
sooner she reaches an extreme size, the more difficult it will be for
her to back out of the contract. Once she becomes very obese, she
will have little reason not to continue with the contract. As
long as she is eating to gain, the feedee should have little difficulty
in meeting this condition in the time allotted. The feeder may
continue to grow the feedee beyond this minimum during the first phase
for as long as it takes her to meet the other conditions. She
should not be allowed to lose weight during the first phase. In
phase two, however, her gain should be left up to her appetite and her
loss of willpower, though it is expected to increase. The
feedee's ultimate figure and shape will be left entirely up to fate,
all that is important is that she is morbidly obese. The feedee
must accept that she is not doing this to become more attractive, only
to become fat. Even if she develops an unattractive and
unflattering shape, the feedee must accept it as her permanent figure.
While there is a minimum weight that must be reached, there is no upper
limit beyond which the feedee may not gain. She may end up far
larger than she ever wanted, or larger than is physically comfortable
for her. The feedee should understand upon entering the contract
that there is a possibility she may find herself truly unable to stop
over-eating and might continue to gain off and on for the rest of her
life. This contract is not at all intended to specifically cause
immobility. However, she is not guaranteed any safe-guard against
immobility as a result of her own actions or lack of willpower.
If, through an inability to stop eating, the feedee eats herself to
limited or complete immobility, the feeder is not required to intervene
and stop her (though he or she is allowed). If the feedee should
allow herself to become immobile at any time during the second phase,
it will be considered a weight-related complication and the contract
will move to phase three.
(2) It is understood that there is no guarantee that the feedee will
develop a true eating disorder like food addiction. Therefore,
the feedee must emulate those behaviors by acting like a person who has
one. These behaviors may include compulsive overeating, no
portion control, grazing or eating while not hungry, feelings of
anxiety if food is not available, aversion to feeling hungry, eating
while upset in order to feel better, and the association of eating with
all of her regular activities. She is expected to come to love
food and learn to put it ahead of everything else. She should
avoid all activities that don’t allow for eating. Once these
behaviors become habitual, the fact of whether or not she has an actual
food addiction will be irrelevant: she will act the same as if she had
one. Should a true eating disorder develop at any time, the
feedee understands she should not be allowed to seek to cure it.
Rather, she should embrace it as an important part of her personality
and, if possible, seek to strengthen it and allow it to become more
deeply rooted. Ideally, she should cede control of her life over
to the dictates of her food addiction.
(3) The feedee is expected to eat any food she is given, if she is
physically capable, even if she isn't hungry or doesn't feel like it;
not being hungry is no reason not to eat. The feeder should have
her overeat regularly until eating to feeling overly full becomes
normal to her. She shouldn't be forced to binge to the point of
pain or illness, though the feedee accepts that some discomfort may be
involved in the expansion of her stomach capacity. Weight gain
shakes are permitted if necessary, though the bulk of her gain is
expected to come from eating. While the feedee may have a poor
diet, she should be provided with a balanced diet to prevent
malnutrition, though fattening items may be given in excess. She
may spend most of the first two phases eating fast food, desserts, and
snacks. She can expect that her diet will almost certainly
include some unhealthy food, and may even consist almost entirely of
unhealthy food. The feedee may not refuse food just because it is
unhealthy or is high in cholesterol or trans fats, etc, and must eat
even if the food was prepared to be extra-fattening. She must
keep in mind that her diet is intended to cause rapid weight gain while
decreasing her overall physical fitness. She should give no
thought as to how unhealthy her diet may be, only that she is enjoying
herself. She should view every bite as bringing her closer to her
goal of becoming like her role models.
(4) This is to lower the feedee's self-esteem and potentially aid in
keeping her socially isolated. It is also to teach her to be
habitually neglectful of her general appearance. Bathing once per
month is the minimum, but the feeder may decide to decrease the number
of bathings down to four times per year. Depending on necessity,
the feedee may be permitted to wash her hair more frequently than
bathing, but the decision is up to the feeder. She may keep her
hands washed for basic health reasons. She may not use deodorants
at any time during the first two phases, but may use cheap
perfumes. She may wear inexpensive makeup. Frequency and
location of shaving are at the discretion of the feeder.
(5) Elevated cholesterol is defined as approaching 200 mg/dl, while
elevated blood pressure is around 120/80. The feedee is expected
to meet one or the other of these levels. This condition is to
duplicate for the feedee the likely health conditions of her
middle-aged role models after a many years of a careless diet. It
should put her on equal footing to be as much at risk of developing
weight-related complications as her role models face. The feedee
must consent to eat foods intended to raise her cholesterol or blood
pressure, if she is given them. She should be kept informed of
these levels in the interest of understanding how close she is to
reaching all of the conditions. However, during the second phase,
the feedee should remain happily ignorant of her current levels and
consents to having this information withheld to keep her from worrying
if they should begin to climb to dangerous levels.
(6) Smoking is another indulgence of consumption, along with
overeating, that the feedee should remain addicted to. Most of
the role models are long time smokers, and so too should the feedee
be. Beyond sheer indulgence, the secondary side effects are to
help prematurely age the feedee, keep her lazy, and help to prevent her
from achieving above a certain level physical fitness. She can
expect to develop shortness of breath and decreased physical
endurance. Like eating, she should view every cigarette as making
her more the way she should be and she should enjoy her habit to the
fullest. She may not smoke ultra-light brands. The feedee
understands that she will be expected to smoke at least one pack a day
for the duration of the first two phases, and it might be 6 to 10 years
before she may attempt to cut back. She agrees do so willingly
with the understanding that this may magnify the risks she may face
later on in life. As with the rest of her lifestyle, she should
ignore any advice counseling her to quit. The feeder may
encourage the feedee to smoke more. While she is under no
obligation remain at that increased level, the feedee is discouraged
from cutting back if her addiction increases. However, the intent
of this condition is not to cause the feedee to develop a
life-threating, smoking-related illness, so her intake may be reduced
if it starts to interfere with the intent of the contract as a
whole. She is intended to find quitting extremely difficult, if
not impossible, in the third phase, and is expected to continue to
smoke at some level for the remainder of her life.
