About the Admin - Admin Sith Lord Empress Virgo and Star Wars Singles
I am a single star wars fan who is looking for a long term relationship with the goal of marriage. I'm into anime, cosplay, I go to conventions, I collect swords, have done kendo, archery, am into video games, mtg and various other things. 90s Highlander the series got me more into swords, sword collecting and fight chero. I still want to learn light saber cherography but had a bad expencience with the Saber Guild (see below). I am interested in fencing and I took kendo. Pics of the chaos when you take your sabers to kendo practice below.
Anyway due to Star Wars, I fell in love with the light saber. I created the group to meet fellow single star wars fans like me. Ones that aren't toxic, bullies, elitist or gatekeepers.
Being a woman and seeing the problems of other women in dating spaces, I made my group so that you have to ask permission by a woman if you would like to direct message her (dm) her to chat. This provides a safe space for women to not be harassed.
Also by watching other groups and their lack of organization, we have designated posting areas. Therefore there aren't a million posts asking if anyone is in a certain location. We have designated posts where you can comment with your light sabers, star wars toys, make your intros and so on. In addition, we have sub groups for various locations like US States, Canada, the UK and more. Making it easier for fellow star wars fans to meet, chat and make friends locally.
Star Wars Singles is a SAFE SPACE. So if you're like me and you like the sequels and the prequels, you are welcomed. If you're like me and you like star wars, star trek and everything in between, you are welcomed. Bullies, passive aggressiveness, gatekeeping, elitism will NOT be tolerated. Racism will not be tolerated.
Fangirls like me who also ship Reylo, Stormpilot, Oshamir, KyHux, etc., are very welcome. The group is run by a fan girl so The Stranger/ Qimir thirst traps, Adam Driver thirst traps, fics, fan edits, all that is welcome.
I am the Sith Lord Empress Virgo (Empress in homage of the Empress played by Michelle Yeoh in Star Trek Discovery which I love and the fact that I moderate with an iron fist).
You can learn more about star wars singles and join at - AllMyLinks.com/StarWarsSingles
If anyone is curious about my BAD experience with the Saber Guild, you can learn about that here, one of the driving forces for the creation of star wars singles. I wanted to make a group/club where people can make friends who enjoy Star Wars WITHOUT a costume requirement. Where you don't need a costume or get one or become an "official" member just to hang out and make friends unlike certain Temples.
I had made MY OWN group after being kicked out of the main SWS that went private. All I posted about was STAR WARS. I didn't direct men to my profile. I didn't DM them. I said I'll only talk in comments. I, a nerd since the 90s was claimed as bait, too good to be true, etc.
The men would go to my profile (didn't direct them to it), go to my socials like IG (same), then go to my website, then go to my pics page after much digging (no one told them to), see that I had a certain website and then report me on the main group saying I'm only there for "clients" even tho I never posted about it. Them angry that I wouldn't talk in DMs where I said repeatedly that I will only talk in the comments of the group related to my star wars posts.
The mods (Jen) saw my posting history showing my legos, my light sabers, books, clothes and all of that. Never once mentioned to talk privately or take it elsewhere. The other mod, male, said they kept getting complaints about me. Therefore they kicked me out and so I made my own group. One that is friendly to girls who have certain sites. I made that site during the PANDEMIC when pretty much EVERYONE was doing it because NO ONE had any income and I was furloughed from BOTH my jobs. I made the group because apparently, if you have certain pages that you don't advertise that people have to dig really hard for, it means you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship with the goal of marriage like me and the only thing you care about is making money.
I was there for a genuine connection. I got out of a BAD relationship with a Star Wars elitist gatekeeper named Greg H. He told me I wasn't a "real fan" because I didn't read the novels or could quote the originals like he could. Told me I wasn't a real fan because I liked the sequels and prequels. Went on out how women are ruining Star Wars and how it's "woke." How romance needs to be kept out of Star Wars when it was that very romance, ReyLo and Anakin/Padame that got me into Star Wars. When it was diversity that made me watch.
I hate the real fan fake fan foolishness and it wasn't going to be tolerated in my group. Just like I hate when people bash Star Trek. Yes, I'm all about that space, about that space, no tribbles. I like both! You can like both. Guys can be such bullies. Anyway who is to say he wasn't a real fan? Has he cosplayed Star Wars like I have? No. He didn't own any light sabers like I do. I've gone to 501st, Mando Merc meets and hung out with them personally. Was invited to events like Air and Scare with them. Been to Temples to try to learn lightsaber choreography. Has loads of merch and met the cast of movies. Couldn't I say he wasn't a real fan too? Just saying.
I joined that group in hopes that a guy would sit me down and watch it with me, explain it to me, not laugh and tease me like my ex. A guy where we could join the lightsaber choreography guilds/clubs/temples/legions and make cool videos as we Star Wars cosplay together. But alas, the drama so I had to make my own group.
And SURPASSED them
