Dear Spank with love, A friend of mine told me about your site and how you might be able to help me with a delicate matter, I am a 49 year old single mother of two young adults my daughter 25 and my son 23, recently my son moved back home after losing his job and couldn't afford his rent. I was happy to let him move back home until he finds another job, it's been twelve weeks now and things are going well and I am delighted to have him living with me, but the other day he confessed to me that he and some friends of his came out of a bar in the early hours of the morning feeling very drunk and completely smashed up someone's truck, they smashed in the windscreen and urinated in the back of it, and they all managed to get away before the police turned up. Well I was totally shocked of such behavior especially coming from a 23 year old, I can see he feels very guilty about this which was what compelled him to tell me and he asked me if I was going to inform the police, well I have thought long and hard over this and decided not to tell the police because he could get into a lot of trouble and I couldn't do it to my son. However I do want him to be punished for this and I don't know what would be a suitable punishment, the fact that he feels really guilty about this made me think his punishment should be a very firm and effective one, we have discussed what his punishment should be and at one point he said that if I wanted to spank him, he would except it.I was a little surprised that a 23 year old was willing to take a spanking as I haven't spanked him since he was 14, but after talking to close friend, she told me about your website and after reading through it, I came to the conclusion that it could be the most suitable punishment for the offence due to how guilty he feels, so I asked him if he thought he should get a spanking as his punishment and he thinks he deserves one and we both agreed that it would have to be a quite harsh spanking but I don't know how I should spank a 23 year old man for such an offence, should it be on his bare bottom? or is he to old and it would be to humiliating? should I use a implement? if so what one?and how many strokes?.I would be very grateful if you could give me advice on this.

Well I've told him that I don't want him to have contact with friends involved with him on that night while he is living with me and that he will soon be receiving a good spanking for his involvment, when I worked out how best to spank him.

Many Thanks

k(...)

(from the UK)
 

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Hello,

I'm a teenaged guy who is spanked for most misdeeds. I had to work really hard to get my dad to agree to spank me, but it was worth it. I don't like getting spanked at all, but they are good discipline and a LOT better than getting grounded. I've already noticed an improvement in my overall behavior and grades, so the spankings are helpful, too.

Anyway, the reason that I'm writing is that before I convinced my dad to spank me, I talked with a friend of mine who is spanked, and he helped me put together my "case," and he was really helpful and kind. If there are any other teens out there who would like some advice like my friend gave me, they can email me and I'll try to help.

(You can publish my email address)

B(...)