(7) Drunkenness is defined as a state of moderate to heavy inebriation
for up to several hours, but not to the point of becoming ill or
passing out. As with smoking, drinking is another oral
gratification that the feedee should learn to indulge in
regularly. It is intended to keep her in the proper, carefree
frame of mind and to keep her in the habit of regular physical
indulgence. The feeder may chose to have the feedee drink at a
lighter level more often that once a week in order to lower her
inhibitions, help keep her lazy, and keep her anxieties under control,
if necessary. The feedee understands that regular inebriation is
intended to become habitual for her, and might possibly become an
addiction. As this falls under the condition of not refusing food
she is given, the feedee may not refuse to imbibe in alcoholic
beverages unless they will make her sick or interfere with her ability
to enjoy eating.
(8) A certain amount of weight-related, joint (hip, knee) or back pain
is an almost universal occurrence among the obese role-models. In
order to share in these women's experience, empathize, and eventually
become one of them, the feedee is required to also develop these
maladies. It will help to keep the feedee sedentary and will
provide a good measure of whether the feedee's body is heavy and
encumbering enough. This condition is expected to occur naturally
once the feedee weighs a certain amount, so there is not much she need
do to encourage it beyond gaining weight. However, this condition
must be met before moving on to phase two, so in her own best interest
the feedee should assist the development of this condition however
possible. The level of discomfort needed to meet the condition
would be considered a mild to moderate ache within roughly ten minutes
of the feedee standing in place. The ache should persist or
worsen until the feedee is able to sit down. The feedee
understands that by simply reaching her minimum weight and remaining
there, this discomfort may increase to the point of becoming
disabling. Should it become constant, severe or disabling (as in
the case of arthritis), this can be considered a serious weigh-related
complication and allow for progression to the third phase.
(9) The definition of 'diet foods' will be left up to common sense, and
generally includes foods labeled as low fat, non fat, diet, light, low
calorie, etc. Plain water should be avoided if there is something
more highly caloric available. Even diet foods that taste the
same as ordinary foods aren’t allowed. Given similar food
options, she should always choose the one with the higher
calories. Similarly, the feedee should never take any sort of
diet pills or weight loss aids.
(10) The feedee's role models are out of shape and seldom, if ever,
exercise or take part in strenuous activities. In the interest of
adapting her to the sedentary lifestyle of her role models and becoming
very out of shape, the feedee agrees to give up all forms of
exercise. This includes any recreational activities that may be
mistaken for exercise, such as sports, hiking, or swimming. She
will forever be free of the burden and responsibility of exercising or
staying in shape. The feeder should encourage the feedee to
become as lazy as possible at all times. She shouldn't be burning
off calories unnecessarily and should stay off her feet as much as she
can. She should always sit instead of stand if there is a chair
available. She should forego stretching and allow her range of
mobility to decrease. The feedee may be expected to nap after a
large meal, in addition to having more than a full night’s sleep each
day.
Excess fidgeting should be discouraged. As a rule of thumb, if an
activity causes exertion or an increased heart rate, she probably
shouldn’t be doing it and should cease it immediately. As an
example, she should take her time mounting stairs, rather than climb
them quickly and cause herself exertion. Running, jogging, and
fast walking are expressly forbidden until such time as she grows too
fat to be physically capable of such activity. The feedee is
allowed to go on short, recreational walks as long as she only moves at
a slow, sedate pace that will not cause exertion. Such
recreational walks should not occur more than three times per
week. While walking or shopping, she must always stop and rest at
frequent intervals (every 10 to 15 minutes), even if she doesn’t feel
she needs to while she is still underweight, and should rest for as
long as it takes her to smoke a cigarette. Eventually, she will
be large enough to require these breaks without outside
encouragement. Once she reaches an appropriate size, she should
be encouraged to use motorized carts while shopping whenever they are
available.
This sedentary lifestyle is expected to become habitual and should help
prevent the feedee from being able to lose weight later on. The
feedee understands that this course of action is unavoidably unhealthy,
and she will, over time, grow increasingly physically unfit. She
is aware that at some point she will easily grow short of breath during
simple, daily activities and such activities will take longer to
perform to avoid over-exertion. Even activities such as
recreational walking may eventually be permanently prohibited by the
development of joint pain. The simple act of moving around as she
grows should keep her legs strong enough to move her own weight
around. However, while her fat body is intended to become an
inescapable physical burden, premature immobility due to the feedee's
general unfitness shouldn't be allowed to occur (based on the size and
mobility of her role models, she should be able to get up and move
under her own power up to at least 600 pounds). In the unlikely
event that this should start to occur, the feedee should be allowed
lower body strength training until she is able to more easily move
around own weight. Such training should not be allowed to cause
weight loss. If weight loss begins to occur, the training should
immediately stop until any lost weight is regained and the feedee’s
diet is adjusted to compensate for future strength training.
While reasonably strong legs are required to help her maintain her
weight, she should never be permitted any upper body strength training,
as this is unnecessary for her future lifestyle. This includes
back or abdominal exercise even if such exercise would help relieve
pain or discomfort due to her weight. Her arms and shoulders
should be allowed to become as weak as possible. During the first
two phases, she will not take part in any sort of aerobic or
cardiovascular exercise, even if it is low impact, since her role
models aren’t interested in such activity. The feedee understands
that, upon entering the contract, she will very likely never exercise
again in her life, nor will she ultimately be capable of moving faster
than a slow walk over short distances. Even should she avoid
immobility, the feedee is intended to spend most of the rest of her
life firmly seated; her weight should rest on her bottom, not on her
feet.
(11) The feeder is permitted to use reasonable force and confinement of
the feedee in order to help her meet the conditions. This
includes such things as force-feeding, general bondage, forced smoking
and drinking, and physical punishment to persuade the feedee into
proper behavior as dictated by the contract. Physical punishment
is expected to be even-handed and may involve spanking, controlled
face-slapping, and medium strength paddling and caning, etc, depending
on the offense. These should be used as effective reminders to
keep the feedee on course, rather than an excuse to abuse her.
Force-feeding may be used to keep the feeding gaining steadily and help
her grow accustomed to frequent overeating. It may involve the
feeder physically forcing the feedee to eat in addition to use of
threat and punishment for not eating. Force should not be used to
make the feedee eat until she is ill or in pain. When stuffing
methods are used, the feeder should learn the signs of the feedee
reaching her capacity. The feedee consents to the possibility of
being restrained at meals and not released until she is done
eating. Funnel feeding is allowed if done carefully.
