Dear Readers,
Dear, I should say, with one unfortunate exception that I can think of, the Stalkadillo who is also stalking this website, I am nearly finished with my catharsis processing of these certain nightmare events, which have created such an overflow of poetry and essays. Therefore, unless the Stalkadillo continues, the flowering mass growth of this site will now begin to ebb to a hopefully relatively graceful end. I still have hundreds of poems and essays on this topic that aren't published here, and there remains a reasonably sizable cluster of writings that are not currently included in the trilogy series. Some of these unspoken for writings are likely to be gradually donated to other anti-stalking anti-domestic violence websites. We will see what is to be donated as the future unfolds. I also have thousands of writings that are not about the topic of stalking. I sincerely hope that all of this site's readers, with the exception of one, have found this website to be somewhat helpful in your own coping with aggressive obsessed and potentially dangerous perpetrators. Even though this website was not created to extend help in the form of counseling or legal aid to other victims, perhaps it has been good for some to know that they aren't alone in their struggle to survive abuse of this kind. I hope that this site's purpose has been easily understood and that its catharsis or processing and the related emotions have not been misread. I hope that all readers, with the exception of one, will not breeze through this site and leave holding onto any potential misinterpretations. My email address, available to readers of this site, is posted on the top of the menu page. I am repeatedly told the menu page is really called something else, but I refuse to accept that! To me it's a menu page! If any person, with the exception of one previously mentioned entity, have any questions please feel invited to write me. I can't promise a speedy reply because I truly do have a lot to keep me busy, but I will respond to your emails as soon as I am able. Eventually I would like to get a personal P.O. box so that I can also accept snail mail, but for the time being email will have to suffice. I am open to offers to create mirror websites with approved people only.
I would like to remind everyone that the names used in this website's poetry, essays, questions, emails and picture captions aren't the real name of any alleged perpetrator I know of. I would like to remind everyone too that should you write me I cannot give out any alleged perpetrator's name, address, phone number, email address, and whatnot. This kind of exposure simply wasn't this website's purpose and I see no good reason to change this purpose now. Should the A-P plunge into Chop Sue-eeey, it would likely become more than feasible to publish this public information for all to see. In fact, this information would automatically become available on the State or county's website as all cases of Chop Sue-eeey are made public here. I have been encouraged to publish more of what I may, but at this time I have chosen to withdraw for a little while and observe the landscape of this situation. If fate, the A-P, and good sense will have the grace to allow, it is time to release more of this agony, terror and outrage over the injustice of stalking and what I have come to call domestic terrorism and focus on some other pursuits. I really hope that all victims of stalking, domestic terrorism and domestic abuse will focus consistently on their safety and the safety of their family members and friends. Although this website has a lot of poetry and essays, which are very sarcastic and bold, I don't recommend that any victims decide their stalker or abuser is harmless. I feel I must remind everyone that an abusive personality can change his MO at any moment. So don't think you've got your perpetrator all figured out and that you've perfectly measured the ceiling on what he is capable of!
Another point, one which I really wish I didn't have to make mention of, is that I should remind everyone that the A-P continues to sign certain guest books with all sorts of nasty grams. So far, no real signature has been made available, and it appears that false signatures have been used. It is my best guess that this A-P will begin eventually circling the rounds on all websites connected with this one through the web rings and God only knows what else. It is possible that others, readers of this site and whatnot, will be emailed. All I can offer to those who may be contacted is a warning: Please be careful. I can't and won't tell you not to respond to your email, I will only tell you to apply some caution. Don't trust too fast. Use good logic. Think everything through thoroughly before you make a terrible mistake and end up a co-victim. Research what is said to you for yourself. I can't guarantee any other person that he or she will risk ending up becoming a co-victim, but I can express my feelings on this. My feelings on this topic have become my generalized feelings about all occasions of meeting any and all new people in any setting.
I would like to take this opportunity to extend a massive heartfelt thank you to Gunther, Cyris, M.Mc., Shyloh, and all others who have been so extremely helpful and supportive.
I Wish Everyone Safety, Peace, Contentment, Good Health, Abundant Hope, Stability, Happiness, Success in the Purest of Pursuits, Empathy and Kindness.
Sincerely,
Lady Lost
By Lady Lost
Copyright � 2003
All rights reserved.
No rights to copy, print, download, duplicate, or display elsewhere other than this specific website granted or implied without the direct written permission of the author. Please contact agent of the author: Mr. Gunther S. Vanludwick at [email protected]
**As with all poetry, essays, correspondence and/or published letters, e-mails or other communications presented on this webpage, this work is a personal subjective expression of its author's own feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and opinions. This statement is in no way intended to invalidate or minimize the powerful and poignant experiences of this author. However, this statement is intended to indicate that creative expressions such as these written forms of artwork are derived from their author's own personal feelings, thoughts, beliefs and opinions.
**Both Lady Lost, myself and all others involved strongly discourage victims of stalking and other crimes of domestic terrorism from becoming lax in their security measures or regarding their perpetrator(s) as too cowardly to alter the familiar mode of operations at any moment towards personal aggression. We encourage all victims to remain on the alert for circumstances of extreme personal danger advancing from their perpetrator. This website is not designed to provide legal or psychiatric services to either victims or perpetrators. Please seek the services of a professional in the required field if such services are needed.
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