1.
Thou Shalt Smile
2. Thou Shalt Show Generosity
3. Thou Shalt Approach Flirting Partners As Thou
Would A Friend
4. Thou Shalt Nurture
5. Thou Shalt Show Concern For A Third Person
Or Idea
6. Thou Shalt Censor Thy Thoughts & Actions
(Think Before You Act)
7. Thou Shalt Always Keep Something In Reserve
8. Thou Shalt Remember The Power Of Touch
9. Thou Shalt Makes Mistakes
10. Thou Shalt Make Memories
The Fine Art Of Flirting
by
Joyce Jillson
How to Flirt and Not Look like you are in Heat! Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that men need to really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.
Lesson #1:
Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need
to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure
it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him
and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by
you and at least smile..he's checking you out a little more.) The third
time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on
his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting
and it will be a cinch.
Lesson #2:
Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them
a secret...Then whisper in their ear: "I just love your tie...can I buy
it from you when you are done with it?"
Lesson #3: Don't
sit with other women...men don't want you to reject them in front of an
audience. If you do go out with a friend...separate every so often or take
a breather from talking...men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting
you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't
want to interrupt.)
Lesson #4: Treat
men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts
...be nice....All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you
laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval..you are cutting your
chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying
something like: "It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name?
Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend
who would be interested in you."
Lesson #5: IF
he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version
of "Flirting with Greatness" and ask him to go practice on someone else.
Firmly say that "lines" with sexual overtones are not only not attractive
to you but to most other women in the world. If all else fails give men
who need a tune up on flirting this phone # and I'll take care of them
for you. 216-521-5683 (521-Love)
Lesson #6:
Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch
to see who's checking you out.
Lesson #7:
Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the
redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch
your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings
that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.
Lesson #8:
Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position
is always a signal you are interested.
Lesson #9: Give
him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash
him your most winning smile.
Lesson #10:
Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging
someone. Be generous! Have Fun NOW!