Confinement may include area-restraint, hobbling cuffs or clothing (to
limit walking speed), sofa or armchair confinement, wheelchair
confinement, bed confinement, casting, and/or being confined to a house
or locked in a room.
Area restraint implies the feedee being tethered to remain in a general
area. For instance, she might be chained by an ankle to a chair
or bed. This would allow her to move from room to room (such as
the kitchen or the bathroom), but generally restrict her freedom of
movement and limit excess physical activity or unnecessary burning of
calories.
Sofa and armchair confinement may allow the feedee to either sit
comfortably but unable or to stand or lean forward, or able to stand
but unable to step away from the chair. Wheelchair confinement
would prevent the feedee from standing at all, but allow her to moved
around and even be taken outside. If in a wheelchair, movement
should depend on either an automated chair or maneuvering by the
feeder, since the feedee shouldn't be allowed upper body
strengthening. Bed confinement may allow the feedee to roll over
and sit up, but not allow her to get out of bed or stand. All
such confinement may last for hours or days, and should either allow
for bathroom breaks or provide some other means of toiletry. They
should also be used sparingly in the interest of preventing premature
immobilization. Such methods may be used for a week or weeks at a
time with the intent of causing physical weakness and to help the
feedee learn to live with being lazy and sedentary, but only if always
followed up by recuperative strength training within a few
months. The feedee consents to the feeder using such confinement
as much as he or she sees fit, if she is kept comfortable and
appropriate rehabilitation follows.
Room confinement should include the basic amenities, comfort, and
entertainment (such as a tv), and should be limited to no more than 3
to 6 months out of the year, though that may be negotiated
coercion-free and longer periods agreed upon. Under house
confinement, the feedee may not leave the house or face punishment,
except in the case of an emergency or with express permission. If
stipulated, she might not be allowed to open blinds or curtains to look
outside if the feeder wishes them to remain shut. House
confinement (or a 'shut-in' status) has no duration limits and may last
up to the third phase or longer, if agreed upon at that
point.
Use of confinement should not be considered as, or reach the level of,
kidnaping. It is to be used as a tool to keep the feedee
physically and psychological focused on reaching her goals and, in some
cases, for fun. Some resistance and boundary testing may be
expected of the feedee at times, particularly upon the onset of morbid
obesity or minor disabilities. That is why this condition is in
place, to keep the feedee's anxieties from halting or slowing her
transition. However, if it becomes necessary to use force and
confinement to enforce the contract for long periods, such as over six
months at a time, this should be taken as a sign that the feedee
seriously wishes to escape the contract or simply isn't yet ready to
continue. Common sense should be applied to the situation.
The feedee should be provided ample opportunity to leave her situation
during times of non-confinement, because ultimately she should be left
responsible for her own decisions and have no one to blame but herself
if she is unhappy with the consequences.
(12) The feedee's future lifestyle is meant to involve little physical
activity, so she will have little need of upper body strength.
She should only require enough strength to perform basic, lightweight
daily tasks. She must consent to the reduction her upper body
strength to lifestyle-appropriate levels. While she may be weaker
than her role models in this area, it should help her grow accustomed
to a certain style of living. It should induce a general feeling
of weakness and helplessness if she has problems with arranging or
lifting her heavy body with her arms, performing heavier household
tasks, and difficulty dressing herself.
Temporary casting or bracing of the arms and upper body is permitted
(preferably one arm at a time for sheer practicality). Such
casting should last no more than 10 weeks at a time and should allow
for some weight gain, such as having openings below the upper
arms. This method may be used with the express purpose of
weakening her muscles to make her arms soft, weak, and flabby, and may
be used repeatedly to achieve and maintain the desired effect.
The feedee automatically consents to allowing atrophy of her arms and
shoulders. Unlike confinement-induced weakness of the legs, the
feedee is assured no such rehabilitation of her arms, and may be
punished if she is caught exercising her arms beyond what is
necessary. After cast removal, she should be helped to regain her
range of motion in her elbows and wrists, but the flexibility in her
shoulders may remain more limited. As long as the feedee can feed
herself, can lift 4 or 5 pounds, and can raise her elbows high enough
to be level with her shoulders for short periods, if only for a few
seconds at a time, then she can be considered strong enough for her
inactive lifestyle. She is not guaranteed that her strength will
be allowed to keep pace with the weight of her fattening arms, and that
this ability to raise her arms to a 90 degree angle may potentially be
reduced even further as her arms become heavier. The feedee
understands that this upper body weakness is intended to be permanent,
that she may eventually be too weak to lift her own belly apron, and
that she might never again be able to raise her elbows above shoulder
level or even less. While there can be no assurances after the
second phase, the feedee should be discouraged from attempting to
regain her strength during the third phase. Some natural
strengthening may occur in her arms, but after many years of a lacking
full range in her shoulders, that aspect should be more difficult to
undo. She should instead try to remain faithful to the intent of
the condition and gracefully endure the difficulties it may cause for
her.
(13) These conceptual conditions are by nature more difficult to
enforce, since there is no way to ensure that the feedee will always
agree with them. It is important for the feedee to accept them as
truths in her life, because fulfilling them will make her the kind of
woman she is meant to be. The feedee is expected to affirm them
verbally on a regular basis, or more frequently if the feeder sees fit.
(a) It is unavoidable that by meeting the terms of the conditions the
feedee will become less healthy and less conventionally
attractive. However, the feedee must not let these realities
dissuade her from gaining weight and adhering to the contract.
Becoming fat is far more important than any of these concerns.
The feedee's role models don't give much thought to their own health or
appearance, so the feedee must acquire a similar mindset. In
addition, the role models' age and lifestyle may prevent them from
forming intimate relationships or may have lost the desire for such
altogether. The feedee understands that after her transition, she
may have no choice but to remain single for life, as well, but many of
her role models are in the same situation. Being fat and becoming
like her role models is more important than anything else in her life,
including intimacy or relationships.
