Enjoying Anal Toys
What are anal toys?
Anal toys have a particular stigma associated with them that other sex toys just don't have; anal toys are inserted into the rectum. As children many of us may have learned that the rectum is a dirty, forbidden place. What many of us did not learn is that the anus is an erogenous zone for both men and women. The rectum contains a collection of nerves which are used in the waste excretion process. When these nerves are stimulated in the right way, they can provide immense pleasure. Furthermore, men can experience a great deal of pleasure having their prostate gland massaged with anal toys. The prostate gland is associated with the nerves that trigger orgasm and when it is massaged with an anal toy the results can be electrifying.
How do I use anal toys?
Anal toys are a safe form of enjoyment when you follow the necessary precautions. It is essential to use lubricant every time anal toys are inserted. In addition, anal toys should have a flange or handle which prevents the toy from proceeding too far into the anus. You must be gentle when playing with anal toys. The anus was not constructed with penetration in mind, so the insertion of a long object (over 4 inches) can cause problems in the lower intestines. Your large intestine takes a large turn to the right and a long, firm anal toy can tear the surrounding tissues. Finally and most importantly, you must learn to relax. The ability to relax your rectum is essential to the enjoyment of anal toys.
How do I shop for anal toys?
Examples of Anal Toys
(1) Anal Beads: placed in anus and then pulled out, sometimes at orgasm
(2) Butt Plug: stays in anus without much thrusting
(3) Anal probe: used to massage prostate and for thrusting
(4) Anal Vibrator
When purchasing anal toys, it is important to examine what it is you want from the toy. Don't think you can fit something huge up your rectum if you've never tried to before. Look for anal toys which suit your lifestyle and desires. Be wary of products which could be potentially dangerous unless you know how to use them. These include fisting devices, spiked dildos, hard dildos and anal beads. Such products can tear or puncture the rectum and colon if not used properly, and in the case of loosely connected anal beads, become lodged in the anus and have to be surgically removed. Look for anal toys that are sturdy, soft to the touch, pliable, rounded and come with an enlarged flange or handle at the end.
Type of stimulation
The type of stimulation you want is a major determinant when buying an anal toy. For those who want to engage in anal intercourse by using an anal toy strapped on to a partner, try using a strap-on dildo. Butt plugs and other anal toys (used for masturbation and anal stimulation) often have ridges which further stimulate the nerves in the anus. When shopping for a butt plug make sure that it has a wide base which will not allow it to slip into your rectum. Look carefully at what the plug is made from and its shape. There are some plugs which profess to follow the natural curve of your rectum but since each body is a bit different you may wish to avoid any plug that enters the body more than 4 inches. Try to find a plug that is made of a somewhat soft material that will bend while it is in your rectum. Silicone and jelly butt plugs are usually a good place to start.
Another product which slowly stimulates the anus are anal beads. Sometimes referred to as "Oriental Love Beads" this anal toy looks like a bunch of marbles connected by a string. These beads are inserted into the rectum and are then slowly removed and pleasure arrives as each bead is pulled out of the opening. Some people enjoy having the beads removed at the point of climax. For men the stimulation of the prostate during orgasm can be extremely gratifying. When shopping for love beads make sure that the string connecting the beads is strong. Usually nylon cord is the best material for the beads. Additionally, you may find that the beads have some rough edges. These edges must be smoothed out before they are used to minimize cuts to the anus.
Dildos work as well
Toys which are thought to be for vaginal stimulation can be extremely satisfying when used anally. Electric vibrators can give intense stimulation to the outer regions of the anus which are very receptive to stimulation. Dildos are also generally acceptable for anal use. When shopping for a safe dildo intended for anal use, remember to look for a product with a wide bottom to prevent it from becoming lodged in the rectum. Also remember to find a product which is soft and pliable, to put the least amount of stress on the delicate tissue lining the rectum.