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"The lion and the calf shall lie down together, but the calf won't get much sleep."
ENGINEERING NOTE
"Do not meddle in the affairs of cats, for they are subtle and will piss on your computer!"
We hear so much these days about violence against women. In Our opinion violence, whether it's directed against a man, a woman, a child, or even an animal is still VIOLENCE... and it's
WRONG!
To the UNinformed who pride themselves on their open-mindedness... read, and perhaps learn something!
"Sex for pleasure is a normal human drive and is acceptable when it brings pleasure to both partners, from this perspective, D/s is simply a 'different' kind of loving."
- Gloria Brame
NB: Gloria Brame is the author of "Different Loving - The World of Sexual Domination and submission" published in 1993 in the United States by Villard Books, a division of Random House, Inc., New York, and simultaneously in Canada by Random House of Canada Limited, Toronto.
There is a marked difference between DOMination and submission (D/s) and Bondage and Discipline (B&D). In D/s relationships there is almost no pain or humiliation. The charge gives up control to the Dominant (Master/Mistress)
willingly, it is their gift to Them, their punishments are light. Generally a word of disappointment or a look of disatisfaction is enough to cause tears. In the B&D relationship punishment for misdeeds or failure to obey is severe.
WARNING
"No more B&D and cunnilingus... I keep getting tongue tied."
Hmmmmm... Chocolate sauce is good on "vanilla" ice cream too!
A submissive person
As a submissive person, you find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment in being submissive to another in a loving relationship. you are not weak, or stupid, you are a strong individual, with firm views and a clear concept of what you want out of life. you do not serve out of shame or weakness, butt out of PRIDE, STRENGTH, and LOVE.
THE FOUR CORNERPOSTS
There are FOUR cornerposts (no pun intended) to a successful D/s relationship. In some ways its like building a house.
1. RESPECT
Starting with the excavation, this is where we begin to gain knowledge of one another; then
2. TRUST
Into the excavation we pour the concrete for the foundation. Respect and Trust must be a part of the mix before true submission can take place;
3. LOVE
This is symbolized by the completed edifice. Love brings the desire to serve and to please, and gives Master/Mistress control over Their charge; and finally...
4. COMMITTMENT
Committment brings the relationship to life permitting it to develop, to grow, and to be strengthened through both bad as well as good times... and just as a house requires on-going maintenance to prevent deterioration and collapse, so does the D/s relationship.
THIS DOMINANT'S CREED
1. We are Dominant, and We accept this charge into Our loving care and protection.
2. We will provide the physical and emotional necessities of life for Our charge, and they will know Our love as We choose for them to know it.
3. We will use Our charge's body as We wish, such usage to be limited only by Our responsibility not to damage either their physical, or mental, or spiritual being.
4. We shall establish a clearly understood set of RULES for Our charge and We shall enforce them in a firm butt responsible manner. These RULES will be for their protection as well as their discipline, and will, to the best of Our ability, foresee every eventuality and control the most minute aspect of their behavior.
5. Within the self-imposed limitations above, We undertake to train and discipline Our charge in a manner calculated to guide them toward a perfection of obedient submission that We know they can never achieve. In doing so, it will be Our goal to reward their efforts by dispensing the punishment they require and deserve.
6. We shall endeavor to provide for Our charge's necessities of life, even in the event of Our passing or be otherwise rendered incapable of caring for them.
Click HERE for THE 10 MOST IMPORTANT RULES for the Novice submissive
Enter, and know your Protocol before these Dominants...
"Everyone is weird... some of us are proud of it."