(b) The statistical reality of the feedee's situation dictates that,
even if she manages to avoid serious health issues, she will
nonetheless have a reduced lifespan (due to inactivity, obesity,
smoking, and other factors). Hopes of having a long life and
indulging in such ways as the contract stipulates are incompatible; she
can not have both. Concerns over a statistically premature death
will not considered as an excuse for refusing to enter into or maintain
the contract. It is not the intent of the contract (or the
feeder) to cause the feedee to pass away, but it is the intent of the
contract to order the feedee’s life in such a way as to force her to
face the ultimate consequence for her years of laziness and
self-indulgence. While it is understandable that the feedee may
be reluctant to contemplate such things, she must accept this as an
inevitable fact of her life and learn to not fear or avoid it. A
shortened lifespan should be considered a fair exchange for becoming
like her role models. The feedee's role models are not guaranteed
a full life and might sometimes pass away as early as their 40's.
The feedee must also share in this uncertainty. She may find
comfort in the idea that the path of her life has been so well plotted
out.
(c) While it is hoped that the feedee will be content with her lot in
life, she has no guarantee that this will be the case. The feedee
is given no promise that she will be happy with the results of her
transformation; she is promised only that she will live the life of her
role models. She understands that within a few years of
fulfilling the conditions she will have no option but to spend the rest
of her life with a lowered standard of living, a lowered income, and
extremely limited opportunities, and that her life will be full of
physical and emotional difficulties that she would not otherwise have
to face. She should be fully aware before entering into the
contract that the intent of the contract is not to change her life for
the better, fix her problems, or improve her in any conventional
way.
Ideally, the pleasures of food and the presence of her fat, along with
the fact she is living the life she was destined for, will be enough to
keep her content even in the face of her limitations or potential
health problems, but there can be no assurances. Some of her role
models may regret what they allowed themselves to become, and yet
remain as they are, so it is important for the feedee to accept that
she, too, must become obese and lazy and adhere to the terms of the
contract even if she is not happy. The feedee understands that
contract is designed in such a way as to prevent her from changing
herself even if she has regrets about her decisions later on in life.
(d) Weight loss surgery is to be considered forbidden and should not be
allowed under any circumstances. This includes surgery to reduce
her food intake, operations to remove her apron, and liposuction.
Such action represents the feedee cheating herself of her ultimate goal
of living out her life, unchanged, as an obese woman. The feedee
is agreeing to put herself in a position to be unable to avoid the
consequences of her years of indulgence, and weight loss surgery goes
in opposition of that goal. If unsupervised during the third
phase, the feedee will be on her honor to refrain from any weight loss
surgery. In this interest, the feeder should help the feedee
develop an aversion to the thought. If the feedee should ever go
ahead with the surgery and lose her hard-earned fat, she may redeem
herself by gaining back all of the fat she may have lost as a result.
(e) Seeing as the feedee's role models are at least ten years older
than the feedee, then she must sacrifice ten years of life in order to
be on equal footing with them, i.e. she should not allow her younger
age to give her an advantage over her role models. The conditions
of the contract are intended to dictate the course the feedee’s life
will follow. The feedee understands she is expected to become
like her role models as much as possible, including sharing their
lifespans. The feedee should be able to realize this goal simply
by meeting the other conditions of the first two phases. If she
does so, then it is likely she will still meet this condition even if
she tries to leave the contract during the third phase. The feedee must
accept that the approximated age of 65 is considered her maximum
natural life expectancy, and should prepare herself accordingly.
It is possible she may live longer, but she should not plan for it. It
is stipulated in the condition that a ten year reduction is the
minimum. The feeder may choose to attempt to have the feedee
indulge in such a way as to increase the reduction even further (15, 20
years, etc), as long as he or she doesn’t violate the conditions.
The feedee accepts that she has no choice but to enter the contract and
indulge as directed despite the knowledge that she will ultimately have
no control over the probable length of her lifespan.
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Optional Conditions
The following conditions need not be met to consider the contract
fulfilled, but are available as options or alternatives. They may
be added to the conditions at any time during the first two phases if
the feeder and feedee are in agreement and have a meeting of the minds
over what is expected in a given condition. The feeder should not
coerce or harass the feedee into consenting to these conditions.
Unlike the standard conditions, these may be discontinued if there is
mutual agreement to do so, but as long as they remain active, they
carry the same force as any of the other conditions and must be
complied with, either voluntarily or by force. Alterations or
compromises may be made if that suits both parties.
*Will allow tooth decay leading to the eventual replacement of all
teeth with dentures.
This is considered a long term goal that will probably not be met
during the first phase. The intention is to age her appearance,
alter her lifestyle to a degree, and reduce her self-esteem. The
feedee agrees to consent to any tooth damaging treatments given by the
feeder as long as they aren't painful. She may not have any
cavities filled. The feedee is expected to neglect any developing
cavities until such time as they become painful, it which point she may
have the tooth removed. Alternately, she may seek to have root
canals performed on her teeth to kill the nerves and prevent pain,
permitting her teeth to completely rot away without removal or
significant discomfort.
While she is intended to lose her teeth due to gradual neglect, she may
choose to have them removed all at one time. The feedee
understands that she is expected to be completely toothless and in a
full set of dentures within approximately ten years after agreeing to
the condition, if not much sooner. If the end of phase two
appears to be approaching, the feeder may accelerate tooth weakening
treatments to cause as much damage before phase three. As an
optional sub-condition, the feedee may be required to allow complete
tooth removal before the second phase may officially end.
*The feedee will submit to treatments intended to cause chronic acne,
if possible.
While not all of the feedee's role models have acne, this is to help
the feedee be neglectful of her complexion and outward appearance, as
well as lower her self-estem and potentially cause social
isolation. While there is no sure way to induce acne in someone
who is not prone to naturally, the feedee must willingly submit to
experiments by the feeder to cause it. The simple act of agreeing
to such experiments should lower the feedee's sense of self
worth. If a reliable acne-causing treatment is discovered, the
feedee must submit to daily treatments in order to develop chronic acne
on her face or any other part of her body. Treatments will be
repeated at the feeder's discretion in order to maintain the outbreak,
and the feeder may allow the acne to subside for short intervals.
The feedee is not allowed to use any medications or treatments to cure
her acne, if it should develop, though she may use concealing
makeup. The feedee understands that she may acquire permanent
scarring as a result.
*The feedee will submit to premature aging through wrinkling.
