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����������St. Aelred was a Cistercian, a Trappist as Cistercians are known today. St. Bernard of Clairvaux was one of the best-known Cistercians. In fact, he inspired St. Aelred's first book on love and caused the founding of Rievaulx, the monastery (abbey) St. Aelred served for 20 years as abbot.����������Thomas Merton is perhaps the best-known of modern world Trappist. Like Father Merton, Abbot Aelred was a writer -- in many spiritually-related fields. His most popular works, those which gained him a place in late patristic literature, are two treatises on love and friendship: The Mirror of Love (often called Mirror of Charity) and Spiritual Friendship. Both are treasure houses. ����������Spiritual Friendship is modeled after Cicero's famous essay, On Friendship, which St. Aelred, in a light and conversational style Christianized into a delightful work on true friendship. ����������In Mirror of Love the reader will find sublime spiritual heights and delightfully human descriptions of what a true friend is.
����������A model of holiness, he reveals a glimpse of his holiness in some prayers gleaned from his works. We eagerly await translations of his sermons being prepared by Cistercian monks now.
����������St. Aelred lived a hundred years before St. Thomas Aquinas. He was not afflicted with all the hangups of Thomasian dualism, but was unfortunately tinted by St. Augustine's "anti-sex, anti-body" doctrines. Aelred's struggle to express the wonders of love and heed Augustine's nonsense makes him a fellow traveler with millions of gays and lesbians today who want to live in love because they are human. St. Aelred, though not a perfect role model of "coming out" deserves to be our patron because of the holiness of his life in the struggle to love as "Jesus loved the beloved disciple."
����������Known as a Christocentric twelfth-century monastic humanist, "his most famous work, On Spiritual Friendship, which explores the relation between spiritual and human friendship in a monastic context, reveals his own conscious homosexual orientation and gives love between persons of the same gender its most profound expression in Christian theology."��--��Dictionary of the Middle Ages,Vol. 4, American Council of Learned Societies
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