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I'm a free-spirited advocate
for all children,
even some adult children,
that are victimized by
'Egotistical Divorce Crimes.'

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If you are a parent and divorced, why don't you take the path of enlightenment and view YOURSELF with the eye of a god. I would like to see something done to help parents realize that their behaviors and actions in separation and divorce are affecting their children in a very negative way.

Our children all over America are suffering from 'Egotistical Divorce Crimes.' I am concerned for our younger generation's problems evolving from egotistical attitudes and lack of accountability exhibited by parents after separation and divorce. My inference from experience is that the majority of our children suffer not from "the divorce," but the "aftermath of the divorce." That parents demean parents, and sometimes grandparents, and the overall grudge war that is forever in the life of so many children can be the most destructive element in a child's life.
These destructive attitudes tear down the walls of security and love between parents and children,
causing the parents to be sightless to the
needs of thier children.
While remaining divorced, parents can and need to discover a "new mutual-love and respect" for each other as Fathers and Mothers of their children. Exhibiting this "new love and respect" for the other parent will encourage their children to find a renewed love and respect for their parents and themselves.

"Little shells, scattered on the sand;
tossed about by the waves
from the sea of hostility."
Dedicated to all the children in America that are victimized by Egotistical Divorce Crimes.
In Loving Memory of My Firstborn Son, Scott Michael (05.09.68 - 03.05.96)

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If you are interested in this issue read my essay entitled Children of Divorce. If you know any parents that reading my experiences would help, please feel free to share it with them.