This condition may used in addition to the condition permitting chronic
acne. The feedee must submit to treatments intended to cause
premature wrinkling on her face or any other part of her body, such as
keeping her skin dry, increased smoking, and increased sun
exposure. She should not use moisturizers or makeup that contains
moisturizes or sunblock. The feedee understands that, while it
might take years for results to develop, it will be irreversible and
will drastically age her appearance. In addition, she agrees to
never seek rejuvenating skin treatments or plastic surgery to improve
her appearance or make her appear younger.
*The feedee will submit to undergoing heavy skin tanning.
This may be considered an extension of the premature aging through
wrinkling condition, if the feeder doesn't like pale skin. The
feedee will submit (or be forced) to undergo frequent tanning to make
her skin as tanned as possible, and will maintain tan lines if they are
preferred. While it may take years, meeting this condition should
cause permanent aging of the feedee's skin. Otherwise, the feedee
should avoid sunlight and try to become as pale as possible.
*The feedee will allow for the premature aging of her feet.
While this may seem a trivial condition, many of the feedee's aging
role models have less than perfect feet, and this may be used as part
of a comprehensive transformation of the feedee's body and
self-image. If inacted, the feedee must submit to treatments
intended to cause the formation of bunions, callouses, corns, or
hammertoes. Methods may include footbinding and/or the constant
wearing (voluntarily or through force) of pumps or sandals that are
ill-fitting and apply pressure in the appropriate places. Though
it may take years, consistent use should provide acceptable
changes. The feedee understands that these methods may sometimes
be painful, but are in her own best interest. Foot pain may also
be effective in discouraging the feedee from physical activities and
help keep her off her feet. If these changes are realized, the
feedee accepts that she should not be allowed to treat these
conditions, but should learn to live with them.
*The feedee will wear clothing appropriate to her new role.
The feedee should wear only clothing befitting an obese woman in her
40's or 50's who isn't fashion conscious. Her attire should
consist of polyester knits, stretch pants, leggings, muumuus, and
comfortable and conservative styles in general. The reason being
that the feedee should dress for practicality and comfort rather than
to make herself look or feel pretty or sexy. She should never
spend much on clothes, since the money would be wasted and better spent
on food. At the feeder's discretion, the feedee may be required
to only purchase second-hand clothes. The feedee's underwear
should be utilitarian and only consist of knee-high stockings, a full
cup bra (if she is allowed a bra), and high-waisted nylon panty
briefs. All underwear should be plain and free of lace or any
other decoration, and should be limited to neutral colors such as
white, beige, etc. This does not preclude the occasional wearing
of other outfits and underwear/colors for either her or the feeder's
pleasure, but her default daily wear should always fit those
descriptions. The feedee will allow her feeder to go through her
wardrobe and dispose of anything that doesn't fit in with the intent of
this condition. The feedee should dispose of any clothing that
she has outgrown, since she is not expected to lose weight and have
further use for them.
*The feedee will remain naked or in her underwear while at home.
This condition is available if the feeder prefers to keep the feedee
naked. The feedee agrees to not wear any clothing while indoors,
assuming that there is no way to see in from the outside. Upon
entering after being outside, she should immediately take off all
clothing and remain naked until she has to leave the house again.
The feeder may deny the feedee the use of underwear while
outside. Care should be taken to keep the feedee comfortable
during cold weather if she is required to remain unclothed. If
the condition specifies underwear-only, then the same rules apply,
except that feedee will remain in her underwear at all times (bra,
panties, knee-highs) while indoors.
*The feedee will wear her clothes for at least two weeks before washing.
This can be used in conjuction with the limited bathing condition, in
order to accentuate the feedee's overall poor hygiene habits, reduce
her self esteem, and potentially increase social isolation. All
of her clothes must be worn for at least 2 weeks before she may wash
them, though they need not be done consecutively (she may alternate
outfits). While 2 weeks is the minimum, the feeder may choose to
increase the length between washings to up to 4 months. The
feedee is expected to wear her clothes no matter how stained or worn
they've become.
*The feedee will live in general squalor.
The feedee is expected to be lazy even when it comes to cleaning up
after herself. She should be sloppy and let trash accumulate up
around her, such as food wrappers, takeout bags, full ashtrays, and
dirty dishes. She should not hang up her clothes but let them
pile up on the floor. She should not be allowed to clean or tidy
up at all, but should rely on the feeder to clean up at
intervals. This is so that during the third phase, she should be
well out of the habit and should find it an effort to clean up if left
on her own. This should insure she will maintain to some degree
this condition by herself simply due to laziness.
*The feedee will indulge more heavily.
The feeder may suggest this condition if he or she wishes to see the
feedee smoking more heavily than the regular conditions allow.
Normally the feedee is not required to smoke more, though she may be
encouraged to do so. Under this condition, the feeder may decide
how much the feedee will smoke per day, up to and including frequent
chain-smoking. The intent is to cause her to become a heavy
smoker for life. The feedee should be allowed a reasonable amount
of time to adjust to the newly stipulated rate, but may be punished if
she is willfully progressing too slowly. The feedee is obligated
to increase her smoking until she is thoroughly addicted to the new
level and maintains it automatically and without effort or
reminder. She will make the stipulated amount normal to her until
she is unable or unwilling to cut back on her own. She will do so
despite the knowledge that smoking more will increase her health risks,
age her body more rapidly, and will make attempting to quit more
difficult in the future. The feeder may provide her with
cigarettes to make it easier for her in the beginning, but once she
shows signs of being completely addicted to the new levels, the feedee
will be expected to pay for her habit out of her own pocket (unless she
is entirely supported by her feeder). This is so that she will
get used to the increased expense of her indulgence and it will be
naturally factored into her lifestyle later on, along with the cost of
food. If her rate of smoking proves too difficult or excessively
deleterious to maintain (i.e. conflicts with the intent of the
contract), she may be allowed to cut back, but only after she has spent
six months to a year smoking at the current level. During the
third phase, she may attempt to quit or cut back, if she is able,
however she is expected to be no less able to entirely quit smoking
than she should be able to lose weight.
If this condition pertains to alcohol instead, then the feeder may
choose to have the feedee drink more frequently than normal, with the
intention of causing her to develop some degree of alcohol
dependency. If any alcohol dependency does result, the feedee
should not seek a cure, as this may be considered a natural result of
her overindulgence, unless it begins to interfere with the overall
intent of the contract.
*The feedee will spend excessive time in bed.
