Is there someone made for you? I mean, only one person? Could you be walking down the street one day, and pass “the one” that was meant for you? Would you go through life with lousy or no relationships at all, just because you didn’t stop to help him pick up the newspaper he dropped?
I was wondering this, because sometimes I get annoyed with people. And then I think, maybe I just didn’t give them a chance. They could be really cool, if I could just get over the little thing that’s annoying me. Maybe they’re “meant” for me, and I’m gonna throw it all away?
Relationships are soo hard. Do I really even want one? I like just caring about what I need. When you’re in a relationship, you have to always think of the other person. And with my luck, I always get someone who continues to think of only himself while in the relationship. I do all the work, and they do nothing.
So, say I find someone who seems to be interested in me. He listens to me, and actually seems to care what I have to say. But there’s something that bothers me. Is there something, or do I just not want a relationship? Am I afraid of “the one”? Love means marriage and kids and sharing everything. I’m not ready for that.
I guess taking it one day at a time is my best bet. I also have to keep in mind that if I’m not interested in someone, then it must not be “meant to be”. But hey, I’ll give them plenty of chances to change my mind. I’ll try to overlook the annoyances. It never hurts to help someone pick up a newspaper. They just might turn out to be great friends!