Chat Rooms

what a topic.. I could probably sit here and write about it for hours.. but I’ll try my best not to bore you that way.. I can sum it all up in one word – GARBAGE..

allow me to elaborate.. I’ve had a lot of experience, in very many different chat rooms, and here’s the bottom line – in all of them.. they’re full of jealous, hating, spiteful people.. people who do their best to destroy relationships, blood sucking leeches.. it doesn’t matter what kind of relationship it is, none of them are safe.. not friends, not marriages, not couples.. and you know what amuses me the most?  these people sit and talk GARBAGE about people they don’t even know.. they create these lies, these fantasies in their feeble minds and they attempt to make them real.. they attempt to destroy each others character, they defame one another.. and what amuses me the most?  they’re all doing it to each other, behind each other’s back.. that makes me laugh! 

wanna know what makes me sick and sad?  when those same people, create these disgusting, horror filled fantasies in their minds because they have nothing better to do.. when they attempt to desecrate another good persons character because they are jealous of what the other person has, or they wish they could be more like them.. when they have nothing better to do that call the most virtuous girl a whore, or call the most caring mother a wench, or call the hardest working person around them a deadbeat.. I’m beginning to wonder if everyone in chat isn’t mentally ill.. especially those who THRIVE on destroying others.. hasn’t it always been said that those who pick on others are insecure with themselves?  well there you go.. I guess that just about says it all.. so in chat, we have all of these insecurities huddling together, feeding off of one another, just trying, as hard as they can to destroy someone else’s name so that they can build a better, stronger one for themselves.. it perplexes me.. it makes me want to investigate further.. perhaps I’ll do my doctoral thesis on the fuck ups of chat.. woo woo!  (pardon my potty mouth)

and for all of you who think that chat isn’t real.. then you obviously haven’t been around long enough to notice, so don’t email me telling me that chat isn’t real.. or to go out and find the real world.. the real world is becoming the internet, and the internet is full of chat rooms.. it’s very real when people begin to meet each other, form relationships and friendships and begin to depend on one another.. and don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying only evil comes from the internet.. I’ve met some incredible people from the net.. matter of fact, I met my best friend through the net, these chat rooms in particular.. and I wouldn’t give her up for the world.. but I think that one must be careful of how involved they become, and become even more aware of the types of people that are found in chat.. be aware there are good, but be more aware that most people seem to be deceitful, hurtful, vengeful and spiteful.. and to all you new comers, don’t get sucked into the drama.. don’t find yourself lost in chat, hanging out with the wrong crowd.. learn from another’s mistake..

7/31/01