By the terms of the conditions, the feedee is required to grow
lazy. This condition specifies that the feedee must eventually
spend most of her time in bed. Unlike bed confinement, this
activity shouldn’t need to be induced through restraint. The
feedee is expected to sleep in later and later and should postpone
getting up and dressing for the day for as long as possible. She
should spend at least twelve hours per day in her nightgown. She
will consent to the use of sleep aids to sleep for long periods, if
they’re deemed necessary.
*The feedee will perform oral sex only.
This contract pertains only to life transition and does not assume the
level of intimacy between the feeder and feedee. However, if
sexual intimacy does exist, certain conditions may be applied to the
contract. This particular condition dictates that, as part of her
orally fixated lifestyle, the feedee’s single source of sexual
gratification come from performing oral sex. She must be willing
to provide it without complaint whenever requested. She should
not expect any sexual favors or gratification in return.
*The feedee will lose her sex drive.
Some of the feedee’s role models may have lost their sex drives due to
age, physical problems, or simply lost sexual interest due to
inactivity in that area. In order to become like them, the feedee
will consent to medicinal treatment intended to reduce or remove her
sex drive. This may aid in psychologically aging her, as well as
insuring that she view her situation non erotically as most of her role
models would. If the feeder and feedee are intimate, the feedee
is still expected to perform as usual even if she is no longer
interested. The feedee consents to the feeder sneaking such
medicine into her food without her knowledge, if the feeder so chooses,
so that she will not know if her loss of sex drive is induced or
natural. The feeder may decide the frequency and duration of such
treatments, from several months on up to the length of the first two
phases. The feedee is aware that by the time she would be
permitted to stop taking treatments in the third phase, her appearance,
body, and habits may have rendered her sex drive to be nothing but a
frustration, and that she may continue the treatments on her own.
The feedee should be prepared for the possibility that, if the feeder
remains past the second phase and enjoys this condition, she might not
ever regain her normal sex drive.
It is also possible that losing her sex drive might cause the feedee to
lose some of her enthusiasm for fulfilling the contract, if weight gain
or other conditions prove to be erotically charged for her. She
is expected proceed with the contract as usual despite the loss of
erotic motivation. Alternatively, the feeder may choose to wait
until the feedee has fulfilled her erotically-motivated conditions
before inducing the loss of sex drive, so as to not interfere with her
eagerness for gaining weight, etc.
*The feedee will consent to social isolation.
A certain amount social isolation is inevitable as a result of the
feedee's lifestyle and hygiene habits, in addition to possible periods
of confinement. With this condition, the feedee will consent to
allow the feeder to socially isolate her beyond what may normally be
expected. If the feeder feels it necessary to help focus the
feedee's attention her goals, he or she may choose to cut off the
feedee's contact with persons who might try to dissuade the feedee from
adhering to the contract. The feeder may monitor the feedee's
correspondence online or deny her access to a phone. She may be
disallowed from permitting herself to be seen by anyone, even through a
window. The feedee understands that if she is under house or room
confinement, she may not have any outside contact for a long
time. The feedee accepts that she may be punished if she attempts
to go against the feeder's wishes in this regard.
*The feedee consents to indefinite shut-in status.
Normally, under the terms of use of force or confinement, the feedee
may be required to remain housebound for certain periods. Under
this particular condition, the feeder may designate the feedee as a
permanent shut-in. This status will persist into the third
phase. She will not be allowed to leave the house except in the
case of emergency or when escorted by the feeder. In order for
this to remain in force beyond the second phase, the feeder and feedee
must have agreed to remaining together for the foreseeable
future. Otherwise there would be no way to enforce this condition
without the feeder present. The feedee expects to be supported
and have her needs provided for under this condition. The
ultimate goal of this condition is to have the feedee internalize the
shut-in mindset to that point that she would choose to remain
indefinitely housebound even when offered the freedom to do
otherwise. If, later on, the feeder should desire to leave, but
the feedee wishes to remain a shut-in, the feeder should help set her
up with some sort of home assistance that will allow her to maintain
this status. By agreeing to this condition, the feedee
understands that she might have to remain housebound for many years or
even for the remainder of her life.
*The feedee consents to the gradual use of 'world shrinking.'
The feedee must always consent to the use of room confinement or area
restraint under normal circumstances. This condition is more
extreme in allowing the feeder to 'shrink' the feedee's world and
narrow her focus strictly onto her indulgences and goals. By
agreeing to this condition, the feedee will automatically consent to
social isolation, as well. The feeder might start by confining
her in the house for a period of time and then move onto room
confinement. The feeder might then cover or paint over the room's
windows to further isolate her from the outside world, or may be placed
in a windowless room (if this is done for a length of time, the feedee
should be provided with sun lamps to prevent vitamin deficiency or
seasonal depression). The feedee might then be put in area
restraint or confined to her bed. The feeder has the right to
deny the feedee access to a tv or a computer, with the understanding
that doing so for long periods might be harmfully oppressive to the
feedee and force her to exit the contract. The feedee could also
be blindfolded or hooded in such a way as to force her attention
entirely on her food, hence her world would have 'shrunk' to her
immediate surroundings or to the activity of eating. As with the
standard room confinement option, the feedee shouldn't be isolated in
her room for longer than 6 months at a time. However, the feeder
must be heavily cautioned that extended use of the heavier isolation
such as blindfolding might be harmful to the feedee's psychological
health and might go against the intent of the contract. The
feeder understands that she will have no say in the depth of isolation
she will be subjected to or its duration.
*The feedee will submit to indefinite, premature disability.
Given the serious nature of this condition, it should only be
undertaken if the feeder truly enjoys obese, disabled women and is
fully willing to take on the responsibilities involved. Under
this condition, the feeder reserves the option to make the feedee
reliant on canes, walkers, or wheelchairs (though not to the point of
becoming truly immobile due to her weight). Under the normal
conditions, the feedee may be wheelchair-bound for brief or extended
periods, as long as she is rehabilitated for any physical weakness that
may develop. In this instance, the feedee may not expect any
rehabilitation. She will not be allowed to ‘fake’ it by simply
remaining in a wheelchair most of the time; she will become truly
disabled to the point of being unable to stand for more than a few
seconds. She must submit to bed and/or wheelchair
confinement, or other methods such as casting or bracing, that are done
with the intention of making her physically disabled. She
consents to the use of restraints to keep her secured in the proper
positions until the disabling process is complete. For instance,
the feeder may immobilize her legs until they are too weak to support
her weight for more than a few steps. In this instance, she may
be allowed the strengthening of her arms, since her need of them will
be increased. Due to her weight and the difficulty involved in
moving her, the feedee should be allowed enough strength to transfer
herself from the wheelchair to the toilet, sofa, bed, etc, without
constant assistance (though she may require the use of handrails, etc,
to aid herself). If her handicap is simpler, such as taking the
form of requiring a walker, she may be physically bound to it until she
becomes accustomed to its use and eventually reliant upon it.
