Update (5/24/04): Yeah, I'm a P4 now and
basically 90% of the class is married or engaged. Damn...
Doojie likes:
1)Big guy. On the inside.. His understanding of the world, universe, etc must be vast and unique. He must be a rock on which I can lean on. Included is his own security in himself. No worrying about what other people think about him or his world (including his woman and his pooltable/dining table).
2)Excitable. I admire passion in people. In a namja is no different. Strong passion, desire, etc. Inability to do this kinda shows insecurity, and as forementioned, security is important in a man
(and woman). Included in this is a constant striving to better himself at things he is lacking in. He will have interesting interests (like me ~.~).
3)Perceptive. I guess I can't expect a total mind reader. But everybody has these tendencies. Like a twitch in the eyes when they're very tired. Or a certain smile that means they're hurt by what you've just said. Things that show what you like, etc. Maybe this knowledge only comes with time and experience, but I don't want to get married and then realize he can't read me at all. And if he can't tell what I like, dislike, etc, how could we be happy? Especially since I'm not the 'open book', 'heart on my sleeve' kinda gal.. :\
4)Partner. Lately I noticed that I get really really mad when people put down "girls". Well, I guess that isn't really new... Even the fact that men are guys and women are girls is just >:[! Even my own little brother was watching LOR III and was like "Is she a girl?! Don't tell me a girl is gonna fight!" Women should not be expected to feed your lazy @$$, clean up after you, have your kids, and then take care of them and you for the rest of your (or her) life. God made her from a rib, meaning your side - not your foot or your head. yadda yadda yadda.. But I don't want most of the burden either. I think a couple should be a team, keeping each other company and helping each other along on this great road trip called life.