Even if she fully intends to attempt to rehabilitate herself after the
second phase (or if the feeder only plans on having her
wheelchair-bound for a lengthy but limited period of time), the feedee
is expected to treat her disability as though it were permanent.
She is expected to adjust to the life of a disabled, obese woman, in
private as well as in public. She should be assisted in learning
how to go about daily life while disabled, such as dressing herself or
tending to her toiletries. She will eventually have to ‘come out’
socially to her friends as being disabled. She should provide a
plausible explanation in regards to her new situation, and should imply
that she has no hopes for recovery in the future. She will allow
her social circle to accept her status as permanently disabled, and she
must be prepared to handle their sympathy even if she feels
deceptive. She consents to allowing the feeder to remodel her
residence to make it more handicap-friendly (such as installing ramps,
widening doors, and having her bathroom remodeled to be fully
wheelchair-accessible, including handrails) even if her disability is
limited in duration. She may be required to assist in the payment
of such renovations, even if the situation is only intended to be
temporary. If the feeder intends for her disability to last for
several years or longer, even if she hopes to recover later on, the
feedee may be required to change her official medical status (insurance
records, driver’s license) to declare herself legally
handicapped. Within legal parameters, the feeder may have the
feedee apply for financial aid for disability for so long as she is
truly disabled. These things should help enable the feedee to
remain wheelchair dependent.
Normally, becoming dependent on a wheelchair would be a serious enough
complication to shift the contract into phase three. However,
since under this condition the disability is artificially induced and
not the natural result of her weight, the contract will continue as
usual. Unlike the temporary disabling allowed in the normal
terms, this condition should be viewed as potentially permanent.
It is not intended to last only for weeks or months, but rather to last
the duration of first and second phases and beyond. The feedee
understands that she will be made physically unable to walk far under
her own power, and she may remain dependent on a wheelchair for years
or as long as her feeder chooses. Even during the third phase,
when she is granted the freedom to rehabilitate herself, she may find
herself unable to regain all of her strength and freedom of
movement. Additional weight gain or the development of arthritis
may make it even more difficult to recover, if not impossible.
Therefore, she must be prepared for the possibility of remaining
completely or partially disabled for life before consenting to this
condition.
*The feedee will ‘yo-yo’ diet.
Normally, dieting should be strongly discouraged. However, it’s
not unusual for the feedee’s role-models to occasionally and
unsuccessfully attempt to lose weight, only to gain it all back.
In order to duplicate this lack of willpower, the feedee will be
allowed (or required) to diet and exercise her lower body as long as
she gains it all back. The amount of loss may be as little as
several pounds, but should not exceed thirty pounds. The feedee
is expected to erase any evidence of her accomplishment by surrendering
to temptation and regaining the lost weight. In addition, she
should always end up weighing more after the failed diet than when she
began. Any excess muscular development due to exercise should be
lost between diet attempts. This yo-yo diet may be repeated as
often as desired by the feeder. This behavior should set a
familiar and comfortable pattern for later in the feedee’s life, should
she attempt to diet during the third phase. The feedee
understands that, statistically, this sort of dieting is considered
unhealthy and that every failed attempt may make future attempts at
dieting that much more difficult, if not impossible.
*‘I will never diet again.’
Normally, the feedee’s weight gain is left up to her appetite during
the second phase, during which she may even lose weight as long as she
does not fall below the minimum and she is not denying her
cravings. If this condition is in place during the second phase,
the feedee agrees to not being permitted to fall below her maximum
acquired weight. Her weight will be monitored daily for any loss
or gain. Each time her weight increases, that amount will be
marked as her minimum weight. Should she fall below the minimum
weight and remain there for more than two weeks (weight loss due to
illness is excluded), it will be considered an attempt at dieting and
force may be used to return her weight to the minimum. In other
words, the feedee will never weigh less than the highest weight she
achieves, and every pound she gains will be considered a permanent
addition to her body. If, for example, she has gained up to 460,
then for as long as she is under the influence of the feeder she will
not weigh less than 460. If she surrenders to a craving for
cheesecake several times one week and finds she weighs 462, then 462
will be her new minimum weight. If she falls ill and loses weight
as a result, she is expected to gain and return to her minimum weight
as soon as she is well.
If this condition is in effect, the feedee should not allow it to
discourage herself from fully indulging in all of her cravings. She
should always be encouraged to eat whatever she desires, despite the
consequences even if those consequences are permanent gain. The
feeder may wait to convince the feedee to accept this condition only
after the point where she has lost control of her eating habits,
thereby insuring she will be unable to deny her whims and avoid
gaining. As a sub-condition, the feeder and feedee may agree upon
whether this condition will be suspended if immobility
encroaches. If it is agreed that it will remain in effect, then
the feedee will not be allowed to attempt to lose weight under any
circumstances, even to prevent immobility, and even if force is
required. If she is left alone in phase 3, the feedee is expect
to at least try to honor this condition by remaining at the weight she
was when she was left on her own for as long as she is physically able.
*‘I will never stop gaining.’
With this condition in place, the feedee understands that she will not
be permitted, under any circumstances, to stop gaining weight. By
accepting women who are unable to ever cease gaining as her role
models, the feedee is choosing by her own free will not just to satisfy
her cravings with the possibility of weight gain, but to intentionally
eat to gain at a steady rate for the rest of her life. In doing
so, the feedee must accept that she will unavoidably become immobile
sooner or later, and must continue to gain up to and beyond the point
of immobility. While the rate of gain will be agreed upon between
the feeder and feedee, the feedee should gain no less than 2 pounds per
month, or a minimum increase of 4 BMI points per year (beyond her BMI
55 minimum). Force may be used to keep the feedee gaining
steadily, though with the caveat that the intent is that the feedee is
intended to grow constantly, but not necessarily being fed to grow as
much as fast as possible. The feedee understands that she will
not be permitted to stop overeating, that she her weight will always
rise higher, and that even at the 2 pound bare minimum gain rate will
almost certainly lead her to become physically immobile within 10 years
after entering the second phase.
Even though immobility is inevitable, the feedee may still expect the
standard treatment of being allowed to remain mobile through
strengthening for as long as possible, as long as she continues to
gain. However, since this condition renders immobility
inevitable, the feedee has no protection against accelerated
immobility. Should the feedee resist perpetual gaining, the
feeder may use restraint to cause her to become prematurely immobile,
such as bracing her legs until they are too weak to support her own
weight. In addition to restraints, she may also be kept socially
isolated until she is permanently immobile (defined here as the
inability to stand up, + 75 pounds) in order to prevent outside
interference until she is beyond the point of no return. Once she
is physically helpless and dependent on the feeder, second thoughts
will be pointless and it should be a simple matter to keep her
eating. Thereafter, her only purpose will be to continually
acquire more fat.
Because of the extreme nature of this condition, it should not be an
option until at least two or more years into the second phase.
This should provide the feedee enough experience to more fully
comprehend what she will submitting to and whether she is capable of
it. She must understand that she might not be allowed to change
her mind and stop gaining. In order for this condition to be
fully enforced, the feeder should remain beyond the second phase.
It will be the feeder’s responsibility to care for the feedee and to
keep her gaining at the proper rate for the rest of her life,
regardless of whatever complications or health issues arise. The
feedee understand she will have a vastly reduced lifespan in exchange
for the experience of growing nonstop and may very well die within
several years of becoming immobile. While no definite predictions
can be made of how long this lifestyle can be maintained, the feedee
should plan on preparing her will prior to becoming permanently
immobile. The moment this condition is in place, the feedee is
expected to set her main goal in life to live long enough to reach at
least a BMI of 101.
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Escape Clauses
The contract is designed to discourage the feedee from having the
willpower or the desire to leave it prematurely before her fate is set
in stone. However, there are unforeseen scenarios that may cause
either the feeder or feedee to need to end the contract early:
incompatable personalities or goals, abuse, change of heart, etc.
While force and confinement are allowed for, these things should always
involve implied consent on the feedee's part. If the decision to
dissolve the contract is mutual, for any reason, both parties may void
it at any time and walk away. If just the feedee desires to leave
the contract at any point because of second thoughts, trepidation,
feeling overwhelmed, or other feelings of reluctance, the following
clauses are available. One of these should be agreed on
beforehand and the feedee is obligated to adhere to it before she will
be allowed to exit the contract without ill will.
*Default
This is the exit clause the feedee must agree to by default upon
entering the contract. If at some point the feedee has second
thoughts and decides to leave the contract, she must wait a period of
three additional months before walking away. This should make
sure she has time to think about and decide if leaving is what she
really wants. During this time, the feeder should try to work out
any issues the feedee may be having, and attempt to convince or entice
the feedee to remain in the contract for her own best interest.
For her part, the feedee must continue to follow the terms of the
contract as normal. If, after three months, the feedee still
wishes to leave, she may. If she decides to remain, then the
contract will continue as normal. If, at a later date, the feedee
has second thoughts again, she must wait another 3 months in every
instance.
*Final indulgence
This may be used in place of or in addition to the default
clause. If this in place, the feedee must consent to remaining an
additional 3 months, not counting however long it takes the feedee to
adjust to smoking one additional pack of cigarettes per day beyond what
she normally smokes, or she may smoke the usual amount but must switch
to a stronger brand. During this time, she must smoke the
stipulated amount of cigarettes per day, drink to drunkenness three
times per week, and allow the feeder to continue to feed her even if
she has already surpassed the 55 BMI minimum. The feeder should
feel free to put as much weight on the feedee as possible before her
time is up and the feedee should continue to eat whatever she is
given. If the feedee changes her mind during this time, her
indulgences will be allowed to return to normal.
*Medication therapy
If the feedee desires to leave the contract because she is unhappy with
her current state or out of fear of what may occur in her future, she
will seek anti-anxiety or sedative medication to normalize her
mood. She will use this medication for six months, during which
time she will continue with the contract as usual. If she is
still unable to continue after this time, she may leave the contract
(if an additional escape clause is not also in place). If the
medication proves effective enough in reducing her anxieties to prevent
her from exiting the contract, she is obligated to continue taking it
for the remainder of the first and second phases. She will do so
even while aware that her calm attitude is false and only intended to
keep her in the contract rather than to make her genuinely happy.
If she wishes at a later date to come off the medication and see how
she really feels, the feeder may either allow her to do so, or continue
to secretly medicate her without her knowledge. If she finds she
is still unhappy, she must immediately resume her medication. If
she is reluctant to resume her medication, force may be used in getting
her to take it until such time as she is carefree and compliant
again. She may choose to discontinue use in the third phase.
*Bulimia punishment
If the feedee rejects her destiny by trying to leave the contract
early, she may be punished by having one eating disorder (food
addiction) replaced with another, bulimia. She will have to
replicate the symptoms of bulimia by whatever means are
necessary. Only when the bulimic behavior is ingrained and
seemingly self-sustaining will she be allowed to leave.
*Permanent immobility
The feedee agrees to being fed to permanent immobility size before she
will be allowed to leave the contract. This is meant to be
intentionally severe to discourage the feedee from leaving: she should
only choose to leave if she fears that continuing with the contract
will be worse than certain immobility. Permanent immobility is
defined here as being bed-bound (too heavy to stand up under her own
power) plus 75 pounds. This amount of extra weight should render
her unable to regain her mobility in the future. In addition,
after she is no longer able to stand under full strength, her legs
should be braced or cast to cause rapid atrophy of the muscles, so that
she could not stand even if she could diet and return to a previously
mobile weight. She should not expect to ever be able to walk
again. The feedee need not be held to any other conditions during
the immobilization process, and may be allowed to attempt a healthier
lifestyle and to eat healthier foods, if she can still gain as rapidly
as possible. The feedee should be prepared and arrange whatever
assistance she will need when she can no longer move. The feeder
will bear no responsibility for the feedee after she has reached her
final size. If she changes her mind during her gaining towards
immobility, the contract will revert to normal.